If this investment is guaranteed to be profitable without losing money and is firmly established, people like Ma Ma will never enthusiastically introduce such a wealthy opportunity to everyone! She must have made a fortune quietly by hiding, how can she make others cheaper
But it is precisely because she has no bottom in her heart that she has attracted more people to participate. In this way, even if it is unlucky in the future, it will be everyone together, and she will not be so painful! This is actually the so-called pain of sharing!
It is precisely because of this, I guess that Madam Ma must have deliberately exaggerated the publicity. She may not have invested so much herself, or even have not paid back, and has not made any money, but vowed to say that she has already made money and needs to invest more. !
Is this a strange state of mind? In other words, is this kind of person strange? In fact, it is not surprising, in your and my life, this kind of person or this kind of mentality is very common!
In this matter, Aunt Li also believed Madam Ma's words credulously. In fact, a person you know who danced in the square dance, why would you believe her so credulously? The reason is still a psychological argument, called the familiarity effect!
Have you discovered that, in fact, we humans are more willing to believe, or prefer familiar things, but are more vigilant and lack trust in unknown and unfamiliar things
Take online dating as an example. Many people find it difficult to fall in love online because they cannot see or touch! As long as he can't see it, he will always have a strange feeling, because he will never trust people he knows on the Internet.
But in real life, he may credulously believe in someone, as long as the person is someone who can often see, he thinks he is familiar. For example, colleagues, neighbors, the owner of a small shop at the door, and even a partner you know when you dance the square dance!
With a familiar feeling, he is willing to trust each other. Even if he doesn't understand the details of this person, he is easy to believe in it. In fact, think about it, these people you think are familiar with, in fact, do you know the details? Do you know what they are thinking
If you think about it, you will find that, except for the familiar face, the others are the same as the netizens, they don't understand at all, and they don't even know as much as the netizens who chat frequently! Some people are willing to believe in people who can see, as long as they feel familiar.
Aunt Li made such a mistake, so she believed Madam Ma's words credulously, participated in this investment, and was eventually deceived. Including several other old ladies, they are all in the same situation!
Just now, Aunt Li kept saying that she was embarrassed and couldn't live anymore. In fact, in my analysis, she was desperate not because of shame, but because of her own personality.
Aunt Li is a cheerful and outgoing person, and she is very happy in her work. The ability to be a man is not bad, and his personality is also a very strong personality. She has been one of the first in the world for so many years
Zhi is a relatively high posture, although her family background is average, she has a strong ability to do things, which makes her leave a good impression on everyone.
But now, a seemingly savvy person has been cheated by others and cheated so much money. Although Aunt Li loves the money very much, but more importantly, she feels very embarrassed! Because of her strong personality, in fact, in her heart, feeling shame is the biggest knot in her heart!
She has always been shrewd and capable in front of everyone. After encountering these things, Aunt Li’s life foundation has collapsed. She doubts herself and feels that everyone is laughing at her. In fact, this is what makes her dare not face it now. , I feel a little bit unable to survive the real reason!
Through this analysis, I can be regarded as finding the crux of the problem, then the treatment will have a targeted direction!
After I waited for Aunt Li's mood to calm down a little bit, I gave her a psychological massage therapy, which is a psychological relief treatment.
In fact, you may have been curious about how the so-called psychological relief treatment is performed? Too professional, not much introduction. In fact, the main form is conversation. Generally speaking, the patient is allowed to sit or lie down to keep the body completely relaxed. Under such circumstances, use some psychological tools to conduct conversation therapy in a targeted manner.
In Aunt Li's situation, hypnotherapy is not enough yet, so I didn't use it. But her current mental state is on the verge of collapse, and I must quickly treat her well, so I still ask her to lie down on the massage chair for related treatment.
As the treatment progressed, Aunt Li's mood should have improved a lot, and the massage chair was very comfortable. Aunt Li was still feeling sleepy while answering my words. After a while, she fell asleep!
This is actually a good thing! Just now I heard Aunt Li said that she has been insomnia for almost a week! In other words, she has hardly slept in this week, and people have to have problems if she goes on like this. Now that she is asleep, I didn't bother her, but let her take a good rest.
In fact, for Aunt Li, the most important thing is to get rid of the knots. The biggest knot is that she feels very embarrassed and hurt her self-esteem. I have relieved her a lot through the treatment just now. But there is still a hurdle, and that is how to deal with the aftermath of being deceived this time.
That scam company was in a certain city in the south, which was too far away from us. Although it has been blocked by the relevant authorities, it is still unknown whether the defrauded money can be recovered.
According to past experience, it is very difficult to recover the scammed money like this situation! Even if it is recovered, a lot will be lost. And even if those scammers are caught and sentenced, they don’t have the financial strength to compensate. In this case, the scammers can only bear the losses themselves.
Aunt Li lost more than 60,000 yuan. How long does it take for the elderly
Save it! Besides, there is still part of the money she borrowed, so what will she use to repay it!
I didn't disturb Aunt Li sleeping, I sat behind the desk and thought about many questions.
Suddenly, the door of the clinic was opened, and the middle-aged man, who looked like Aunt Li's son, broke in.
"You can't go in..." Little Conscience's voice followed. Obviously she wanted to stop, but she didn't stop.
"What are you doing! He is being treated, why did you come in!" I quickly scolded him when I saw the situation.
"What are you going to treat! It's been so long!" Aunt Li's son had a questioning look, "Go to sleep!"
He saw Aunt Li lying there, sleeping soundly, and snoring from time to time, as if she was not angry!
His voice is very loud, of course, my voice is not small, and Aunt Li was awakened. She slept for less than half an hour before and after, and when she woke up, she still looked tired.
"What are you arguing! Little beast!" Aunt Li sat up and scolded her son dissatisfiedly.
"Mother, is this your son?" I first confirmed.
"Yes! The little beast to feed for nothing, if this happened to me, he forced me the hardest!" Aunt Li said to me with a helpless expression.
"Mom, how do you talk, you lost so much money, but there is money for your grandson to go to the cram school!" The son had a very bad tone, and he reprimanded Aunt Li to look like that, so confident!
After hearing this, I couldn't help feeling that Aunt Li really spoiled her son! He didn't have any abilities himself. He had to have a child, and he had to pay for the support of the old man. He had to ask Aunt Li for money even if he went to some cram school, so he was so confident!
"Hey! How do you talk!" I got a temper for a while, and I just fought with that son directly, and confronted me!
Let the elderly support it? Aunt Li lost a lot of money, but it was all her own money, what does it have to do with you! Do you talk to your mother like you! "I scolded the man one after another, not at all polite.
Aunt Li's son was obviously angry when I scolded him. But I said everything rationally. Although I was emotional, I didn't have any radical words or deeds. Therefore, he didn't know how to answer my words for a while.
"Yes... But she lost so much money! The creditor came to the door every day!" The son didn't refute me directly, and finally said something like this.
I looked at this dull thing, and I was so angry! The one who gnaws on the old and gnaws so arrogantly is really a spoiled guy!
"Isn't it sixty thousand yuan! This money, I will pay!" On impulse, I actually said such a thing! (End of this chapter)