Ruan Xia was too surprised, hugged Wang Zai, and asked in a low voice: "Wang Zai, what are you talking about?"
Wang Zai is a cool boy, although he wanted to cry, but he still endured it, and he leaned into her arms, "Mom, I like you, the teacher and dad have said, if you like you, you must respect you, and you are happy Well, mom, if you are happy only after divorcing dad, then you can divorce and leave me alone, but you have to come back to see me often."
"Do you know what divorce means?" Ruan Xia asked tentatively.
"I know." Wang Zai sniffed, "Jiang Yuang's parents divorced, they don't live together, Jiang Yuang lives with his mother now."
"Who told you that I and your father are going to divorce?"
Ruan Xia's heart was full of alarm bells. It is impossible for the aunt at home to break their mouths in front of the children. It is impossible for Ruan's father and Ruan's mother. The adults in this villa area will not tell their children such things for no reason, so who else
Wang Zai couldn't stand the cross-examination at all, so he recruited all of them in a short while, "You and Dad didn't sleep together, you just want a divorce."
He paused, and said quite aggrieved: "I originally wanted you to reconcile, but I don't know what I can do, and I don't know about your adults, but, Mom, I like you, and I like you the most. You, as long as mom is happy, that's fine."
Ruan Xia couldn't help laughing, "So you have already thought about it, if your parents divorce, you will follow your father?"
Wangzai nodded cautiously, "Mother has grandparents, but father only has Wangzai."
Ruan Xia was stunned for a moment, and then understood what Wang Zai meant.
It is true that Song Tingshen has no other relatives around him. He lost his parents when he was very young. It can be said that if she and him are about to divorce one day, then he is willing to let Song Tingshen give up everything he has, as long as the children follow him.
Even little kids know how much Dad needs him.
Wang Zai is really sensible. He was born as a rich second generation, and he won directly at the starting line. But what is rare is that his perspective of thinking about things has jumped out of the scope of children.
In the world of many children, it is generally self-centered.
Ruan Xia has seen more than once children who acted coquettishly with their parents for the sake of their favorite toys, and even simply lay on the ground, insisting on achieving their goals.
If you like it, you will get it.
But now the little fat man in her arms told her that as long as mother is happy, that's fine, and if mother wants to divorce, then leave.
Ruan Xia thought of a friend of hers from the past. That friend had a bad relationship with her parents since she was a child, and her father was too lazy to work and sometimes even did it. She clearly saw it in her eyes, but when her mother asked her if she could get a divorce, she did not. Shake your head.
Many years later, this friend told Ruan Xia that she regretted it because her mother had never been happy for so many years.
It seems that in the eyes of many people, becoming a mother should focus on the children's joys, sorrows, sorrows and joys. One's own emotions... are no longer important. Personal yet
Ruan Xia hugged Wang Zai and smelled his body. This chubby and soft child made her feel so soft inside.
"Baby, mom and dad won't get divorced now, but don't worry, dad and I are not unhappy." Ruan Xia said slowly, "It's just that you don't understand things about adults. When you get older, mom Tell you again, but I want to tell you one thing today, I hope you can keep it in your heart, your father and I love you very much, even if we are no longer husband and wife one day, this will not affect us the love for you."
Wang Zai seemed to understand, but still nodded, "I see. Are you really not going to divorce?"
Ruan Xia didn't know whether to laugh or cry, "Yes."
"Then why don't you sleep together?"
Ruan Xia thought for a while, "Why don't you ask your father?"
She had already answered this question before, but obviously she couldn't fool the child anymore.
She decided to throw the ball to Song Tingshen.
"Okay." Wangzai came back to life with full blood. He rushed two steps away, turned around again, rushed into her arms like a small cannonball, and hugged her waist, "Mom, are you happy now?"
Ruan Xia nodded honestly, "Very happy."
Although she would miss her parents once she wakes up as another person, but she believes that since things are already like this, thinking about what is there and what is not all day long will only increase troubles, not to mention standing still. From a realistic point of view, what reason does she have to be unhappy now
"That's good." Wang Zai felt relieved, "I just want to make my mother happy. If my mother is happy, I will be happy."
"What a good boy."
***
"Dad, why don't you and Mom sleep together?"
Facing his son's questioning, Song Tingshen didn't know how to answer.
He remembered Ruan Xia's explanation before, and followed suit, "Because your mother sleeps late every day, I'm afraid I'll disturb her sleep."
Wang Zai snorted twice, "I'm not the kind of kid who is easy to lie, Dad, you said, be honest, don't be honest with me just because I'm a kid."
Song Tingshen: "..."
He still doesn't know what happened, and Ruan Xia didn't notify him in advance on WeChat.
For the first time, Song Tingshen felt poor in words in front of his son.
Why don't you sleep with Ruan Xia
This marriage itself is not pure, not to mention that after marriage, Ruan Xia was pregnant with a child, and the two had an agreement and reached a consensus, so from the first day of their wedding, he never slept with her.
But now how can he explain to his son that the combination of father and mother is only because of you, but in fact they have no feelings for each other, so they didn't sleep together
Although Song Tingshen made up his mind a long time ago to be a good father, an honest father, and a father who can be friends with his children, but at this time, he really couldn't tell the truth.
"Do you want mom and dad to sleep together?" Song Tingshen didn't answer his question.
Wang Zai thought for a while, "Other parents sleep together."
It means to think.
Song Ting knew that as the child got older, the way he and Ruan Xia got along before was no longer desirable, and it was not even good for Wang Zai's growth, so he bit the bullet and took the initiative to talk to her.
But now, should he and Ruan Xia sleep in the same room and on the same bed
This is obviously not desirable.
Even if they are legally husband and wife now, there is nothing wrong with sleeping on the same bed, but what does this mean for adult men and women? Wang Zai doesn't understand, doesn't he understand
Thinking about this, Song Tingshen said: "But every parent has a different way of getting along. Some parents do sleep together, but some sleep separately because of different habits. Just like Dad, sometimes he has to work very late. At night, if I sleep with your mother, it will indeed disturb her."
"Then you won't sleep with your mother in the future?"
Song Ting hesitated deeply, "I don't know."
"I don't know?" Wang Zai couldn't understand the world of adults more and more. Fortunately, he was no longer interested in this question, so he waved his hand, "I don't care about you."
As long as the parents are not going to divorce, as long as the parents are not unhappy, then it's fine.
Wang Ziyu said earnestly: "I find that you adults are really troublesome, so I don't want to bother with you. If you want to divorce, just let me know in advance."
... boy why are you so cool
Song Tingshen was stunned, and couldn't believe that these words came from his four-year-old son, "Who said I'm going to divorce your mother?"
"That's not important." Wang Zai shook his head, "But I've figured it out now, whether or not you get a divorce is your own business, and I don't want to care about it, even the small question of why you don't sleep together. Can’t answer clearly.”
So it's contemptuous of them
After Wang Zai finished speaking, he was ready to retreat.
Song Tingshen was left alone in a mess in the study.
After much deliberation, Song Tingshen took the initiative to walk out of the study, came to the master bedroom, and knocked on the door.
Ruan Xia had just finished taking a shower and was still wiping her hair. When she opened the door, she was not surprised to see Song Tingshen, so she let him in sideways.
"Why does Wang Zai think we are going to divorce?" Song Tingshen asked.
Ruan Xia thought for a while and replied: "Many people will think that we are going to divorce."
Song Tingshen: "..."
"Actually, you don't have to worry, that kid is more sensible than we imagined, which is a good thing." Ruan Xia is much calmer now, "When I was his age, if I knew my parents were going to divorce, I would definitely cry Don't let them leave. Hey, I found another shining point in Wang Zai's personality."
With Wangzai's current development trend and such a personality, he shouldn't be a villain, but a leading actor.
Ruan Xia paused, and then said to Song Tingshen: "So if you want to divorce, you don't have to worry so much. Although it is a bit selfish to say so, I still think that children should not be the whole of life. One day if you meet The right person can talk to me directly."
Song Ting took a deep look at her, "Are you vaccinating me in advance?"
What does it mean
Ruan Xia was a little surprised, "Are there no one outside? Sorry, I'm just curious, nothing else, not sarcasm."
Song Tingshen asked her back, "Do you have any outside?"
Ruan Xia: "...no."
Song Ting sighed deeply, "I don't have the bad habit of keeping a mistress."
Ruan Xia was amused by him, "Vice habits?"
This word is really... in line with value theory.