In fact, these actions Zhang Qiang made at this time were not entirely caused by anger. What she couldn't tolerate was that her boyfriend actually broke up with her, but she didn't even have a clear explanation. She wanted to ask her face to face.
However, when she arrived at her boyfriend's unit, she couldn't get in, and the guards couldn't let irrelevant personnel enter the factory. However, her boyfriend seemed to have known that she was coming. Although he did not show up, one of his good buddies came out and found Zhang Qiang.
This good buddy actually helped Zhang Qiang's boyfriend to spread the word. They found a place, sat down, and he said a lot. It seemed that his boyfriend usually confided to him, and now he told Zhang Qiang to listen to it.
After listening to what this good buddy said, Zhang Qiang unexpectedly learned a lot of truth!
In fact, the emotional crisis between the two has already planted the seeds since that routine. That time Zhang Qiang used a routine to test him, but he didn't answer the correct answer. Zhang Qiang was very angry. In fact, her boyfriend was even more angry, but Zhang Qiang didn't notice it at all!
In fact, an important reason why Zhang Qiang's boyfriend broke up with his ex-girlfriend is that, like Zhang Qiang, she always engages in some trials and tests when she is all right, and she never gets tired of it! Therefore, he was disgusted with this set, but because he loved Zhang Qiang very much, and he couldn't always fight on one thing, so he tolerated her and didn't show his disgust.
Also, on that business trip, Zhang Qiang failed to pick up his rage because of the rain, and her boyfriend was actually very angry! I worked hard for the future of the two people and took the initiative to apply for the opportunity to travel, because in this way I can perform well around the leader, show my abilities, and get more opportunities. But Zhang Qian's unreasonable making trouble, but messed up the matter! In front of the leader, he answered the phone time and time again, talking about private matters, but the leader had a bad impression of him, and all his previous efforts were almost in vain!
However, because of love, her boyfriend finally chose tolerance, he did not blame Zhang Qiang. I wanted to come back and have a good talk with Zhang Qiang, but she didn’t expect that she would continue to quarrel with him under the threat of moving away. In desperation, her boyfriend chose to compromise in order to prevent the relationship from being ruined. He apologized. He coaxed Zhang Qiang, but in fact he was not so willing, because this incident was originally Zhang Qiang making trouble.
Also, that birthday, in fact, her boyfriend was really carefully prepared. He burned his hands to bake cakes for himself, and made a table of good dishes according to the recipes. Isn't all this to make Zhang Qiang happy
But who knows, just because the color of the lipstick is not bought right, Zhang Qiang’s nose is not a nose, and her face is not a face. Everything she prepared for a long time before became worthless, her boyfriend’s heart is actually Extremely disappointed!
"How many people do you think men can tell what color lipsticks are?" When the good guy said this, he deliberately asked Zhang Qiang.
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"It's still useless, you can tell it clearly if you use your heart!" Zhang Qiang refused to convince, but retorted stiffly.
"Then tell me, what is the name of the third generation of Hokage?" the good buddy asked again.
"What... Three generations..." Zhang Qiang was stunned.
"Or tell me, which one is better, the bronze of the Six Gods outfit or the unequipped king?" That buddy changed his question again.
"What's this all about!" Zhang Qiang still didn't understand.
"This is what boys like, and your boyfriend likes it too, don't you girls still don't understand it!" The buddy concluded.
It was only in this Qiang that she understood that, indeed, she didn't even know what the anime and games her boyfriend liked were, how could she have the right to ask her boyfriend to be so proficient in the things that women use!
After the birthday, the boyfriend has nothing on the surface. In fact, he is a little tired of this kind of life in his heart, and he is not happy all day. Therefore, when he drank with his good brother from the unit, he confided a lot of the two people's past, and this good buddy was able to know this.
This buddy said that the screenshot of the lyrics of the song "Later" was not sent because Zhang Qiang's boyfriend had feelings, nor was it because he missed his ex-girlfriend, it was purely a joke with his work colleagues.
They have a male colleague in the same department who sings with incomplete pentatonic sound and is still a microphone. Every time he goes to a KTV party, he occupies the microphone. Especially once, he had to sing Liu Reoying's "Afterwards". I sang the donkey's movement and finished everyone's fun!
Since then, this guy has become a laughing stock of the unit, and this song "Later" has also become his "masterpiece". Everyone sometimes mentions it and jokingly teases him. And Zhang Qiang’s boyfriend sent a screenshot of the lyrics to Moments that day, which was actually what it meant!
"Then why didn't he say clearly, if he explained clearly, can I be angry!" Zhang Qiang was still very unconvinced, looking for various objective reasons.
"Have you forgotten? Did you give him a chance to explain at that time? He didn't answer the call or send the message, so he thought something was wrong with you, and finally called your unit to know that you were angry!" This buddy The tone was not very good.
"After returning home, he didn't explain it either!" Zhang Qiang still defended.
"After returning home, he was too lazy to explain to your reluctant attitude... Do you understand? A man, if he doesn't even bother to explain, it means that he has enough..." The buddy said earnestly.
Zhang Qian didn't understand everything until then, and she began to regret it a bit. It is true that she loves her boyfriend very much, and her boyfriend once loved her very much, but because of her constant work, she finally lost this relationship with such a good boyfriend!
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After this conversation, Zhang Qiang also regretted it. She tried to save her boyfriend, but she could not get his forgiveness. She shed tears all day long and regretted it. She didn't even want to work on her original job and quit her job. . The whole person's mental state is getting worse and worse. Every day she nests in the rented house where they once lived together, feeling unkempt and dying.
Later, after watching an episode of "Emotional Fire Brigade", she thought of asking me for help. After inquiring about it, she confirmed that my psychologist also received emotional counseling and came to my clinic.
This is the whole story. I don’t need to say more about how I helped her at the time. It was nothing more than psychological suggestion therapy and heart-to-heart analysis and interpretation. However, Zhang Qiang’s biggest concern at the time was whether her boyfriend could look back because she was not willing to look back. This love is lost like this.
I asked her at the time, when her boyfriend proposed to break up, was it angry or peaceful, and she replied that she was angry, so I smiled and told her that her boyfriend still hopes to turn around, as long as you are sincere Efforts to save, this relationship is still saved.
At that time, Zhang Qiang also went back suspiciously, but now it seems that my prediction is correct.
Some women always feel that they know men well, but they don't necessarily know them. Men are rational animals. If they really give up, they won't make trouble, let alone anger, they will only break up peacefully, and they don't care about anything.
Like Zhang Qiang’s boyfriend, when she angrily proposes to break up, there is still room for redemption, but she needs to show enough sincerity, and she must change her past mistakes. Don’t be as naive and self-willed as before. This relationship is still Can be restored.
In fact, many girls make mistakes like Zhang Qiang, thinking that their men should pamper themselves, let themselves, and infinitely tolerate themselves, satisfy their various needs, and there must be no flaws.
But I want to say that there may be such a man in this world, that man is your father, other than that, no man can meet this requirement! Except for blood relationship that can bring you the kind of love that is not demanded and only paid, other people cannot always meet your requirements infinitely, let alone tolerate you and spoil you infinitely. Already an adult, but wanting to experience the feeling of being a princess is also extremely naive!
This way of love, although you may be sincere, never consider the feelings of men, just want to let the other person to achieve and meet their needs, ignore the other person’s efforts to be happy for you, and more What's more, I think this should be done, but in fact it is a manifestation of extreme selfishness!
A childish and selfish love, who can afford it? (End of this chapter)