It is said to be doing business, but this child is not born just because it is said to be born. The two had strict contraceptive measures before, but they didn't want the baby to arrive in a hurry. On the one hand, they were not mentally prepared, and on the other hand, they were afraid that something might happen that would affect the health of the fetus.
Although the daily habits of the two are quite regular, and the diet is not lacking in balanced nutrition, drinking still occurs occasionally. If you really want to seriously prepare for pregnancy, Xu Qiao quits drinking and Cheng Lang quits smoking and drinking, all have to be put on the agenda.
The elders urged the two to go home, but it was actually a reminder to support them to prepare as soon as possible, not to let the children "fall out of the nest" immediately.
Cheng Lang and Xu Qiao returned to their home in London and met head-to-head to study pregnancy preparation. Cheng's father and Cheng mother were also actively promoting their pregnancy preparation plan during the New Year's Day holiday, imparting experience and knowledge to them.
Zhang Hongjun, an action-oriented mother-in-law, took the young couple out shopping the next day, and happily picked out all kinds of baby products, including baby room furniture and electrical appliances.
Once she has a vision for the future, Xu Qiao wants to buy one for each cute thing she sees in the mall.
Zhang Hongjun encouraged her throughout the whole process with the attitude of "adults don't make choices, and rich adults don't make choices"—
Buying too much and afraid of being idle? Use this one for one, three, five, two, four, six, and Sundays, buy it, buy it all!
Children grow up fast, can't wear clothes and shoes after a few times? If you can’t wear it, you can keep it in the cloakroom as a souvenir. Buy it, buy it all!
Not sure which one is more suitable and better to use? Take one model back for evaluation, buy it, buy it all!
The brands chosen by Zhang Hongjun are undoubtedly Hermès in baby products. Xu Qiao's eyes were shining brightly, while stopping her mother-in-law with the remaining reason, saying that the children are gone, don't be so extravagant and wasteful, Cheng Lang has worked hard to make money.
Cheng Lang and Cheng's father followed behind the two, in front of the cash machine full of emotions, and expressed their opinions when they needed reference opinions. Hearing this, Cheng's father stepped forward and said: It's okay, money is earned for spending , not to mention that his son didn't work too hard, he was just walking in the mall right now, and the money came from heaven.
Cheng Lang followed the elders, smiled and nodded in agreement.
Xu Qiao found out in despair that she, who used to only know how to buy and buy, compared to her mother-in-law and her father-in-law who was used to her mother-in-law, she was already plain and frugal.
But after a day of shopping, in retrospect, Xu Qiao also realized the real purpose of her parents-in-law for arranging this trip.
It is too early to buy these supplies now, and there is no need to buy them in London and ship them back to China. Zhang Hongjun came here mainly to give her and Cheng Lang a grand blueprint for having children, and to strengthen their belief in going all out.
Rather than saying that this is extravagance and waste, it is better to say that it stimulates their desire to have children by stimulating their desire to shop.
It couldn't be more cost-effective to spend money on buying a resolution for the couple.
Ginger is still old and hot, Xu Qiao has to admit that she is more excited about the pregnancy plan, and even a little impatient.
At the end of the New Year's Day holiday, the two returned to China for a routine physical examination. They followed the doctor's advice and quit all unhealthy living habits. In addition to consciously eating more fresh vegetables and fruits, they also took folic acid regularly and quantitatively every day.
After three months of trying to conceive, when the body recovered to its best condition, the two stopped contraceptive measures completely and let go.
But the matter of pregnancy is actually a bit of the meaning of obeying the fate of human affairs. After all, there are limited opportunities every month, and in the end it depends on fate.
From April in late spring to August in late summer, the two of them did everything they should do, but Xu Qiao's stomach didn't move.
Cheng Lang's mentality was stable, not to mention that this time did not exceed the normal pregnancy preparation period. On the contrary, Xu Qiao has a quick temper and gradually became anxious. Even because of the subconscious pressure affecting emotions and endocrine, the time of menstruation became inaccurate. Twice her menstruation was postponed, and she thought she was pregnant at first glance, but was rejected again. The pregnancy test stick returned to its original shape.
After the second pregnancy test with great fanfare, the result was nothing but joy, Xu Qiao experienced a "broken moment of adulthood".
When she learned the result that day, she wasn't particularly depressed at first, but she just let out a displeased "Oh", and continued to fight with Cheng Lang at night.
In the end, I didn't expect that the disappointment that I suppressed would spread into my sleep, and I heard the doctor pronounce that she would not be able to have children in this life.
She was crying loudly in her dream, and her tears flowed out of the dream and turned into sobs, which woke Cheng Lang up in the middle of the night.
Cheng Lang turned on the light to wake him up from the nightmare: "What's wrong baby?"
Xu Qiao opened her eyes in a daze, looked at the familiar ceiling of the bedroom, then at Cheng Lang, and realized in a daze that it was just a nightmare, and at the same time she was relieved, the grievances that had not erupted during the day completely flooded Holding Cheng Lang in his heart, he said incoherently: "I dreamed that the doctor said that I couldn't give birth to a child... quack doctor! What kind of quack doctor is this!"
The tone in Cheng Lang's heart also loosened and tightened.
What's loose is that she just had a nightmare, and what's tight is that Xu Qiao has been under excessive pressure for this matter recently.
He patted her on the back and coaxed her in a low voice: "Hey, stop crying, nightmares are the opposite."
"It's not the other way around!" Xu Qiao cried so hard, but she was still full of anger while cursing, "You're cursing me!"
"Then I'll go to my dream and get rid of this quack doctor, okay?" Cheng Lang bowed his head and kissed her rolling tears.
"Okay." She nodded with her mouth pursed, "Swear at him again."
A doctor who couldn't even see his face clearly, and also had no name, became the target of Xu Qiao's diversion.
But Cheng Lang knew very well that the man had been coaxed temporarily, but the problem had not been completely resolved.
He got up and went to the bathroom and twisted a hot towel to wipe Xu Qiao's face. After tidying up, he lay back on the bed and took her into his arms: "Baby, are you sleepy?"
Having a nightmare in the middle of the night, Xu Qiao is now sober enough to draw ten design drawings in a row, she shakes her head.
"Then shall we talk?"
Xu Qiao glanced at him and said sullenly, "Say it..."
"Honey, having a baby is not your job alone, it's also my job. You don't need to take it as your responsibility. There are many things in this world that are man-made, but fate is the only thing that can't be rushed. You see , we are all in good health, far from the best childbearing age, not to mention that the time to prepare for pregnancy is only more than half a year, it's just a little bit of fate."
"Then when will it be so short!"
"Since it is an arrangement of fate, sooner or later, it will definitely be the best ending, otherwise why is it still called fate?"
"But it seems that a year has passed, and if there is no good news next time I return to London..."
Xu Qiao lowered her eyes and didn't continue speaking halfway through.
"Do you think we have children because we use them to compete for interests, or to fight for that tone in front of someone?"
"Of course not!" Xu Qiao said without thinking.
"Since this is the case, we give birth to the child and we raise it. We have no obligation to please anyone with this matter. Whether it is parents or grandpa, they are just witnesses to our happiness. People who really care about us will respect us. All choices, and understand all our difficulties, as for those insignificant people, why should we be led by their eyes?"
Cheng Lang's expression throughout the whole process was "we", not "you".
Xu Qiao was silent, looked at him and nodded.
"I thought about it. This is my fault. I made the pregnancy preparation plan too detailed and serious, so I put so much pressure on you. Let's let nature take its course, shall we?"
"Then are we not ready to conceive?" She blinked.
"Want to drink?" Cheng Lang asked with a smile.
"No!" Xu Qiao shook her head, "It's a waste of time, and it's not worth it to start from scratch again when trying to conceive again! Endure it, and you also bear it for me. You are not allowed to touch alcohol or tobacco!"
"Okay, I'll listen to you. Quitting smoking and drinking is considered health care, and we won't make other plans for the time being."
"Oh." Xu Qiao nodded.
"If the sky falls, I'll take care of it, not to mention it's just raining." Cheng Lang rubbed the top of her hair, "Tomorrow weekend, can I take you out to play?"
"Where are you going?" Xu Qiao regained her star eyes.
"I'll tell you tomorrow morning."
"I won't buy it if it's not surprising enough." Xu Qiao hugged him with a smile, and walked out of the nightmare completely.
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