The child was indeed brought here today, so Xiaocao naturally had no objection to what he said.
Xiaocao has always been good with children, and the child was fair and tender and looked very well-behaved. When brought to Xiaocao, he called people obediently and learned the rules and etiquette well, but he looked a little shy. Such a child really didn't seem like the kind of person who would pretend to be sick and lie in order to skip school.
But just because the child doesn't look alike, people who know the situation can't help but gossip about it, saying that if the child doesn't learn well at such a young age, he will get this disease when he grows up, and so on, which makes the child's mother feel quite embarrassed.
Xiaocao glanced over indifferently, and the person who spoke was choked for unknown reasons and closed his mouth awkwardly.
Xiaocao was not in a hurry to ask him about his stomachache, but chatted with him patiently. Because the other party was a child, she even spoke in a child-like manner, completely putting herself into the role of a child when communicating with the other party, so that others could not understand what she was doing and were completely confused.
Xiaocao is now playing the role of a confidant sister. As for psychology, she has only just started to learn it and only knows a little bit about it. If she had more time in her previous life, perhaps she would have been able to study psychology.
Xiaocao chatted for almost half an hour. Some people originally wanted to ask her some questions, but the result was that they saw her chatting with the child very happily, which made people feel puzzled and a little unhappy.
Later, Xiaocao even took the child away, and came back about a quarter of an hour later. Then she let the smiling child go find other children to play with, and gently touched his head with a smile on her face and a pleasant expression.
The boy was obedient, but when he left, he was still reluctant to leave the grass.
Xiaocao smiled and gently pushed him, and he left.
After the child left, when facing the child's mother, Xiao Cao's face was a little serious, "Madam, the child is not pretending to be sick, he is really in pain. The reason is that he was excluded and bullied in the private school, because he developed a disgust and even fear of private schools. At first, he said that his stomach hurt, maybe he wanted to skip school. Because he achieved his goal, he made the same excuse again and again, and it happened too many times, or it didn't work after too many times. When you forced him to go to private school, his stomach really started to hurt because of self-protection. This pain was not caused by the body, but by the fear in his heart. Once it was confirmed that he didn't have to go to private school, he felt safe, and the pain naturally disappeared. It came quickly and went quickly, and it disappeared without a trace, so people thought he was not sick and was lying.
I communicated with my child before and found that he is actually a very lively and cheerful child. If my guess is correct, he must have talked a lot before. As a family member, you should be more aware of this change.
The child is a smart child, but if the reason is not found, in the long run, he may become timid, cowardly, or even inferior. After all, according to what you said, the child was quite good before, and his family had high expectations for him. However, because of the private school, he became tired of studying and could not concentrate on learning. His family was disappointed and even scolded him. The child is fragile to begin with, and if his family puts more pressure on his already weak heart, he will become more tired of studying and unable to concentrate on learning. He may even get a headache when he sees a book, forming a vicious cycle. A good child may be ruined. "
The child's mother covered her chest in disbelief, "Is what the fourth girl said true?"
"This may sound unbelievable, but it is true. If you don't believe it, Madam, you can go back and give it a try. It doesn't have to be too complicated. Just temporarily stop him from attending private school and communicate with him patiently. Don't scold him. His current condition is not too serious. With more effort, he should be able to tell you something. Although he is still young, don't assume that he doesn't understand anything and ignore his ideas."
"So, what the fourth girl said about him being bullied and excluded in the private school, is this all true?"
"I believe that children will not lie. You should be able to confirm this from private school."
Hearing that their child was bullied, even if they didn't confirm it, the parents would definitely not be happy, and would say in hatred, "Whose bastards are these? How dare they..."
Xiao Cao thought that the root of the trouble might not be the other children. This child was not the type that people hated. On the contrary, his original character should be quite popular. Therefore, it could be said that the cause was the private school teachers. Not everyone who teaches and educates people has a noble character. There are always bad people in any profession.
However, Xiaocao will not interfere in such matters. As long as they truly care about the children, they will definitely figure it out, and the rest will naturally be their own problems.
Xiao Cao said a few words of comfort in a gentle voice, and finally, "First cure the child's 'disease'. Later, if you want to restore his enthusiasm for learning, you may need more patience and time. After all, if you push him too hard, his disease may relapse."
The child's mother was a little nervous at the moment, "Specifically, does the fourth lady have any good suggestions?" She had obviously believed Xiaocao's words. After all, she only had this one son, and her husband could have illegitimate sons. This might be her only hope for a lifetime.
"Does Madam have a parenting manual?"
"Yes." The child's mother nodded quickly.
"I wrote some content about child rearing on it. It's not much, and most people may sneer at it. Of course, I don't need the approval of all parents and elders for those contents. After all, each family has its own educational philosophy. However, it may be of some use to your child's situation. Madam, you may as well go back and give it a try."
The child's mother nodded quickly. To be honest, she was a little impatient at the moment.
"If you need anything later, Madam can come to me."