When I heard this, I was suddenly puzzled. Bad guys? How could there be bad guys in the school? Could it be that which teacher beat and scolded Xiao Yu? or…
I suddenly remembered that when I was in school, there were naughty children in the school who bullied classmates.
What's more, it is a group of unscrupulous students who see themselves as social people after watching a few young and Dangerous movies, and set up triad-like "organizations" in schools, fighting, smoking, and drinking all day long.
But at that time, it was only after middle school that such students appeared. Could it be that there are now primary schools
"Is someone bullying you, or your classmates in your school?" I tried to ask Xiao Yu.
Xiao Yu was surprised again when he heard me ask. It seems that I was right again! Xiao Yu is not a school-weary at all. He was bullied in school, and for some reason, he didn't dare to tell his teachers and parents. That's why he didn't dare to go to school.
Moreover, due to the incomprehension of the parents and teachers, Xiao Yu has a very introverted personality, which caused him to suffer from long-term insomnia and dreams, and his heart was under great pressure. Not only was Xiao Yu not school-weary, but he had a tendency to depression.
If such an older child is still in elementary school, it would be terrible if he really got depression. Heart disease still needs heart medicine, and I must understand the ins and outs of this before I can find a way to help him. It is best to get rid of this knot for him and solve the problem thoroughly.
"Xiao Yu, can you tell me what is going on?" Seeing Xiao Yu not speaking, I asked him gently.
The light rain in front of me, he was hesitant to speak, but he still refused to speak.
"They said, if I dare to speak out, kill me!" After holding back for a long time, Xiao Yu said such a sentence.
"It's okay, there are only two of us here. I'm your friend, right?" I comforted him quickly.
Xiao Yu seemed to be a little moved when he heard what I said. After turning her small eyes for a long time, she spoke and told me.
Xiao Yu said that there was a 6th grade boy in their school named Xiaolong. He was a tyrant on campus. Everyone called him "Brother Long" privately.
Brother Long, his parents are in business, and he relied on his own money to win over a bunch of younger brothers, and dominate the school and near the school.
They rob students of money, food, and girls to be girlfriends. What's even more exaggerated is that they also charge so-called "protection fees"!
Brother Long and his gang were extremely cruel. None of the students who were bullied dared to tell their teachers and parents, they could only endure silently. Once there was a student who told the teacher, but that student eventually transferred to another school, but Long and the others were not punished.
This Long brother still knew some so-called "big brothers" in the society, and once something happened, those people would come out to "take care" of him. Therefore, he is simply going wild, even taking his little brother to fight with junior high school students.
Xiao Yu’s nightmare was caused by Brother Long, and Xiao Yu had a close partner named Xiaopeng. The two go to school together every day and play together. One day, Xiaopeng was running in the corridor and accidentally touched Brother Long's shoulder, and that brother Long reluctantly made Xiaopeng lose money.
Although Xiao Yu was very scared by the side, she rushed over to rescue Xiaopeng when she saw her good friend being bullied. As a result, Brother Long and the others were so crowded, he instead took himself in. After being violently beaten by them, Brother Long turned anger at this Xiaoyu who dared to fight.
After the incident, Brother Long threatened to see him once, beat him once, and said that if he dared to tell the teachers and parents, he would kill Xiao Yu.
When I heard this, I was a little disdainful. Such so-called threats are frightening. How can they dare to kill people
Xiao Yu saw my disdainful expression and immediately emphasized: "It's true, many of them go to school with knives!"
When I heard this, I felt that the matter was serious, and it was more than just campus bullying. Go to school with controlled knives? Why didn’t the school teachers find out
Yu then said that he was very scared and did not dare to go to school anymore. But his parents always force him to go, he is really crazy. These things, I didn't dare to tell the adults, I was a little desperate.
After listening to his story, I couldn't help but sigh.
In recent years, school violence has repeatedly become the focus of media discussions and has almost become a sharp social issue.
In fact, every adult can recall that this kind of campus bullying or even violent behavior may have been seen or experienced by everyone. It really is not the patent of the current generation of children.
People have grown up from generation to generation, but this problem has never been solved well.
It's just that the current media channels are more developed than before, so such things are more likely to be magnified in front of the public.
The emergence of this problem actually has many responsibilities. There are the responsibilities of parents, the responsibilities of schools and teachers, and the responsibilities of society.
First of all, some parents give birth to children, but don’t educate them, thinking that they are fulfilling their responsibilities by just feeding and warming their children. They don’t have any education or don’t know how to educate their children, or they just don’t have time to supervise their children, which results in some children. During the rebellious period, many extraordinary things were done.
Other parents treat their children as a burden, and after their own divorce, no one cares about the children, causing their young hearts to suffer severe damage, and slowly they will easily embark on evil roads. There are even some parents who are not good at themselves. They never directly guide and educate their children. Instead, they teach their children how to be selfish, how not to suffer, how to take advantage, and so on.
Secondly, the responsibilities of schools and teachers cannot be shirk. In China's education, the performance-only approach is actually very inappropriate, ignoring other aspects of children's quality and mental health.
In addition, the quality of the teaching staff is uneven, and there are many people who lack teacher ethics. You know, the teacher's practices and words can affect a child's life. For example, the woman who made a noise at the gate of the high-speed rail and refused to let the train start. How can such a person be a teacher to educate children
As for teachers who accept bribes and benefits from their parents, they should be dealt with in accordance with the law. It's a miracle that public officials have accepted bribes for so many years without incident!
Of course, this is not to say that all teachers are like this. Many teachers are still dedicated and very ethical. But a rat shit is a pot of soup, and a profession like a teacher, even if there are only a few unscrupulous elements, has a huge impact on children.
Finally, it is the responsibility of the whole society. The ungraded status of film and television works has caused many minors to learn a lot of negative things from television and film. This is a direct cause of school violence.
The other is that the legal system is still not sound enough, and the criminal behavior of minors is too lenient. You must know that children are children after all and require strict education to become talents.
If a minor commits a crime without paying any price, how can they realize that their behavior is wrong? This kind of forgiveness is actually tantamount to harming the children. They commit crimes without paying the price. When they grow up in the future, they may not cause much trouble.
The other social responsibility is that everyone is going to take care of themselves, and it’s not a matter of hanging up high. Many people will choose to be silent when they see other people’s children committing inappropriate behaviors. This is something that some countries have done very well. Even strangers can educate their children, and children can follow the lessons of their elders. There really is no such a system of education for all in our country!
After listening to Xiao Yu's account, I pondered for a long time. The problem of school violence is actually very difficult to solve. Many people think that children, children fight together with adults.
As a psychiatrist, I have no way to help Xiao Yu solve the problem. What can I do
It suddenly occurred to me that Xiaoyu mentioned that the so-called Long Brother and his group had gone to school with controlled knives, and they had also fought in groups. Such things are illegal and criminal acts, and they are definitely not just as simple as campus bullying.
So I let Xiao Yuan sit down, took out the phone and dialed Wang Kunpeng's number.
"Beep..." The phone rang for a long time, but he didn't answer it. (End of this chapter)