Wang Nan was angry and left, but she was still worried about her mother. She is just a retired civil servant, with a clean suit and a breeze. She has no savings for the rest of her life. If someone cheats all the money out, can you withstand such a blow
She didn't give up. One day, she secretly returned to her mother's house, took two boxes of health care products, and found an acquaintance in the laboratory to help with a test.
The test results came out soon. One box of so-called immune-enhancing health products contains only starch and protein noodles, and another box of products that claim to be able to regulate blood pressure has been detected to contain a large amount of antihypertensive drugs! Moreover, in the two boxes of samples, E. coli was detected to exceed the standard, that is to say, eating such health products will not only do no good to the body, but will affect the health of the body.
Wang Nan took two test reports fiercely and returned to her mother's house. She still thinks, the evidence is as strong as a mountain, and see what her mother has to say.
The result was unexpected. Mother Wang not only did not believe the two test reports, but also said that Wang Nan was deliberately making trouble and did not support her "career". She also painted a magnificent blueprint there, saying that she would be a wealthy female entrepreneur in the near future. .
But these words were all crazy in Wang Nan's eyes. The mother and daughter disagreed again and broke up.
Later, Wang Nan took a closer look at this so-called health products company. Although all the procedures for this company are complete, their sales model is no different from MLM. Members who have bought products need to continue to recommend products to people around them, and many members, in order to "upgrade", pay for their own pockets, hoard a lot of products, and counterfeit sales. To put it bluntly, it means losing money and making yells.
The products piled up in the house, which are so easy to sell, all have to be smashed in your hands. The most important thing is that these health care products don't know how they passed the inspection in the first place, and there are many problems. If it is taken for a long time, it will not benefit the body at all. What if the food is bad.
Wang Nan was not reconciled and tried to persuade her mother many times, but failed. She felt like she was brainwashed by others, and she fell into a degree of madness.
Although Wang Nan is a doctor, she is a psychiatrist, not a psychologist. Although these two professions have many similarities, they are still different in nature. Therefore, she was helpless in this situation of her mother. Moreover, the two people are in a mother-daughter relationship. Maybe the relationship is too close, which causes the mother to not believe what she said.
Maybe everyone feels this way more or less.
For example, my husband told his wife many times that the movie "Shawshank's Redemption" is very classic and worth watching. But my wife, after listening to it many times, I still don't want to look at it, and may not be interested when I hear the name. But suddenly one day, my wife was in the work unit and heard colleagues say that this movie was great. As a result, I found this movie when I went home and watched the 31 novel app download address.
Isn’t it amazing? A person closest to him said N many times, but she didn't go to see it, but because her colleague mentioned this movie well, she immediately watched it impatiently.
This is because two people who are too familiar already have a fixed cognition with each other. When a close person proposes something, people often understand what he said based on the inherent cognition that he has developed about the person. Things. Or because it was too familiar and ignored the opinions and suggestions of the closest people.
People who are not so familiar don't know each other very well and don't have a very thorough inherent knowledge, so what they say is often easier to accept. This is why some children do not listen to their parents, but are willing to listen to their teachers.
Between Wang Nan and his mother, there is something like this.
After listening to her story, I thought for a while and said to her:
"Listen to you, aunty, is she a little bit..."
"It's okay, just tell me!" Wang Nan quickly persuaded me to see me hesitating.
"Auntie is a little paranoid personality disorder?" I hesitated for a moment, or decided to tell the truth.
"Haha, you agree with me!" Wang Nan smiled bitterly.
"Auntie, has she gotten more serious in recent years?" I asked tentatively. There are some things that I really dare not say too directly, for fear that Wang Nan will not be able to accept it.
"Yeah, do you mean it was brought by menopause?" Wang Nan is a doctor after all. Talking to her is easy and thorough.
"Oh! My mother used to be a cadre, and she is the best. When I was a child, my dad and I had to listen to her. I think she was a little paranoid at that time!" Wang Nan sighed and continued.
This matter involved her mother, so I really didn't know how to help. Looking at Wang Nan's lost look, I asked:
"Wang Nan, how do you want me to help Auntie?"
"I think about it and think that hypnotherapy should be used. She is too stubborn, and general persuasion will not work at all!" Wang Nan said firmly.
In fact, she was right. Many people think it is a personality problem like this kind of paranoid personality disorder. In fact, this is not just a character problem, it is already a kind of mental illness. If you ignore it for a long time, this situation will intensify. If you encounter any setbacks in your life, you will easily suffer from mental illness because you can't bear the blow.
But I don’t think it’s necessary to use hypnotherapy. Hypnotherapy is actually used to understand a certain knot or a certain kind of subconscious thought disorder. Such as the matter of Xiaomeng. A situation like Wang Nan's mother can be gradually improved through soothing treatment.
"Hypnotherapy must be used!" Wang Nan saw that I was silent, as if he understood my thoughts, and emphasized again, "She will not cooperate with your long-term treatment at all."
Wang Nan looked at me again and said anxiously: "Moreover, time is not allowed!"
"Oh? How come?" I was a little puzzled.
"My mother is now borrowing money from relatives and friends, and she is going to sell the house!" At this time, Wang Nan was so anxious that her voice changed a little.
"Don't worry, I will listen to your arrangements!" I quickly comforted her.
When Wang Nan heard me say this, he stood up suddenly, which meant he was going now.
When I saw her like this, I thought to myself that it was really messy if I cared. Her mother, she cared very much. She didn't care how much she would lose, but she was afraid that after her mother lost the money, she would not be able to stand the shock and would become ill again.
I quickly took off my white coat, cleaned up briefly, and I was ready to go with her. But it suddenly occurred to me that the girl Xiaofeng hadn't come back yet, and this clinic couldn't be left alone. I quickly took out the phone and dialed Xiaofeng's number.
"Hello? Senior, you two had a good chat? I'm sensible. What a good opportunity to create for you, you have to take it..." As soon as the call was connected, Xiaofeng started to tease me over there again.
Before she finished speaking, I interrupted her, "Stop talking nonsense, come back soon!"
"Yeah? Why is it so horizontal? What's wrong?" Xiaofeng was surprised on the phone.
"If you have to go out in a hurry, come back and see the door!" I said anxiously.
"Oh, coming soon!" Xiaofeng agreed happily, and then hung up the phone.
But she promised happily, but came back very slowly. It was almost half an hour before I came back.
"Where did you go to play! Where's the watermelon?" I frowned and said to Xiaofeng sternly.
"Wandering...wandering around..., who thought you were in a hurry, didn't have time to buy the watermelon..." Xiaofeng was uncharacteristically, without the prestige of the past, now she looked timidly.
I didn't say much, and asked her to look at the clinic, so together with Wang Nan, I took a taxi and rushed to her mother's house.
On the way, I still have a little doubt. What should I do if Mother Wang refuses to cooperate with my hypnosis? After thinking about it for a long time, I had nothing to do, so I asked Wang Nan.
At this time, Wang Nan seemed not to be so anxious, and told me casually, and talked about it when the time comes. I saw her calm look, why is it different from what she was in the clinic just now? However, she still seemed preoccupied, as if there was something unspeakable.
Soon, the taxi arrived at the gate of a community. I settled the fare, got out of the car and raised my leg to enter the community.
"Wait a minute!" Wang Nan suddenly stopped me. (End of this chapter)