"What about..." Xiao Jianxin understood what I meant, and she quickly opened the door of the consulting room. An old woman appeared at the door, looking a little nervous and uneasy.
"Please come in, please come in... You are the patient's..." I asked her about her relationship with the girl as I invited her in.
"I am her grandma..." the old woman replied.
So far, I have made some speculations based on the current situation. The child suffers from such a severe phobia, but the grandmother brings her for diagnosis and treatment, and she does not see her parents. This shows that the girl is either an orphan or a single-parent family.
Her parents are either gone or divorced, but they are unwilling to raise the girl and can only push the child to be raised by her grandmother.
In fact, when a child grows up, it is a very important factor that can have a complete family and complete parental love and maternal love. Anything that is lacking, the child will leave a psychological shadow to some extent, resulting in a lack of personality, or suffering from mental illness.
Most of the cases in which minors suffer from mental illnesses I have seen have incomplete family backgrounds. Obviously, this girl should belong to a similar situation.
Although grandma takes care of the girl meticulously, she can't replace the role of biological parents and the kind of love she gives to the girl, so it is not surprising that such a problem arises. The key is, what is the cause of the girl
I asked the girl's grandmother to sit down on the sofa. During this time, I greeted the girl again to sit down. However, she just hid in the corner without looking up.
No way, I can only learn about the situation from the girl's grandmother first.
"Can you tell me about the child's condition? The more detailed the better!" Then I asked the old woman.
"Oh, this child is also suffering..." The old woman sighed deeply, and then began to tell the girl's past.
The old woman said that the girl's name was Xiaozhen. Originally, he was also an innocent, romantic, lively and cheerful child, and he grew up looking very good, very likable, and he was not the kind of person who is not a ghost or a ghost at all.
The accident happened when Xiaozhen was 7 years old. The child's father was working in a mine, and unfortunately died in a mining accident. This incident caused a big blow to Xiaozhen, who was young at the time. Then, her mother remarried again, and simply ignored Xiaozhen and pushed her to be raised by her grandmother.
From then on, Xiaozhen seemed to have changed herself, becoming taciturn and unhappy. She often asked her grandma if she was a child that no one wanted, but this grandma was not a person who is good at expressing words, she could only hold her and cry with her every time.
However, although the child has changed a lot, everything seems to be slowly returning to the right track. She goes to school every day and she is also very self-conscious.
Li, never have to worry about grandma.
The old woman said that when the child was in the sixth grade of elementary school, suddenly one day, Xiaozhen ran home crying. She asked Xiaozhen what happened, Xiaozhen didn't say anything, she hid in the corner when she got home, and kept crying.
At that time, she refused to say what the grandma asked. She was helpless, and grandma could only comfort a few words and give up.
But I never thought that since then, Xiaozhen would have nightmares and talk in sleep every day. Grandma sleeps lightly and is often awakened. What she heard Xiaozhen say the most is: It hurts!
Grandma realized that Xiaozhen might have been bullied by her classmates at school, and even guessed whether the teacher abused her and beat her! So, one day, she went to school to find a teacher.
However, the situation described by the teacher surprised grandma! The child's head teacher said, Xiaozhen said that grandma was sick, so for a while, she spent half a day in class every day and left in the afternoon!
The teacher in charge, knows the situation of Xiaozhen's family, and also knows that she only has a grandmother to depend on each other, so she gave a fake, and even thought about coming home to have a look and care about it. Unexpectedly, the child was lying!
Grandma was so angry that she could not help but slap Xiaozhen when she returned home! And asked her why she lied. However, this practice of grandma caused Xiaozhen to collapse all of a sudden!
After that, Xiaozhen didn't say a word, no matter who was talking to her, she was just there in a daze, looking like she was in a daze.
After the incident, grandma took Xiaozhen to the hospital for an examination. The doctor said that she was suffering from depression!
Since then, Xiaozhen’s illness has come off from time to time and sometimes healed. During the period, she took a break from school several times, and she barely finished her junior high school before continuing to go to school.
Now, Xiaozhen is almost 18 years old, and her grandmother is getting older, relying on her pension, the life of the grandparents is very difficult. Moreover, grandma was thinking, she will leave Xiaozhen sooner or later, what can this child do
So, she asked someone to find Xiaozhen a job as a hotel waiter, not to make money, but to enable Xiaozhen to adapt to society and exercise her ability to survive.
In fact, Xiaozhen has been able to live a normal life after treatment and recovery over the years, but she seems very introverted, depressed, and she seems to be very courageous.
Therefore, the first period of time when she worked in the restaurant was fairly smooth, and the boss also thought that the girl was cautious, obedient, not mischievous, and liked her very much.
But something happened later, but Xiaozhen completely broke down again!
The hotel, the guests who come to patronize, naturally there are all kinds of people! That day, several male guests in the private room drank a lot of wine. When Xiaozhen was serving food, a male guest suddenly gave Xiaozhen a hug from behind because of his alcoholic nature!
Just like that, Xiaozhen suddenly issued a
The screams made the men in the private room half awake from the wine!
The dish was thrown to the ground, and Xiaozhen hid directly in the corner, covering her ears, screaming loudly, and even the guest who harassed her was terrified!
The boss came to ask for an inquiry, came out on behalf of Xiaozhen, and angrily criticized the men. Those customers, knowing that they were at a loss, hurriedly checked out and left. However, Xiaozhen kept hiding in the corner regardless of who persuaded her, screaming!
Until the end, she couldn't shout anymore, even her voice became hoarse, and then she lost her voice, but she refused to leave the corner when she said anything! Usually looking at her skinny, she went crazy with great strength, whoever pulled her, she struggled desperately, and as a result, no one in the entire hotel could pull her!
In the end, grandma learned the news and hurried to the hotel to comfort her slowly, and then she took Xiaozhen home. However, from then on, she never went out again, locked herself at home all day long, and, as long as there were outsiders at home, she would hide in the corner!
Later, the old sister whose grandma came to see Xiaozhen's situation and recommended her to take her to my clinic. This grandma also had the attitude of giving her a try, so she brought Xiaozhen over.
"Doctor, you don't know... I tried so hard to persuade her to come here..." The old woman said to the end, she glanced at Xiao Zhen in the corner, her eyes filled with distressed expressions.
As the old woman told her, my eyes would look at Xiaozhen in the corner from time to time. After all, she is my patient, and it is her that I need to pay attention to most, not her grandmother.
Several times during the period, I found that when grandma told certain plots, Xiaozhen would raise her head slightly, as if she wanted to look at us, but didn't dare to raise her head. Especially when my grandmother talked about the period when she lied and played truant, Xiaozhen once looked at me!
However, the timid Xiaozhen, seeing that I was watching her, quickly avoided my gaze and continued to lower her head. However, I could see that she was trying to say something, but she didn't dare to say it!
From this, I speculate that Xiaozhen should not be depressed, she is indeed phobic, at least this time she came to my clinic, it should be like this! As for the doctors who diagnosed her as depression back then, I am not sure whether she was misdiagnosed.
Patients with depression only stay in their own thoughts. The brain's thinking is actually very active, but the performance is silent. Although I occasionally say a few words, they are all nonsense, without logic.
And Xiaozhen’s performance can clearly be seen that she wants to speak but dare not speak, and every time she wants to speak is at a logical node, she is definitely not a patient with depression, let alone a patient with mental illness. !
In Xiaozhen's heart, there is a deep psychological shadow, what shadow will it be? (End of this chapter)