"Mr. Ma, please have tea!" At this time, I enthusiastically asked Mr. Ma to come.
He stared straight at the cup of tea, his cheeks bulged twice, as if he was gritting his teeth and making up his mind, but in the end he didn't dare to drink the cup of tea, so he smiled bitterly and said, "I'm not thirsty! "
Until this time, his arrogant arrogance was finally completely gone!
You may think that I am too small-minded, why have to clean up people like this! In fact, it is not my intention to tease him, it is also a need of psychotherapy. If the patient looks aggressive, it will cause him to refuse to cooperate with the treatment.
Therefore, all I did was to ensure the smooth progress of the treatment, not just because of my likes and dislikes.
"Now, can you tell me what happened?" I folded my arms around my chest and raised the question again. Don't blame me for teasing him. Since he came in, I have asked the same question three times, but he didn't cooperate, so it can only be so.
It was only then that Boss Ma organized his thoughts and began to tell me what happened.
Boss Ma opened a ceramics factory, which specializes in the production and sales of ceramic tiles and sanitary ware. Over the years, thanks to the hot development of the real estate industry, he has also followed suit. This company is already a small well-known private enterprise in this city.
He said that more than a month ago, he suddenly discovered that someone was always following him. At first, when he was driving, he found the same car trailing for several days, and then he found a mysterious man watching him!
He went to play golf, went to the bathing center, and found the figure of the mysterious man. It's just that the man seemed to avoid him deliberately, every time he saw a shadow, and he disappeared immediately.
Therefore, he still can't describe the person's appearance until now, only knows that his height is about 170cm.
From then on, Boss Ma felt that he had a pair of eyes staring at him every day. Sitting on the elevator alone, or even squatting in the toilet, felt that there was someone behind him, and was inexplicably scared.
Boss Ma said that he is not afraid of stealing, but he is worried about it. If the person is trying to make money, it doesn't matter. I'm afraid that the person is plotting his life!
In order to prevent accidents, Boss Ma hired a retired special soldier to be his driver and bodyguard with a high salary, but even so, he still felt fear and fear all day long.
So he called the police. However, the result of the police investigation was that no such person was found! He could not provide any valid evidence, and the police could not take care of him.
It was not until later that Zhang Shuang suggested that he should go to the psychology clinic. He realized that he was a little suspicious, so he reluctantly accepted her suggestion, holding a try, and came to our clinic today. .
"Really... I'm sorry, I just saw your clinic is so small, and you are so young. I thought it was a deceptive doctor who couldn't help me at all, so I..." At the end of the talk, Boss Ma honestly said The matter is explained a bit.
To be honest, I can understand. I am not too old, and I have a face that is less angry. It really makes people feel a little bit—feeling that I don’t have hair on my mouth and I can’t do things well.
I am not a scrupulous person, since he also explained, I don't care. At this time, I still want to help the boss in earnest.
After listening to his description, I think Boss Ma is indeed suffering from a psychological disorder. If he has not guessed wrong, it should belong to a delusional disorder: the mental disorder of persecuting delusions!
For example, he said that even when he was riding in the elevator or even going to the toilet, he felt that someone was staring behind him, that was one of the remarkable manifestations of this mental illness.
"Well, please cooperate with me first and make a diagnosis!" I immediately took out a mental illness assessment form and asked him to fill it out truthfully.
Boss Ma had no other words, so he took the pen and filled it out quickly. After comprehensive scoring and analysis, I have determined that he is undoubtedly suffering from persecution delusions.
This kind of mental illness can be alleviated through mental soothing treatment or hypnotherapy, but again, the heart disease needs a heart medicine doctor, and the cause must be thoroughly understood in order to use the most appropriate treatment to unlock his heart. Knot, thereby completely healed.
"After my diagnosis, you are indeed suffering from a mental illness!" At this time, I confidently said to Boss Ma.
"Ah? It's really mental... No, mental illness!" Although Boss Ma was mentally prepared, he was still a little surprised to hear me say this. "Will it be more serious, can I get mental illness!"
I saw him look nervous, smiled and waved his hand and said, "As long as you cooperate with my treatment, it won't be!"
"Cooperate, I will cooperate!" Boss Ma hurriedly stated, "It doesn't matter how much money you spend, as long as you can cure me, Doctor Gao, I will thank you!"
Sure enough, he is a local tyrant. The three sentences are inseparable from money, but this incident also proves one sentence: Money is not omnipotent! No matter how rich you are, you still have to seek medical treatment. Moreover, mental illnesses are quite special. It really doesn't mean that you can be cured with more money.
A person like Boss Ma, although he is rich, should also be a person who values money very seriously. In this case, he is most likely to suffer from mental illness. They value money too much, and they will never understand what is outside of the body.
Therefore, because of his excessive obsession, he has caused a morbid and extreme psychology, just like that of Grandet, this is the case.
Boss Ma is afraid of losing if he has it. The richer he is, the stronger this feeling will be! Having been in a state of anxiety and fear for a long time, and due to certain incentives, he suffered from persecution delusions.
However, what I want to figure out at this time is the incentive! This is the root cause.
"Boss Ma should still have reservations about me, he didn't tell the whole story!" At this time, I said to him tentatively.
The reason for saying this is that, first, under observing his words, I think his words flickered just now, as if he was hiding something. In addition, the triggers of mental illness should generally be real things, and they are by no means imaginary at the beginning.
I speculate that Boss Ma should have done something disgraceful, or had been sorry for some people, and he had a ghost in his heart, so he suffered from this mental illness.
Sure enough, my speculation was correct. After listening to my question, Mr. Ma looked at me in surprise, his expression was full of words: How did you know? But he did not speak.
"If someone is really watching you, who do you think will do it? What is the purpose?" I simply asked another way.
Boss Ma kept saying that there must be someone who has been watching him, so I might as well assume that this person is real, but what is his purpose? If it wasn't for money, what else would it be for
In other words, what did Boss Ma ever do to cause this behavior of being tracked and monitored? I want him to think about it for himself, and it is best to be able to tell the cause, that is, the root cause of the disease!
However, at this time, Boss Ma was still indecisive and remained silent. I couldn't help being a little anxious, and hurriedly urged: "Didn't you say that you want to cooperate? Is there anything you can't say?"
"Doctor Gao, it's not that I don't want to say..." Boss Ma raised his head and glanced at me aggrievedly, "It's that I don't know where to start..."
I am dizzy! How many bad things the boss has done right now! This reminded me of that joke suddenly.
A couple, the woman asked how many ex-girlfriends the man had, and the boy frankly replied that there had been three. Then he asked his girlfriend how many ex-boyfriends she had, but she bowed her head and said nothing. The boy thought he was embarrassed to ask others, so he quickly apologized. But the girl said: "Don't make trouble, isn't it just counting!"
The boss of this horse made me speechless! It is similar to the girl in the joke. It is not that he is unwilling to answer me, but he is also not sure what "bad" thing caused someone to follow!
"Then you might as well choose a few things that you think are most likely to talk about!" I sighed in my heart and said helplessly. (End of this chapter)