"Brother, can you help me figure out a solution? It won't be a problem to go on like this!" At the end of the little conscience, the emotions are already very complicated, it can be said to be mixed!
In fact, after talking so much, many judges may think that this is a very easy solution. To put it bluntly, Xiaoxu and Xiaoxu are not cruel enough. To such people, it is impossible not to be cruel, and you must call the police. , Solve it in accordance with the law, and drive him out directly!
A little uncle, what right does he have to stay at his sister-in-law's house and not leave! As for after he left, it has nothing to do with them whether he loves to die or not!
If you think so, then I have to criticize you for this is a typical standing and talking without backache! Dare to love that is not your own brother! Is there such an easy way to resolve matters between blood kinship? If you do this, it is tantamount to cutting off your family relationship! How will Xiaoxu face his younger brother and parents in the future? Didn’t you recognize them from now on
In fact, sometimes, the hardest thing to solve is this situation, and the hardest thing to face is this kind of relatives! If it's a netizen, that person is not easy to get along with, and talks annoyingly, it's a big deal to block black; if it's a colleague, it's a big deal to avoid him, or simply, I change my job, and I can't afford to hide from the head office; even a neighbor, It's not easy to get along, I can sell the house and move!
But this is Xiaoxu's younger brother, blood relative, and the current situation is that he won't leave in his house! Even if they call the police to resolve it, the police will only mediate at best. Besides, Xiaoxu can't bear it anyway!
So, this matter seems to have entered a dead end! His parents hope that Xiaohui stay in this city to find a job, and they are unwilling to take him back to his hometown; Xiaohui is obsessed with computer games and does not look for work, and even more depends on not leaving; Xiaoxu and Xiao Conscience, on the one hand Because I couldn't bear it, on the other hand, there was really no way to drive Xiaohui away!
The status quo has been maintained, everyone is awkward, and it has been like this for the past three months!
After listening to the words of my little conscience, I couldn't help feeling quite a bit! Nowadays, there are not a few people like Xiaohui, who are gnawing at the old, staying at home, and indulging in games all day long! It has almost become a common social phenomenon!
Not to mention anything else, let's just say that today, the patient with hysteria before is like that, and so is the little conscience's little uncle Xiaohui! This phenomenon has to arouse people's vigilance!
In fact, the so-called "home" is an attitude to life, and this kind of people have had it since ancient times.
In ancient times, there were a lot of "hermits" who lived beyond the world and lived in seclusion in a quiet place. They did not care about world affairs. In fact, they were a kind of housekeeping, but they could support themselves!
When Zhuge Liang lived in seclusion, he was still "plowing in Nanyang." After Liu Bowen returned to his hometown, he also started farming by himself. People are working and can support themselves. There is no problem with this kind of house.
But now, many otaku otaku are not like this
Sample! Except for those who can make money by sitting at home, many of the others are not doing their jobs properly and relying on gnawing the old to survive! This kind of house is a kind of sickness!
Although "home" is not a disease, all kinds of problems will arise when a person stays home for a long time.
Let's not talk about the young man who suffered from hysteria because of indulging in games, let's talk about Xiaohui. Through a series of narrations by Xiaoconscientiousness, I still found that he must be suffering from mental illness now!
A person who stays home for a long time will gradually become unable to communicate with others, extreme thinking, and weird behaviors. In fact, these are all caused by mental illness. The most direct and typical of these is social phobia.
I think Xiaohui has actually suffered from this kind of mental illness a long time ago, and that's why he didn't go for an interview when he had the opportunity to do a job, but did not do it within a few days.
It seems that he is caused by his playfulness and negative work attitude, but the underlying reason is actually mental illness.
Because of mental illness, in Xiaohui's view, all the reasons are that the leader and the guest are looking for faults, but not his own;
Because of mental illness, Xiaohui escaped from reality, let himself indulge in the world of games, and searched for his alive presence there;
Because of his mental illness, Xiaohui thinks that the whole world is sorry for him, but it is not that he didn't work hard. This is why he thinks that all his problems are caused by his brother Xiaoxu!
A person's psychology has a problem. What he thinks and does is not so normal. That's why he has done what he is shameless about, he will not leave when he is beaten to death, and just stays at his brother Xiaoxu's house.
"You are still a graduate student of psychology and medicine, you can't tell such a simple question?" I thought for a while, and then criticized Xiaojianxin.
In fact, I understand a little bit that the small conscience is the person involved. As the so-called confession of the person involved, even a psychologist has problems that cannot be solved by himself. This is normal. What I criticized her was that she didn't realize the fact that Xiaohui had a mental illness.
"Senior brother is saying... Xiaohui and he..." Xiaoliangxin Sutra said that I seemed to realize the problem.
If a person has a mental illness, not all of them can be recovered through the adjustment of oneself and family members. Otherwise, why do you need a psychiatrist? Illness needs to be treated, otherwise it will easily get worse and worse. It is very unlikely that I can get out of this disease completely on my own.
Moreover, the condition is getting worse and worse, which is an important reason for Xiaohui's various perverse performances!
Perhaps most people will use words such as unsatisfactory, frustrated, wasteful, playful, and unmotivated to describe people like Xiaohui, but they don't know that they are actually mentally ill and cause these kinds of phenomena.
Solve the little conscience home
The only way to solve this predicament is to let Xiaohui accept formal psychological treatment, get rid of Internet addiction, and stop playing any online games!
"I'm afraid he has already suffered from mental illness. You are just thinking about how to find a job for him to cheer him up, but in fact you didn't get the idea!" My tone was a little stern, and I assumed the posture of being a senior. At that time, Professor Yang was generally possessed, and continued to criticize Xiaoliang's heart.
In fact, many people make such mistakes, even myself. Things are caught up in the head, and they cannot rationally analyze what caused them. Instead, they blindly face it in a way that seems right but not right.
A person with a mental illness must be abnormal in his words and deeds, but you put him in a normal position first. What you say to him and what you do is tit for tat. Can that solve the problem? I am afraid that apart from angry fights, there is no benefit at all.
"Ah... Actually... Actually, I didn't expect it, but I didn't think in that direction..." Xiao Jianxin tried to quibble for himself.
"Well, you go back and explain the situation to Xiaoxu, take the time to bring Xiaohui to the clinic, if it doesn't work, I can come to see him and treat him!" I waved my hand, still staring at Xiao Conscience and said.
I know that otaku like this can't be brought out easily. If they are really in trouble, I will come to treat Xiaohui! I believe that as long as his mental illness can be cured slowly, Xiaohui will also cheer up.
During the conversation with Little Conscience, my cell phone rang once, but after I refused to answer it, I continued to talk to Little Conscience.
That is an unfamiliar fixed-line number, I am afraid everyone has the experience. Most of these fixed-line numbers are harassing calls. They are not for sales, insurance, or unsecured loans, which is very annoying!
However, when Xiao Jianxin and I finished discussing about Xiaohui, the phone rang again, and when I saw it, it turned out to be the same fixed-line number just now.
Um? Could it be that I guessed wrong, this fixed line is not a harassment of the phone, but what is really going on? Generally, it is enough to make a harassing phone call once, and it is rare to make two calls.
"Hello..." I thought about it, and finally answered the phone.
"Doctor Gao? Hello, I am the director of the TV station, and my name is Guo Ning!" There was a crisp woman's voice over the phone, which sounded very nice.
The director of the TV station? What would she do to find me? Do you want to interview me again? My head is full of question marks for a while.
You know, the enthusiasm for my brave things about what is righteous has long passed! Many people have forgotten me. Even if they remember me, they just remember that a psychiatrist has solved several criminal cases. What does the TV station mean when it comes to me
"Ah... Hello, what's the matter with you?" I asked suspiciously. (End of this chapter)