I told Xiaomo all my thoughts. After she listened, she was silent for a while, and then said: "You speak like a tongue twister. I don't understand..."
Xiaomo pointed out that men are too hypocritical, and if there is dissatisfaction, he said earlier, why did it accumulate to the point that he couldn't bear it? Doesn't that mean cheating a woman!
"You've already said that he has a bad temper. Does he dare to bring it up? You can't quarrel if you bring it up? Do you like him picking your fault?" I asked again and again. "Besides, how many of your girls are really reasonable? You always say that if a man tries to reason with a woman, he will lose. If he doesn't even talk about reason, he dare to speak out if he is dissatisfied with it?"
"Then what's not to dare to do!" Xiaomo was not convinced.
"The reason he didn't dare was because he loved you and was afraid of losing you. He didn't want to cause quarrels and unhappiness, so he endured it." I replied.
"I haven't done anything to apologize to him, he cheated!" Xiaomo was still confident.
"Dissatisfaction is not necessarily due to this kind of principled issue. In fact, many small things can cause dissatisfaction!" I replied.
"What the hell did I do wrong!" At this point, Xiaomo was finally willing to think about his own problems.
"Could it be that when we got married..." Xiaomo seemed to remember something suddenly, and seeing her like this, I quickly urged her to talk about what happened during the marriage.
Xiaomo said that after graduating from university, she wanted to get married, but her husband was a bit hesitant at the time and didn't want to get married so early. For this reason, the two also fought a cold war for a while. Later, her husband agreed, and the wedding went smoothly.
She herself feels that youth can't be delayed, unlike a man who forbids old age. The two have been together for so many years, and the relationship is okay, why not get married!
"Could it be that this matter made him dissatisfied? It shouldn't be!" Xiaomo was still a little uncertain.
"What else? Think about it again!" I urged her.
"Also, it's because I bought things for my parents, so I didn't buy things for his parents..." Xiaomo remembered one more thing.
She said that it was the first time they made a salary after graduation. She was very happy and wanted to buy things for her parents. However, the selected items are a bit expensive, and there is no money to buy things for his parents after the purchase. Xiaomo made his own decision at the time and decided to buy it for her husband's parents after paying a salary. He was very unhappy at the time.
However, Xiaomo emphasized that after the salary was paid in the second month, he bought something for his parents and sent it away! It stands to reason that there should not be any dissatisfaction!
After I heard it, I laughed, "That's the first income in my life..." After I said that, I looked at Xiaomo and made her think about it.
Xiaomo seemed to understand a little after hearing what I said. At this time, I also felt that what I did was a bit inappropriate, and didn't take into account the feelings of her husband.
"Also, I control him smoking and drinking? This is also for his health!" Xiaomo continued.
In fact, a man is not willing to be controlled by others, nagging to prevent him from smoking and drinking, even if he knows that the other party is thinking about his own health, he will still be annoyed. At this point, I have personal experience!
"What else?" I asked. Regarding smoking and drinking, the benevolent sees the benevolent and the wise sees wisdom, so I didn't say much.
"Also, maybe I love to chat online?" Xiaomo said uncertainly.
I thought to myself, I love chatting online, this is not sure yet, this is a big problem! Her husband must have been dissatisfied with this, but he didn't want to fight, so he didn't say it.
Which man wants his wife to chat with strange men on the Internet all day long, even if you have never done anything to be sorry for him, he feels uncomfortable!
Later, Xiaomo recalled a lot of the things she had done too much. Although they seemed to be trivial and insignificant, it was these trivial things that allowed her husband's dissatisfaction to accumulate little by little until now. .
"Why do you just talk about me, don't talk about him! Are you also a man, just speak for him?" Xiaomo was criticized by me for a long time, and then suddenly realized something was wrong.
"Can I tell him? I don't know him! Are you my classmate, or is he my classmate?" I paused, looking at the expression on Xiaomo's face, "Whoever finds the reason from oneself in advance, there is always no Wrong, he derailed, but what is the reason for his derailment? Is there no reason for you?"
"If he is simply cheating on the horns, it must be his problem. The key is that he doesn't want to live with you now. What do you think is the reason? He is so resolute. Why?" After finishing speaking, Xiaomo was a little stunned.
"I have said so much, what should I do now?" Xiaomo was silent for a while, as if he also realized that he might have really ignored her husband's feelings over the years. Some things were indeed a little too much.
"I guess after the problem arises, your reaction is to cry, make trouble, and hang yourself, and then blame him all on his head. You don't think you have any problematic performance at all!" I guessed at this moment.
"Yes..." Xiaomo admitted directly this time and didn't quibble.
"Then you try to communicate with him, talk to your heart, and tell him face to face about the problems you have realized. Maybe your relationship can be saved..." I suggested.
Xiaomo hesitated, but after thinking about it, she still felt that what I said made sense. She stood up absent-mindedly, as if she was about to leave.
"Wait!" I said hurriedly, "Remember, don't ask him for anything, don't look humble, your own fault, admit it yourself, but he cheated, it is still a huge mistake, no matter what it should be, this degree, You have to take care of it!"
"Well, thank you, Gaoxin, I know, I will try my best..." Xiaomo wanted to leave as she said. It is estimated that her first stop must be looking for her husband, which is also in line with her high-spirited personality.
"By the way, how much should I... pay?" Xiaomo remembered it before he left.
"Ah, it's all classmates. If you don't have money, go!" I stopped her move to pay and drove her out of the clinic. Xiaomo anxiously stopped the taxi and left.
"Senior, do another free sale?" I returned to the clinic, Xiaofeng mocked me dissatisfiedly.
"Student, why don't you be ashamed to ask for money!" I said with a smile on the back of my head.
"Hmph, I'm so poor and vain, I'm still pretending to be generous!" Xiaofeng said to me again.
"Don't look at me like this, I'm going to make a fortune soon!" I mean, the 400,000 reward is offered.
"Well, just you? You can still make a fortune!" Xiaofeng glanced at me contemptuously, and said with a twist.
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"Don't believe me, 400,000!" I said triumphantly.
When Xiaofeng heard what I said, her eyes widened, she walked to my side and touched my waist, "Where is the 400,000 yuan? What organ do you sell?"
"Don't talk nonsense, who sold the organs!" Xiaofeng's words and the behavior just now made me amused!
"Then what did you sell?" Xiaofeng looked at me up and down, "Could it be that it was taken up by the rich woman?"
I'm dizzy, this Nizi, what's the dregs in her head! It's not selling organs or selling your body!
"It's a reward for solving the case by the police!" I'd better tell her quickly, otherwise this girl has a big brain and may come up with some creative guesses.
"Isn't it 200,000? The price has increased? You solved the case?" Xiaofeng asked questions one after another, but I didn't answer any of them, pretending to be mysterious.
"Don't tell me to pull it down!" Xiaofeng pouted her mouth and went back to the front desk to sit down. However, she immediately said: "Oh! 400,000 yuan, enough to pay me a salary for how long! I have to go online to see the bag!"
This Nizi, when did I say I would pay her a salary! What does this mean? Is it because I have given her a lower treatment? Really consciously, they are all fancy bags!
I rolled up my arms and sleeves and got ready to criticize her. Unexpectedly, there was another patient at the door.
"You are Doctor Gao, I'm here to see a doctor!" It seems that this person also came here after watching the news.
However, I checked him, and he got ordinary insomnia, so I don’t need to introduce it in detail.
It might really be because of being famous. Today, there are no fewer patients here than yesterday, and I have been busy all day. (End of this chapter)