Distance is often a manifestation of the degree of trust between people. The more you trust, the closer you are, even like a couple, you can achieve zero-distance trust.
Xiaozhen has a phobia and doesn't trust the whole world, so she hides in a corner, far away from everyone. Now, she came over and sat on the sofa opposite me. This fully shows that Xiaozhen at this time has already begun to trust my psychologist!
For ordinary people, sitting opposite me is not difficult. But for Xiaozhen, who is suffering from phobias, she can sit so close, which represents a major progress in the treatment of her condition!
In fact, the treatment of mental illness, to put it plainly, in many cases is to make the patient get better through the words and performance of the doctor. Many therapies, although the names are weird, are actually just chatting!
In other words, I am a psychiatrist, you may not feel it, but in the process of chatting with me, you have already received a certain degree of treatment!
At this moment, Xiaozhen, even though she was sitting opposite me and didn't dare to look at me, she still lowered her head and hid her face in her long hair, but obviously, she saw hope and felt that I Should be able to help her.
The shadow that had tortured her for so many years, Xiaozhen actually wanted to get rid of her as soon as possible and live happily like a normal girl. But, for so many years, for various reasons, no one helped her, and she never dared to tell the truth.
"Xiaozhen, take a sip of the tea, and after drinking it, tell me who actually bullied you..." I said afterwards.
More than 70% of the human body is composed of water, so people cannot do without water. Everyone has the inexplicable feeling of water in their bones. Xiaozhen's mood is very tense now, tension will cause thirst, and drinking water can relieve this tense feeling.
In addition, I also want to find a distraction for Xiaozhen. Maybe everyone has this kind of memory, a person, because of nervousness, will keep fiddling with his fingers or other things.
This may seem distracting, but it actually helps to concentrate! Hands, or other things, are actually uneasy transfer objects. Through manipulation and rubbing, uneasiness can be eliminated and it is more conducive to concentration.
The teacup, at this time, is responsible for such a function! Xiaozhen hesitated for a moment, and she really picked up the tea cup and took a sip of light scented tea as I said. Then, she started to rub her hands on the tea cup non-stop!
"I don't dare to think... I'm afraid..." Xiaozhen said again, still hesitating.
"Xiaozhen, don't be afraid, I will help you with me!" I hurriedly persuaded.
"I dare not..." Xiaozhen still refused to say.
In fact, I know that Xiaozhen's dare not to say is not necessarily because she is afraid that the culprit will be disadvantageous to her, but she just doesn't want to recall the painful memories.
"Xiaozhen, I actually understand what you mean. You dare not to remember, for fear that it will bring pain. But now, in fact, you can't forget the painful memory. After the incident in the hotel, you have already remembered it. … "I then said softly and slowly.
Xiaozhen didn't speak, but looked up at me slightly. I know that her mind was hit by me again.
"That rascal in the restaurant, hugged you from behind, you were too scared. Did the person who left you a shadow back then hugged you in the same way?" I asked again.
Xiaozhen was shocked when she heard what I said. Obviously, I was right again! At the beginning, the nasty man who sexually assaulted her must have embraced Xiaozhen from behind in the same way, and then began to violently. That's why Xiaozhen reacted so strongly to the male guest's actions.
"Also, at the beginning... That beast, did you call your little sister..." I asked again.
Xiaozhen seemed even more surprised at this time. She raised her head to look at me this time for ten seconds! It seems that I guessed it again!
Some people think that psychologists are too miraculous. Why can they know everything in their heart? In fact, psychologists are just a group of people who have mastered certain medical techniques and are experienced.
For example, what I guessed just now is not a random guess, it is also an inference based on the facts I have observed and learned!
When Xiaozhen first entered the clinic, I once asked with concern: Little sister, what's wrong with you
This was originally a very kind greeting, but Xiaozhen suddenly appeared very scared at the time, so I guess that the title "little sister" is also a shadow for Xiaozhen! It can be inferred that the man who bullied her back then might have called her that way too!
Therefore, when Xiaozhen heard the name little sister, she unconsciously recalled the scene at the beginning, and she seemed so scared!
However, after I kept talking about her thoughts, it was obvious that Xiaozhen's trust in me was gradually deepening. She, who had never dared to look at me, was able to look at me for so long!
On the one hand, she was surprised, and on the other hand, she indeed began to believe that I could help her!
"Xiaozhen... Now, let's dig out the beast together and let him get the punishment he deserves. From now on, we won't have to be afraid of him anymore!" I said quickly when there was a turning point.
Xiaozhen then lowered her head again and kept rubbing her hands on the teacup. Although she seemed nervous and uneasy, I knew that her psychological defense was going to
Breakthrough!
"Yes... An Qingfu..." Xiaozhen suddenly said a person's name!
However, this is a very unfamiliar name to me. I quickly glanced at Xiaozhen's grandma, but obviously, Xiaozhen's grandma didn't know who this An Qingfu was.
"An Qingfu? Who is it?" Grandma couldn't help but interject.
"Yes... from the school... teacher..." Xiaozhen finally revealed the answer!
It turned out to be as I imagined, Xiaozhen was actually sexually assaulted by a male teacher in the school! In fact, cases like this are not uncommon! Although the teacher is a career under the sun, there are some scoundrels and dark-hearted people who are involved in it!
Such cases generally have extremely bad effects! Not only has it corrupted the reputation of the entire faculty, but it has also created an indelible shadow for these minors who have been violated in a lifetime!
As children grow up, they need careful psychological care. Once they encounter such a devastation, they will probably be ruined in their entire life! Even if the physical injury can be healed, the spiritual injury may never be healed!
I heard this answer, although it was already in my expectation, it also made me very angry! He clenched his fist unconsciously! If the so-called An Qingfu is in front of me at this time, I must give him a blue eye!
However, my anger is not important at this moment. The most important thing is to quickly find out the details of this teacher and hold him criminally responsible! At the beginning, Xiaozhen was only in the sixth grade of elementary school, and she must be under the age of 14. This An Qingfu committed the crime of raping an underage girl, and what awaits him will be a heavy criminal responsibility!
"What's the matter, Xiaozhen, can you tell me something?" I hurriedly asked. Because of this kind of thing, empirical evidence is also needed! If there is no evidence, how to prove that Anqing is rich and guilty? However, after so many years have passed, how to find evidence
Therefore, I must know more details to help Xiaozhen!
"You kid, speak up! What's the matter?" Seeing Xiaozhen hesitated, the grandma was very anxious, and even said to Xiaozhen in a complaining tone.
I quickly stopped ●31 novel app download address● stopped her and motioned her not to speak. In fact, this grandma, if she said it should be good for Xiaozhen, but she didn't know how to do it. If her education method were not so extensive and paid more attention to Xiaozhen's inner world, I am afraid that things will not develop to this day and have not been resolved!
In other words, although grandma is Xiaozhen's relatives, because of some of her practices, Xiaozhen is actually very afraid of her in her heart!
Seeing Xiaozhen hesitating to say, I immediately asked her grandma to avoid it, and asked Xiao Jianxin to take her outside to wait. Only me and Xiaozhen were left in the consultation room. (End of this chapter)