Tomorrow Psychology Clinic

Chapter 23: A long sigh

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Although Master Feng has never known why his daughter was stupid, he was even more worried about his missing wife at this time. Xiang Rui Yimo has been for so many years, he actually loves his wife very much. My daughter has been sent to the aunt's care by the police, so I can rest assured for the time being.

But where did his wife go, is there something wrong with her too? In those days in the detention center, he repeatedly thought about these things.

Later, he finally walked out of the detention center, but accidentally received a call from his elder brother. It turned out that he was forced by his sister's repeated pleadings, and did not tell the truth to Master Feng. But then he thought about it again and again and felt that he should tell Master Feng.

Master Feng, who got the news, drove a few hundred kilometers and rushed here.

Sister Zhang was stunned after hearing what her husband said. She didn't expect the truth of the matter to be like this! Thinking of her husband being injured and squatting in detention, thinking of her daughter's stupid and indecent love, she burst into tears and shed tears of regret.

Master Feng, who was on the side, also cried, and he slapped himself twice, saying that it was his fault that he did not take good care of his daughter. Sister Zhang also banged her head on the coffee table excitedly, saying that it was all her fault, causing her daughter to stumble and her husband to squat in the classroom. The couple then cried.

At this moment, I feel very heavy and don't know how to persuade them. However, now that Master Feng has found his wife, he should go back with her as soon as possible. There is also a silly daughter in the family, and their troubles are gone.

I quickly reminded them that it is the most important thing to deal with the many troubles in front of them first. After listening to my advice, the husband and wife stopped crying and stood up and prepared to go back. I urged Master Feng again to stop being impulsive, and to take reasonable and legal measures to solve it.

Master Feng nodded and said yes, took his wife and hurried away.

"Oh!" I sighed as I looked at their distant back. This is really a bizarre twists and turns, but also incredible **!

In fact, from the beginning to the end, I did not believe in such horrible things as the so-called father-daughter abnormal love. However, it seems that there have been such reports on the Internet, not to say that such things will definitely not happen.

For the time being, gossip matters should be put aside. In fact, what I am most concerned about right now is a problem that a psychologist should be concerned about.

I judged that Sister Zhang suffered from mild anxiety due to menopause, so that she was suspicious and mistakenly thought that her daughter was in love with her husband. At this point, I think it’s inseparable from ten.

Although my colleagues in the big hospital gave Jie Zhang a delusional diagnosis, I guess it may be because there are too many patients and they don’t have so much time and energy. Listen to her complete description of the whole process. Deformed love, intuitively judged that Sister Zhang is suffering from delusion.

In fact, I thought so at the beginning, and I didn't change my view until I understood the following things.

Speaking of which, I have to mention their daughter. How can a young girl in the cardamom age fall in love with a 50 or 60-year-old man and develop the ultimate indecent love

Due to the lack of information, I can only analyze it based on what the couple said, plus my own speculation.

First of all, as a psychiatrist, I especially disagree with Master Feng's practice of raising her daughter as a son.

In fact, this kind of situation is quite common. Most of them raise their daughters as sons, keep calling sons, dress girls in boys' clothes, and so on. There are also some parents who raise boys as girls, but this is relatively rare.

This approach can easily cause children to misplace their sexual thinking during the sexual enlightenment stage. In other words, she was obviously a girl, but mistakenly thought she was a boy. Of course, with age, this misalignment can be easily corrected.

But not all children with sexual misalignment can adjust naturally. Some children tend to fail to get out of this misunderstanding of thinking. Girls grow up very big and still be naughty, and behave like boys. Boys are also raised by their parents as daughters, but when they grow up, they still feel like they are. She is a girl in her bones.

The most direct consequence of this phenomenon is homosexuality. Of course, this is not to say that all homosexuals are born in this way, but there are not a few who become homosexuals for this reason.

Although the daughter of Jie Zhang and Master Feng did not eventually develop into homosexuality, I guess that although she is a girl, she has the personality and habits of a boy.

It is normal for boys and girls who are in puberty to be attracted to each other at the beginning of their love. But because their daughter is a boy character, I'm afraid it's pretty carefree to spend time with boys, getting along like buddies.

Therefore, the male classmates or boys of the same age around her are like buddies in her mind, and it is basically impossible for her to have a good impression of these people. Who would like a "buddy"? But her ignorant emotional world has opened up, and she needs an emotional object.

Therefore, I will mention the second question. Master Feng and his daughter usually get along closely, resulting in consequences.

Both Master Feng and Sister Zhang mentioned some plots in which fathers and daughters get along intimately. In fact, if these things are placed in the West, it may not be a big deal. But in the social environment of China, it seems a bit wrong.

Originally, the girls had more or less Electra plots, which was not surprising at first. The father is the closest first man in every woman's life. The admiration, dependence on the father and the taste of being pampered by the father are probably experienced by every girl.

But the relationship between Master Feng and his daughter is a bit too close. Of course, no one would believe that because of this, the biological father would be like his daughter. But invisibly, it had a profound impact on the daughter's psychology.

What the daughter feels in Master Feng is the charm of a mature man. In addition, he is usually too close to his daughter, so that her daughter has a preference that can only like mature men.

Then, by chance, their daughter met the old Song Tou. Perhaps the feeling that old Song Tou gave her was almost the same as that of his father, and the old gangster himself was also unpredictable, so naturally he would please her in every possible way. It is estimated that all kinds of rhetoric and materialism will not be less.

How can a 17-year-old girl who has a love affair at the beginning, and has a "stupidity" that likes a mature man like her father, can withstand such an offensive. Later, she might really "love" the old Song Tou, and began a relationship that was not acceptable to social morality.

"Oh!" Thinking of this, I couldn't help but let out another long sigh.

At this moment, I stood at the door of the clinic, took out a cigarette to light it, and slowly started smoking.

"Oh!" I sighed again, but this time because I suddenly remembered:

Oh shit! I forgot to charge for the diagnosis and treatment! (End of this chapter)