I went to the bathroom and took a hot shower, but it was really comfortable! In fact, my own habit of cleanliness is not light. If it weren't for the injury yesterday, I couldn't take a bath in the hospital. I would feel uncomfortable if I didn't wash it for a day!
After taking a hot bath, I felt a lot of energy, and the exhaustion just now seemed to have been washed away. After coming out of the bathroom, I put on my pajamas again, and then I continued to discuss the engagement party with my mother.
It’s also a coincidence. Just now, my dad went out to buy groceries, and he also came back when I was talking about the engagement banquet with my mom. So, our family talked about it together.
In the end, we came to the conclusion that the people who need to attend this engagement banquet are mainly relatives in the family! The range does not need to be too large. In addition, the three golds must be bought in advance and handed to Wang Nan at the engagement banquet. Also, the bride price will also be over at the engagement banquet, but we discussed the amount for a long time!
My opinion is that since Wang Nan's mother said 888 yuan is enough, then do it like this, symbolic, just so intentional, but my parents disagree.
"You kid speaks lightly, how can you really do that, so let the jokesman be unreasonable!" My dad immediately objected.
I argued for a few words, but in the end I could only compromise, saying that all this was up to the two elderly people to arrange! In the end, my parents discussed it for a long time and decided to give 88888 the number, no matter how much, they couldn't get it out.
In fact, marriages like our children in the city are really different from the customs in the countryside. Indeed, some people do not give or give gifts. The general rule is that the man buys a house and renovates; the woman buys electricity and a car, and the two families get married together.
This is because the most stringent implementation of the family planning policy back then was in the cities, so almost every family was an only child, unlike in the countryside, there were brothers and sisters! Since the family is a child, why do you have to pay a gift, as long as the child is happy.
For the parents in the city, because there is only such a child, two young people are married, it is really the same as the two families become one family! There is no one else, so everything in the bowl becomes in a pot, even if a little selfish, I can't bear to treat the child badly in the marriage, whether it is the man or the woman.
Of course, in recent years, many young people from the countryside have come to work and settle in the cities, and they have also brought part of the rural marriage customs to the cities. Therefore, I can only say that this is the case for some families. all!
In addition, some women’s parents, although they are also in the city, are also required to pay a lottery because they are afraid that their daughter will not be happy in the future. The purpose is to hold a sum of money in his hands and threaten the man to treat his daughter better.
However, those who do this are really stupid! Money can sometimes blackmail the man
, But it hurt the man's heart invisibly! If you do this, people don’t fail to see what it means, and you are in a mirror in your heart. The man will feel that you do not believe in others and are renunciation and morality. In the future, he will be able to live with your girl in a sincere way? Can you really honor your father-in-law and mother-in-law
I think, no matter what kind of marriage custom, as long as you try your best, as long as you compare your heart to your heart, and consider the children's future happiness, it is the best way!
Just like now, Wang Nan’s mother has long said that she does not want to give the bride price, and plans to accompany a car. But my parents feel that they can’t do that, so I did my best and decided to give the bride price nearly 90,000 yuan. In fact, it is an attitude of expression.
Not only that, my parents also said that they also included the three golds, and even the down payment for the house was paid out!
"I really didn't see that your second elder is so rich? I am a rich second generation?" I was really a little surprised! For a long time, I feel that our family doesn't seem to have that condition!
"What a rich second generation! This is not a wife who saves money and saves money for you!" My mother gave me a glance and said.
"Don't, you two elders keep this money, how good travel is, I have money myself!" I quickly refused.
"Nonsense, your money is your money, knowing that you have a little money now, but this is our intention of being an old man, how can we have children to marry, unscrupulous parents!" My dad said suddenly as if he had a temper. .
"That is, the parents of the other girl Xiao Wang are reasonable, but we can't have an attitude. This is a major marriage!" My mother and my dad are husbands and wives, and continue to say.
"Yes! I won't fight with you, just say it right!" I hurriedly waved my hand and said. But in my heart, it was very moved.
Pity the parents of the world! Although I don't want my parents to give me too much money to do the marriage, but seeing them insist on doing so, I can't bear to refuse it any more and can only accept it. From the bottom of my heart, I swear to myself that I must honor them well and let them live a happy and happy old age!
"The engagement banquet... which day will it be held?" Finally, I asked.
"I think it's the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, how great a family reunion day!" My dad laughed and suggested.
"So fast?" I was a little surprised. You know, today is the twelfth of the first lunar month, and the fifteenth is the day after tomorrow! Today is this time, in other words, there are only two days left for preparation!
"You have kept us waiting for so many years, so hurry up!" My mother said angrily.
Yes, I have no status in this family, and my marriage is not counted. I can only take orders! Fortunately, it's just an engagement banquet, not a formal banquet, and it doesn't require much preparation.
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God, I will buy three golds with your dad, Xiaoxin, you go to Wang's house tomorrow, and discuss with others, don't let us set the date, it is not convenient for them! "My mother said again later.
I think so too, let’s make a decision. If someone hasn’t made a decision, it’s for nothing! I’m a person, I’m a bit eager to do things, my mother gave me such a reminder, I was also a little anxious, glanced at my watch, it was 4 o’clock in the afternoon, so I had a whim, and planned to pass tonight!
So I took out my mobile phone, called Wang Nan, explained the reason, and asked her parents about the convenience or inconvenience today.
Wang Nan didn't hesitate. She was at home, so she immediately asked her parents, and then gave an affirmative answer.
"My parents said, welcome you and your uncles and aunts to come over!" Wang Nan said with joy.
Afterwards, I hung up and asked my parents if they wanted to go together. The two old men did not intend to go with us.
"We won't go this time, to discuss the marriage. We can discuss with her parents during the engagement banquet. You can settle the engagement banquet this time!" My mother said after thinking about it, "Remember , Buy more things to come home, it’s not the first lunar month yet, it’s the New Year!"
"Got it..." After I responded to my mother, I changed into a set of clean clothes and went out again.
Things are going so smoothly, I didn't even expect it myself. The positive attitude of the old people made me very gratified. At this time, when I think about it, I can settle the marriage with Wang Nan. I can't help being very excited, and my whole person is refreshed! It's as if I didn't suffer the injury at all yesterday!
When I got out of the house, I took a taxi and went straight to a large supermarket, bought a lot of gifts, and then went straight to Wang Nan's community.
I've been to her house, so I'm naturally familiar with it. Wang Nan also deliberately picked me up at the gate of the community, and when I saw me walking past in a big bag, she was smiling all over her face! In fact, at this time, she is probably in the same mood as me. Our current relationship is in the period of passion, and she is of course happy to be able to settle the marriage!
"Buying so many things!" Seeing that I was carrying so many gifts, Wang Nan was a little laborious, and she quickly took some. I know that she is worried that I had a brain shock yesterday and I still feel unwell today. "This time, you finally spent the money yourself!"
Wang Nan's ridicule reminds me of the last time I went to her house and brought me the things she bought with her money. For a while, I was a little ashamed!
"Last time you lied to me, I didn't even ask you to settle the account!" I retorted.
"What the hell is it! People are paying you!" Wang Nan replied with a shy face.
Upon hearing this, I couldn't help but feel blood surging again, and a warm current surged in my heart, feeling that I was the happiest man in the world! (End of this chapter)