Tomorrow Psychology Clinic

Chapter 580: As a daughter

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In fact, not far from my clinic, there is a driving school registration office, and it is also a well-known driving school in the city. I think that this kind of thing still has to pay attention to the brand effect. Big brands and big driving schools are also in my heart.

This registration office is a small store. I used to pass by here often, but I have never thought about signing up in the past. Today, I also made a sudden effort and went straight there.

As soon as I walked in, a female staff member recognized me.

"Doctor Gao! Why are you here!" This was a girl in her twenties, dressed in the uniform of their driving school, with an enthusiastic face, stood up and greeted me.

No wonder, after all, I have a small reputation outside, and they are so close to my clinic that it's not normal if they don't know me.

"Sit down, please!" Immediately, the girl told me to sit down at the reception desk and poured me a glass of water. "Doctor Gao, what do you want to consult?"

"Um... I want to take a driver's license..." I replied hesitantly. The reason for this is that I feel a bit embarrassed that I don't have a driver's license.

"Doctor Gao, don't you have a driver's license yet?" Sure enough, this girl was a little surprised when she heard what I said. However, she was very professional and quickly returned to normal. She quickly introduced some procedures and precautions for driving a driver's license.

She was very detailed, but I only listened to it. On the one hand, because there is a lot of information, I need a digestion process, on the other hand... How can I look at the girl in front of me so familiar! Therefore, I was a little distracted and didn't listen so seriously.

Some people may say that her work place is very close to your clinic, that is, she has had face-to-face meetings before! However, I tried to remember, but it didn't seem to be the case. Where did I meet her

"Doctor Gao, it is recommended that you apply for a C1 driver's license. Now we have a unified fee of 3800 yuan. However, if you helped me, I will definitely give you the best discount!" The girl talked openly, and finally said.

Oh! I suddenly remembered that this girl was named Zhang Qiang, and she had been to my clinic before!

When the clinic was first opened, there were very few patients. I was impressed with a few very distinctive patients, and I still remember them. However, after the benefit of the clinic improved, too many patients were admitted every day, and there were still some It was Xiaofeng who received the doctor, and my impression of them is not so deep. Even some people who have only been there once have no impression on me anymore!

However, when I remembered her true identity, I still left a trace of doubt, because I thought she was familiar at first, but it was not because she had been to the clinic before, as if she looked a bit like I knew Someone in, but I can't figure out who it is like.

Before, Zhang Qiang went to my clinic not because she had a mental illness, but because there was a relationship problem between her and her boyfriend. In other words, she went to my place for an emotional consultation, but what happened? , But I am not impressed, a little can't remember.

"How are you and boyfriend?" At this point, I asked.

"Hehe, it seems that Doctor Gao remembered it!" Zhang Qiang is not stupid, looking at my dull expression before, she also knows that I forgot her, "It's much better, I might have been too self-willed before. …"

There was a trace of shame on Zhang Qiang's face. It was only then that I suddenly remembered why she came to my clinic for help in the first place.

There were a lot of patients that day. This Zhang Qiang had been waiting in the waiting area for a long time before her turn. As a result, she cried when she came up and said that her boyfriend was going to break up with him. She said that she loved her boyfriend very much and was reluctant. But her boyfriend seemed to have given up her mind and refused to turn her head when she said nothing. She begged me to give her some guidance.

I first comforted her a few words, and gradually helped her calm down. After asking her to drink some water, Zhang Qiang slowly revealed the entanglement between her and her boyfriend.

It turned out that Zhang Qiang is a very typical "women." Reading the word "work" in this is probably the same thing as what we usually say "If you don't do it, you won't die".

The so-called being a girl is not knowing how to cherish what you have, always picking and choosing, or making a lot of incomprehensible actions, or being naughty or willful. In short, it gives people a sense of "work". Woman.

This kind of girl is not a bad person, most of them love someone with their heart, and they love a person very real, and they don't adulterate their feelings at all. However, just because they love it too much, as a result, they hurt the person they love or the person who loves them deeply.

This Zhang Qiang is this kind of girl. The process of meeting and falling in love with her boyfriend is nothing special. Like ordinary people, there is still a trace of romance and surprise in the ordinary, but the next process of getting along between the two people is because of her. "Work", there is a problem.

Zhang Qiang's boyfriend loves her very much and treats her very well. This kind of goodness, not a single person, is meticulous now, Xihan asked Nuan, he even spoiled Zhang Qiang, and was very tolerant to her, and could even be said to be tolerant.

It was good at first, until something happened. That day, Zhang Qiang was playing videos at home and saw a video of a routine boyfriend. She had an idea and decided to routinely follow her boyfriend.

So she wrote a message and sent it over. The content is: When I was taking medicine, I saw an explosive news!

Believe what I said, a lot of people know this routine. According to the understanding of "bastard logic", if your boyfriend asks what the news is, it means that he doesn't love you.

I don't care why you take the medicine!

Zhang Qiang waited expectantly for her boyfriend's reply, but in the end all she waited was to ask her what news she had read.

In fact, when I was giving Zhang Qiang psychological counseling, I also analyzed for her. This so-called routine is actually a kind of conversation trap, not an emotional test at all!

Watching the news while taking medicine. This narrative method is equivalent to introducing the conversation into the key theme of watching the news. With this kind of statement, nine out of ten people will be recruited, because this is the language habit of the Chinese when speaking!

As a result, many people will blurt out what the news is. Imagine if you put this sentence in reverse: I took medicine when I was watching the news today. So most people's attention will be on the medicine, or they will ask why you take the medicine, or ask what medicine you have taken.

This is actually a trick to play with people. It is impossible to tell whether the other party values you. Even if you are not recruited by chance, I answered the answer you hoped and asked what medicine you took and why you took the medicine because he was enough. Smart, not how much I love you!

So, I said, this is purely a kind of "jerk logic"! Of course, the person who first invented this routine may just use it as a joke, and most people will also use it as a joke, and talk about it for fun, but for women, it's different!

Because they will be more real and think it is true! Zhang Qiang, take it seriously. She was very disappointed at the time, and even a small temper came up. She never returned to her boyfriend. She threw down her mobile phone and suffocated her stomach. Don't care about her!

Of course, this incident also passed later. It was after her boyfriend apologized in every possible way, coaxed her for several days, and bought her favorite gift before she was forgiven by Zhang Qiang. However, this incident was the earliest bane planted before the crisis of the two people's sense of sex!

As the two people interacted for longer and longer, and even after the two people moved in together, Zhang Qiang's "work" character became more and more obvious.

She tends to lose her temper because of a trivial matter, and when she feels uncomfortable, she will anger her boyfriend. For girls like them, isn't this the role of boyfriends? If they can't tolerate themselves, can't spoil themselves, and can't bear their little self-willedness, why do they still have a boyfriend

In addition, she also learned a variety of routines to test and test her boyfriend. At first, her boyfriend was often fooled, but later, he also learned to be fine and stopped being fooled, but Zhang Qiang still feels insecure and always feels The boyfriend doesn't really care about himself.

In this way, Zhang Qiang went farther and farther on the road of his own "work", and felt that he was doing it reasonably and doing well, until one day, something happened! (End of this chapter)