During the heated debate between the father and son, I heard something. In fact, this son also thought of many ways to solve the current dilemma, such as decorating the old house, hiring people to take care of it, and even nursing homes. He had thought about it, but this old man just refused to cooperate. All seemingly reasonable arrangements, he Neither agree.
In short, his idea is that he doesn't want to move, but he wants to live with his son, but he is still unwilling to change his living habits, he doesn't want to adapt to his son's family, but to let his son's family adapt to him!
Keer ●31 novel app download address ●The son and his family have difficulty adapting to his living habits. They live in depression and helplessness, and even anxious, really can't stand it. The son finally sued his father and asked him to move out of his home! It was the news that the son who had made a lot of noise later sued his father.
The two people debated for a long time, and finally Jiang Nan forced the end of this session and let the show go on.
"Well, the situation of your father and son, our audience and guests have already understood, so let's hear what the audience has to say! After the advertisement, the words of Baijia!" she finished. In other words, the director stopped the recording, and then asked everyone, especially the father and son, to take a break, drink some water, and stabilize their emotions by the way.
Because of the tit-for-tat debate just now, the emotions of the father and son are a bit agitated, which is not conducive to the recording of the show, and of course it is not conducive to the solution of the problem, so a five-minute break is a good and humane way.
In the past, I always felt that I knew everything, as if I could control everything, but today I saw the experienced host Jiang Nan and the staff of the entire program group at the scene of the show. Take control, get better!
During this short five-minute break, the audience couldn't help but began to whisper and talk, and many audiences were brewing for a while if they asked themselves, what feelings and opinions they would express. Some of them pointed at the son and the old father, seeming to criticize them.
In fact, now that I heard it, I also know in my heart that there is a key point in this father-son problem, which seems to be something that no one has noticed. Of course, I understand this program and know this key point. I can't throw it out right now, otherwise it will affect the effect of the program. In that case, my guest would be incompetent! However, it is very helpful to resolve the contradiction between the father and son!
Five minutes passed quickly. Some spectators who went to the bathroom also returned to their seats. The director started the countdown again and started recording again.
"Well, just now we have learned the truth of some things through the narration of the father and son, so what are the opinions and opinions of the audience on the spot? Let's listen to it!
"Jiang Nan took the microphone and stood on the side of the auditorium. After saying this, she handed the microphone to a middle-aged woman. She should be the first audience to comment.
Said to be a middle-aged woman, in fact, the age of this woman should be above 50! When she opened her mouth, she said something amazing!
"I think this son is too unfilial! If you want to drive his father out of the house, and even go to court to sue him, this is what a human can do!" Her words made the atmosphere of the scene suddenly full of gunpowder!
The words of the old woman are tantamount to saying that the son is not a human being! How come that son didn't respond!
"Then I want to ask you, you are also a mother, will you behave like my dad at home?" This rhetorical question actually implies: You don't have a backache when you stand and talk!
"Of course I won't, but every family has hard-to-read scriptures! You young people should adapt to the living habits of the elderly. How can you change the living habits of old people for decades!" The old woman looked upset, still emphasizing her opinion.
Jiang Nansuo retrieved the microphone. Obviously, she didn't want the old woman and her son to continue the debate, and then she handed the microphone to a young girl.
The girl stood up and said her own opinion: "I think Baishan filial piety is the first priority. Parents take pains to raise their children. Children who are children should be filial to their parents. I think this gentleman is still a bit too much, although there are many elderly people. Shortcomings, but we should also try to be tolerant, how can we drive the elderly out!"
The girl's words were not very fierce, and her tone was calm, but the actual meaning was still criticizing the son for being unfilial, thinking that the responsibility was on him.
I saw that many of the audience listened to the words of the two people just now, and many of them nodded silently, as if there were still many people who supported this statement. As a last resort, they had to speak into the microphone in front of me.
"I remind everyone that the so-called driving out of the house is a false proposition, I hope everyone will pay attention!" I said with a serious tone, looking at the direction of the audience.
Just now, the two viewers both mentioned a problem together: Get out of the house!
In this case, although the son asked his father to move out, it did not mean that he would be left alone. From then on, the old father was alone and living on the streets, not so! What the two viewers said was as if this son was abusing his father, even occupying the only house in the family, driving his father out of nowhere to live!
Their statements deliberately emphasized the tragic end result of the old man, but they ignored the facts and used them to emphasize the unfilial piety of their son. This is a false statement, so I must correct it.
Maybe I said this very timely. Some viewers who seemed to be moved by these two women just now were suddenly caught by me.
A word of reminder, aware of this problem.
Jiang Nan also gave me a look of approval at this time. Of course, it was not very obvious. After all, it was during a recording program, but I still saw and felt her affirmation of me.
The young woman who had expressed her opinion just now had a gloomy face and looked at me as if she was dissatisfied, but she couldn't say anything.
But the elderly woman quit, almost grabbing, took the microphone from Jiangnan, and continued: "filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, there is always nothing wrong with it!"
She said this to me, of course I know it. In fact, this woman's statement is in line with a popular word in the current society: moral kidnapping!
Some people are like this. No matter what your difficulties and reasons, as long as the behavior seems to violate moral concepts, they will stand on the commanding heights of theory, criticize and criticize you! In fact, it is a typical matter that has nothing to do with hanging up high!
On the surface, they say that they have difficult-to-read scriptures in their families, but in fact they don’t understand the reasons for the conflicts between father and son. They just look at people with colored glasses in accordance with their own established ideas.
And their own established views are also the worldviews formed by their experiences and feelings in their actual daily lives. They think that is right and they cannot be questioned.
I estimate that the life of the two female audience members, the old and the young, should be completely opposite.
That young girl should be the kind of family that is spoiled by her parents and treats her well. Therefore, out of gratitude, she deliberately emphasized filial piety to the elderly, but she did not understand that some families were not as happy and harmonious as her own. In fact, there were many practical situations that she did not understand.
As for the older woman, I guess that her child may not behave well. She also feels that her child is not very filial, so she hates the behavior of this son at the scene, and simply does not want to understand what is wrong with him. He completely stood on the position of the old father.
These two women, to put it bluntly, are both temperamental, only perceptual thinking, but unable to analyze rationally, typical stupid women!
Of course, this is my inner activity, let alone recording a show, even in my daily life, I can't directly criticize people in this way. Who can stand it? Don't bother me!
So I looked at the woman who raised the question and said slowly: "The so-called filial piety is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and it is also a false proposition!"
This sentence, like a stone ignited a thousand waves, the audience suddenly couldn't restrain it, and they whispered to each other, and there was a lot of noise! They feel strange that filial piety is a virtue, how can it become a false proposition! (End of this chapter)