Through investigation, Wang Kunpeng found that Xiao Shuang had recently been very close to a man. That man seems to be a colleague from their unit. Recently, she actually often went out to eat and date with this man.
Wang Kunpeng wondered whether she was also with this man during that trip, and would they... After much deliberation, he felt that Xiao Shuang had betrayed his feelings, so he regretted the marriage.
A rush of blood surged, Wang Kunpeng lost his mind a bit. That night, he rushed directly to Xiao Shuang's house and questioned her face to face. However, Xiao Shuang said nothing to admit that he had betrayed him, and in the end, he cried.
Xiao Shuang's parents are quite reasonable and did not blindly protect Xiao Shuang. They also wanted to figure out why the two of them were fine before, and they were about to get married, and they were still making trouble like this.
After Xiao Shuang cried for a while, he slowly said his reason. But once this reason was said, everyone was dumbfounded.
Xiao Shuang said that she usually likes to watch romantic novels, and those romantic TV series. Most of the plots in it are more tragic. The heroine is either unhappy in her marriage or miserable in the end. She is very afraid that after she gets married, she will become like that, so she doesn't want to get married.
As for the man in the unit, he is actually just one of her male girlfriends. Seeing that Wang Kunpeng and her parents didn't understand, she also specifically explained that the boy actually didn't like women, so there was no betrayal at all.
As for traveling together, that is even more invisible. Xiao Shuang was just too annoyed in her heart and wanted to go out to relax, and she was also temporarily avoiding Wang Kunpeng, so she signed up for a tour group and went out for a trip.
She loves Wang Kunpeng very much, but because of her fear and worry, she dare not marry him. She was also very entangled in that period, so she often confided her feelings to that male girlfriend. That male girlfriend did not try to persuade her less. On a few occasions, Xiao Shuang wanted to look back for Wang Kunpeng, but he still couldn't defeat the demons and flinched.
Although she loves Wang Kunpeng very much, she found that she could not give him the marriage and happiness he wanted, so she deliberately avoided him, hoping that after a long time, Wang Kunpeng could forget herself and find a woman who could give him happiness. She decided quit.
After listening to Xiao Shuang's reasons, Wang Kunpeng hugged her tightly, and kept saying that she was a silly girl, how could she give up so many years of feelings for such a ridiculous reason. Xiao Shuang's parents also complained that Xiao Shuang was too naive, how could marital events be so childish.
At that time, Xiao Shuang was told by everyone that it seemed to be a little loose. She promised Wang Kunpeng not to give up this love, but also asked Wang Kunpeng not to force her to let her adapt slowly.
Wang Kunpeng had no choice but to agree to Xiao Shuang, not to get married for the time being. Later, he also refunded the hotel and wedding photography he had booked, and he also paid a lot of money for the booking.
But after Wang Kunpeng’s parents learned the truth, they said they couldn’t understand, and they kept persuading their son to get married. The two old men had been looking forward to their son getting married. They had been looking forward to it for many years. They were very happy at first, but they said they wouldn’t get married anymore. , Got a big fire.
But in Xiao Shuang's state, Wang Kunpeng couldn't force her, let alone he agreed to Xiao Shuang. Therefore, he is now under pressure from his parents on the one hand, and on the other hand, the state of his fiancé Xiao Shuang, which is really a bit too disturbing.
Last time in the hospital, he learned that I was a psychiatrist, so he wanted to ask me to help. He actually asked Xiaoshuang about the address of our clinic, so he came here when he was not busy at work.
"I checked it on the Internet and said that this state is called marriage phobia and it is a mental illness, so I am here to ask you for help today!" Wang Kunpeng said at the end.
I gave him a blank look and said, "Just you begging for help, who can help you! Killed aggressively, like interrogating a prisoner!" I pretended to be angry.
"Don't, why are you so ignorant, just kidding!" Wang Kunpeng waved his hand quickly and explained with a smile on his face.
Looking at Wang Kunpeng in front of me, I suddenly felt very speechless! This kid, he was naughty when he was a child, and when he grew up, he still didn't have a right line. He was so worried that he was still in the mood to joke with me! I don't know that he is not long-hearted!
Moreover, this guy is quite discerning and knows how to check on the Internet.
"You are very professional, and you know about marriage phobia, what else do you know?" I asked him a little bit dissatisfied, arms folded around his chest.
When Wang Kunpeng saw me like this, he quickly said with a flattering smile: "What can I understand
Seeing his stubborn bear look, my heart is finally balanced, and it can be regarded as a revenge for his frightening me just now! In fact, the old classmate said, how could I not help? At the same time, I have already begun to plan how to help him.
This marital phobia is actually a new formulation. It belongs to one of the branches of anxiety disorders-the psychological disorder of phobias. It's just that the source of this fear is not the monsters, but the matter of marriage.
This is a new type of mental illness that is unique to modern society. The negative publicity of public opinion on married life, as well as the negative phenomena of marriage seen, heard and understood by the sick themselves, are the main reasons for this psychological obstacle.
Marriage is a very popular social topic, and it is often discussed. This social atmosphere puts a lot of psychological pressure on young people who have not yet entered into marriage. Some people think too much about their life after marriage, and when they are about to face marriage, they have a fear of it.
However, most young people, despite fears and worries, finally managed to cross that threshold and start married life. But there are also a small number of people who escape, postpone or even cancel the wedding because of serious psychological barriers or weak psychological endurance.
Wang Kunpeng's fiancee, Xiao Shuang, is such a patient. I speculate that her mental disorder should be quite serious. Moreover, I also suspect that the cause of this disease may not necessarily be the influence of reading novels or TV shows. Maybe there are more complicated reasons deep in her heart.
Thinking of this, I said to Wang Kunpeng: "Well, for your lifelong affairs, I will help you, and please come back and invite me to dinner!"
"Oh, good buddy!" Wang Kunpeng slapped me on the shoulder excitedly. This guy didn't have anything to do with his work. In summer, he was also thinly dressed, and it hurt to take pictures of me.
"Oh, you lighten it! This hurts!" I said with a pained expression.
"You are also called a man, as for you!" Wang Kunpeng satirized me instead.
I blushed and yelled at him: "You are not deep or shallow, you are so ruthless, who can stand it, I will give you a try!"
"Yeah! Are the brothers flirting and cursing here?" Xiaofeng stretched his head and glanced at the room for some unknown time, and said teasingly.
"Don't talk nonsense, flirting, I am normal!" I yelled at her.
Wang Kunpeng laughed and stood up at this moment, "Haha, that's OK, that's it, I'm not sure when I will bring your sister-in-law over! You can wait for me!" He said and left.
"You wait a moment!" I called him hurriedly. "Leave a call and make a call before you come. I can't guarantee that I'll be waiting for you in the clinic!"
"Oh yes! We haven't left the phone yet, it's a mess!" It didn't help me ask, he walked to my desk and took a note paper and started to write.
"Take it! My phone!" Wang Kunpeng finished writing and handed me the paper. Then I also left him his phone number.
"Okay, write it down, say it, maybe someday, I will bring your sister-in-law here!" After he entered my phone number on his cell phone, he walked outside the door. "I have something else, I'm leaving now!"
"No more for you!" I sat on the sofa as steady as a mountain, and didn't stand up at all.
sister in law? Haha, let me call my sister-in-law before getting married? If your kid weren't for my help, even if this daughter-in-law is a pornographic, what would she do! I can't help but think secretly.
But when I turned back, I thought about it again, it was wrong, although this guy is the same age as me, but his birthday is a few days younger than me, how can I be called my sister-in-law, I should be called my younger sister!
"Who are you!" I yelled at Wang Kunpeng, who was already far away, especially, let him take advantage of me before leaving! (End of this chapter)