Not only the live audience, but even the host Jiang Nan was a little surprised at this time. She looked at me and asked in confusion: "Doctor Gao, can you tell us why?"
Jiang Nan's eyes seemed to give me a kind of encouragement, so I cleared my throat and began to explain the problem in detail.
"Who can tell me that there are three kinds of unfilial piety, and what does it mean to have no one behind?" First, I asked this question.
The woman just now obviously was very unconvinced with me, the so-called expert, so she volunteered and took the microphone and said, "It's still a question. It is the most unfilial thing to say that there are no descendants and cannot continue the family's incense. !"
"Well, then, there are three kinds of unfilial piety. What are the other types of unfilial piety?" I stared at the woman's eyes and asked.
"This..." The woman obviously didn't know, her face turned dark, her eyes quickly avoided my direct stare, and she sat back silently.
In fact, I really want to ask if anyone at the scene knows about it, but when I think about it, it seems too pretentious. It's a TV show, it's better to explain the answer directly.
"There are three kinds of unfilial piety. It is stated in "Mencius" that there is no descendant. The so-called "no descendant" does not mean that there is no descendant. It means that the responsibilities and obligations of being a descendant and being a child are not fulfilled, which is the greatest unfilial piety!" I first explained the true meaning of being great.
The audience, including many staff members of the program group, were surprised to hear my explanation. They had always thought it was right, but once they explained it, they found it was a misinformation!
In fact, in our daily lives, many people have always believed that the words and confession that are correct and regarded as truth are actually misinterpretations and false reports!
For example, one of the most classic: Hold your hand and grow old together! It is now used to describe the relationship between husband and wife or lovers, and it seems to be so moving! But in fact, this originally meant the words between soldiers who went on the battlefield together, that is to say, they described the feelings of comrades-in-arms!
For another example, Edison saved his mother. I am afraid that many of us have learned this story when we were young. It is about the principle of optical reflection, but it is actually a fake story. It is a story fabricated by others. When Edison's mother had the operation, the light bulb was invented long ago, and it was not at all what he did when he was a child!
Also, on the space station, you can see the Great Wall of China. This is a "truth" that was written into the textbooks of elementary schools and made the Chinese proud! But in fact, it was just that the astronauts at the time made a mistake, lacking common sense, and mistakenly thought that the mountains in northern China were the Great Wall. The real situation is that if you can see the Great Wall on a spaceship, it is equivalent to standing at the top of a 30-story building and you can see the ants on the ground!
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For example, Galileo has never done the classic experiment of two iron balls landing at the same time on the Leaning Tower of Pisa! The beard is definitely not getting heavier and heavier and so on!
Of course, these are just to prove that many of the truths and truths that we have always thought of are actually not able to withstand scrutiny at all, or are misinformed or misinterpreted, or are artificially fabricated.
"So I said, filial piety is simply a false proposition. The traditional Chinese nation is in Delhi, there is no filial piety, only filial piety!" Finally, I pointed out the truth!
Some people may think that this is just a bit of a word, what is the difference between a word! In fact, the difference is big!
Filial piety means filial piety and respect for the elderly, and filial piety means filial piety and obedience to the elderly. Can this mean the same thing! The former emphasizes respect, but respect does not mean blind obedience. There are three kinds of unfilial piety, the first of which is: Ayi Qucong, get injustice!
The meaning of this sentence is that when children obey their parents blindly, they do not persuade them if they are at fault, which makes their parents unrighteous. This is the first case of unfilial piety.
From this point of view, the so-called filial piety, that is to say, to obey your parents, to obey their parents, and to obey the parents' orders, has never been the so-called traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and it is still a manifestation of filial piety to a certain extent!
So, why is there such a statement? Because the ancient society was a patriarchal society, and both the monarchy and the patriarchy were supreme. In the country, the ruler is supreme, and in the family, the father is supreme. Therefore, people later emphasized filial piety, especially the Shunzi!
In fact, these are the ideas that the rulers of the feudal dynasty deliberately instilled in the people in order to consolidate and safeguard their ruling rights and interests! As a courtier, you have to obey your father! From this, the saying of filial piety appeared, and it has endured for a long time! But in fact, it has already deviated from the original intent of the saints and sages!
In other words, the so-called filial piety, especially the "shun" in it, is the same as the three principles of the three principles and the five constants, and the three obediences of the four virtues. They are all feudal dregs that should be discarded! If you still come up with something to say something now, it would be purely absurd and oversight!
I said all of the above to the live audience during the recording of the show. After everyone listened to it, they seemed to have a refreshing feeling. It is indeed the case. The meaning of some vocabulary is less than one word, people’s The understanding is different, the meaning is likely to be misinterpreted! It would be ridiculous to prove one's point of view with this kind of fallacy.
After I finished speaking, I looked at the emotions of the audience. Obviously, they nodded one after another, which proved that most people still listened to what I said. But the key point of a question is, what am I saying this for
I say this to prove theoretically, criticize that son for being unfilial, and even say that he is unfilial.
The old man is wrong!
However, headed by the two female audience members who spoke just now, there are a few others who seem to be unable to hear what I said. They aimed directly at me and are still making trouble!
"The words handed down from the ancestors, so many generations have said so, that is the truth!" The young female audience has already begun to enter the arrogant mode of a little woman.
"Really? According to what you said, women nowadays should also obey the three obediences and four virtues, and even squeeze their feet on the door and not go out of the second door?" I did not make any concessions, and immediately retorted.
Although there are both men and women in the audience, most of them have actually agreed with me, and there are only a few stubborn ones. So, I asked the other way around, and someone in the audience laughed.
The young woman, flushed, tried to refute but was speechless, embarrassed on the spot.
Seeing this, I struck while the iron was hot, and added another sentence: "I heard that some girls now have new three from four!"
After this sentence, there was a burst of laughter at the scene. It seems that they have all heard this, the so-called new three from the four, what they said ●31 Novel app download address ●Yes: never considerate, never gentle, never reasonable ; Cannot be said, beaten, scolded, or provoked!
Of course, what is described here is only an individual phenomenon of some girls in society, but it proves from another perspective that Chinese women have long been liberated from the oppression of feudal society and have obtained unprecedented status and freedom.
Today, they enjoy this kind of freedom and status, but they have feudal dross on their lips, which is really intolerable and incomprehensible. Do they still hope to go back to that society in the past and be angry little daughter-in-laws who have been bullied and squeezed
When women are liberated, they follow modern concepts, and when they talk about filial piety, they follow traditional methods. This is called arrogance! This is like some girls nowadays, when they are sexually liberated, they follow modern concepts, play casually, and have sex with countless men! When it's time to get married, it comes again in accordance with the traditional Chinese concept, asking for a bride price, asking for three golds, and asking for a house and a car!
For this kind of person, I can only say: Are you really shameless, can you just fuck in the wax alone
Sorry... I'm rude. To be honest, when I was recording the scene, I did feel that way in my heart at the time, but I didn't show it.
"Parents worked so hard to raise their children, why? Asking them to be filial and obedient is not enough?" The old woman was obviously still unconvinced, and after she was seated by the young woman, she got into trouble again.
"Auntie, this kind of thinking is more suitable for you to live in the West. There, you will experience what it means to raise a child so hard, and the child is still so obedient and sensible..." I choked her back. The audience at the scene laughed into a ball of knowing again. (End of this chapter)