If I remember correctly, this was the first time she asked for my opinion during the entire meeting with Guo Ning!
From the beginning of setting the time and place, to ordering, serving wine, and choosing the location, I found that she had set it all on her own initiative, and did not ask for my opinion at all. Although the basic choices she chose were correct and met my taste, it was enough to see that Guo Ning was actually a girl with a strong desire for control.
She should be a rich second-generation, and she also opened a bar, at least has shares, so she should be regarded as a strong woman, and one of the strongest characteristics of a strong woman is strong desire for control, and extremely confident.
Guo Ning in front of me is this kind of girl. From the first time I saw her, I had a vague feeling that the unique temperament in her was brought about by self-confidence.
But sometimes, some self-confidence performance can make people feel arrogant. This degree is difficult to grasp. Guo Ning seems to deal with this point very well and very naturally, so it did not make me feel anything wrong. Place.
However, I am also a bit eccentric, and there is still a bit of male chauvinism in my ideology, and the feeling of being completely controlled by a woman makes me a little uncomfortable. If I were to choose a girlfriend, I would never choose a girl like Guo Ning.
"No, I don't like coffee the least. Why don't you have another bottle of whiskey!" Since she asked for my opinion, I would never compromise, and insisted on what I thought, without being polite at all.
After hearing this, Guo Ning seemed a little surprised, but he still ordered the waiter to serve another bottle of whiskey, a fruit plate and a few snacks to go with the wine.
"Doctor Gao doesn't like coffee?" Guo Ning asked curiously.
"Yes, my stomach hurts as soon as I drink that thing!" I was telling the truth without concealing it. As I said before, I’m okay with drinking tea, no matter how strong it is, just the coffee, the stomach hurts as soon as I drink it, and I don’t know why. Probably my Chinese stomach can't adapt to that foreign stuff.
Unexpectedly, after hearing what I said, Guo Ning's performance was a little surprised, and then he said: "Really, I have a stomachache when I drink it!"
This surprised me. Just now, she obviously asked me if I drink it or not. Isn't she not drinking it herself, just asking me if I drink it or not
"Unexpectedly, we should have so many similarities!" At this time, Guo Ning looked excited again, and said such a sentence, which made me feel nervous.
What does this girl mean? Could it be that…
At this time, the waiter brought up the wine and the snacks and fruit plates, and I temporarily let go of the doubts in my heart, and started drinking again.
"Hehe, even this habit of drinking his own, never persuading others to drink, and never pretending to clink glasses, is the same..." Guo Ning raised his glass and reminded me
Said.
real? She didn't say it, I really didn't realize it! In fact, I am really like that. I never persuade others to drink. I just drink my own and taste my own delicacy. Isn't she the same
Recalling the meal just now, I realized that she really didn't seem to clink glasses with me, she really drank her own drink. Suddenly, I suddenly had a feeling of meeting a confidant, and my heart was warm.
However, I am a psychiatrist. I understand what this feeling will eventually develop if I don't control it, so I deliberately avoided this topic and quickly asked Guo Ning another question.
"Guo Ning, your car... Isn't it expensive..." After taking a sip of wine, I put down my glass and asked. This topic seemed a bit abrupt, so my tone was a bit hesitant.
"Did Doctor Gao just notice?" Guo Ning did not answer, but instead asked me.
"To be honest, I don't even know what kind of car yours is. My girlfriend told me when she saw it at the hospital window..." I answered truthfully, without concealing it.
"Haha, no wonder!" Guo Ning smiled slightly, and then she seemed to think of something, and quickly asked, "By the way, your girlfriend... how is she?"
"I can be discharged from the hospital, just for the past few days..." I still answered truthfully, but thinking of Zhang Shuang's attitude to me just now, my mood at this time was uncontrollable and seemed to be low.
Guo Ning should have seen that my emotions were not right, as if there was something on my mind, he asked with concern: "It is a good thing to be discharged from the hospital. How do you think you are in a bad mood?"
I looked up at Guo Ning, sighed, and then recounted what had just happened. Actually, I was really depressed, and I was just in front of Guo Ning, so I said this, and she had a good impression on me before, and she really talked about her as a friend.
After listening to Guo Ning, he was silent for a while, but did not make any comments, let alone persuade me. This point makes me feel a little surprised.
Ordinary friends, after hearing such things, it stands to reason that they should be a few words of persuasion. The general rule is, from Zhang Shuang's standpoint, I persuaded me not to think about her, saying that she just lost her temper and would be better afterwards.
And Guo Ning seems to be cherishing words like gold, not saying a word or expressing any opinions! Based on what I know about her, she shouldn't be that kind of introvert and taciturn personality, shouldn't be!
"Since she wants to break up with you, then... Why don't you be my boyfriend!" After a long time, Guo Ning seemed to have made up his mind, and then said such a sentence!
I was stunned on the spot, my eyes almost didn't fall off! The wine glass I just picked up almost didn't hold it, and fell on the table with a snap!
what! What does this girl think
of! We only met on the first day, and it was the first time we talked on the phone at noon. It hasn't been more than 8 hours since she has confessed directly
Although flash marriages and romances are popular in the current society, there is no such flash, right? This is too fast!
What's more, I feel like a mirror in my heart, knowing that Zhang Shuang is playing a temper and is not really going to break up with me, that is to say, I am not single at the moment. Under such circumstances, how can I accept Guo Ning!
I stared at Guo Ning closely, she also seemed very confident, she didn't feel embarrassed, she also looked straight into my eyes, we could look at each other like this for a minute!
"How about? Are you willing?" Guo Ning asked me hastily when he saw that I hadn't responded for a long time.
"Why? It's too fast, right?" I didn't say yes or no, but I was very curious about the reason!
"Haha, in modern society, time is precious. There is nothing to be upset about. If you like it, then go straight ahead and save time!" Guo Ning first explained the reason for fastness, but she didn't say why she liked me.
But when she said that, I was a little puzzled. This girl is talking about serious love affairs, or... a one-night stand or something like that!
"Are you asking me to be your boyfriend? The object of marriage?" I quickly confirmed.
"Of course! Do you think I'm a messy person? I'm serious!" Guo Ning simply went straight to the end, without the restraint of a girl at all, all went straight and told the truth.
"But... We only met for less than 8 hours. It's too fast!" I still felt a little unbelievable, "Why do you like me?"
"Do you still need a reason to like someone?" Guo Ning gave such an answer.
Of course, as a psychiatrist, I certainly understand the meaning of this sentence. In fact, in daily life, we do find such a phenomenon, that is, there is no deliberate behavior, one person likes another person, and like it in the heart, can't let it go.
This is the so-called saying that there is no reason to like someone. In fact, there is another significance here, that is, once you like someone for no reason, then that person is likely to be your true love, true love without any other factors!
This is the so-called feeling of love at first sight! But this love at sight seems to be unreliable, and more or less there must be a reason!
"Love at first sight? I..." I wanted to say that I didn't believe in love at first sight, but when I recalled my experience with Wang Nan, I hesitated again.
"It's not exactly love at first sight, and there is a reason..." Guo Ning stopped looking at me, took a sip of wine, and then said. (End of this chapter)