Why are you curious? Because it involves my profession again! I am a psychiatrist. I am naturally sensitive to the phenomena and dynamics of human psychology.
Although I haven't started dealing with this coach, and even what he looks like, I don't have a clear idea of what he looks like, but I suddenly became interested in him!
In the past, I always heard people complain that the coaches in the driving school had a bad attitude, always training people, and even fierce. In fact, I have analyzed this a long time ago.
Driving school coaches are different from teachers. They are technical professors and instructors, and their students are also adults. This special profession is also destined to attract complaints.
In fact, everyone can think about it. Didn’t you get trained by your teacher in your childhood? Basically impossible. When a child is naughty, no matter how well-behaved children are, they all have the experience of being trained by the teacher, but will the child complain that the teacher is too fierce? Will you hold grudges
Under normal circumstances, it is not. As we grow up, these things will gradually fade away. However, the students in the driving school are all adults with strong self-esteem. When they are directly reprimanded by the coach, they are a little bit uncomfortable on their faces. They will feel that the coach is impolite, or even rude, and has a poor attitude.
In fact, it’s not easy for a driving school coach. They have a lot of work pressure every day, there are too many students, from morning to night, and the spirit is highly stressed. What’s more, he must repeatedly teach everyone the same driving skills. , This kind of repetition is hundreds, even tens of thousands of times!
Even if you love to eat another dish and let you eat it more than 10,000 times, you will be enough! The psychological pressure of driving school coaches mainly comes from this! From a psychological point of view, countless repetitions can make people feel bored and even resist. In this process, there can be no mistakes, and a high level of mental stress is required. This job is indeed tiring.
It is conceivable that after a day's work, they are exhausted physically and mentally, and this is the case day after day and year after year. People who are more psychologically vulnerable will easily collapse!
In addition, adult students are different from children. They often have their own subjective consciousness, not just listen to what you say, but have their own little ideas. What the coach teaches is often the easiest way to pass the exam, but some students always have a mentality of wanting to challenge the rules, and there are even stupid students who don't listen to what they say and can't remember how to teach!
You don’t have to have many students like this. When you meet so many, you will be in a terrible mood. What else can they have a good attitude? Maybe those with higher quality will choose to silence helplessly, and the coach with a little insufficient quality will of course reprimand you directly!
Of course, what I'm talking about here is only most of the cases. Some black-hearted coaches, molesting female students, and asking for bribes are not included.
However, from the simple communication between me and this coach just now, he
It seems that it is not simply because of these that the attitude is so bad. I always feel that there seems to be a more underlying cause.
Just now, what the female student said was caused by the problem of work assignment, and it was not unreasonable, but I think it seems that this is not the whole story. Perhaps, this coach still has some unknown secrets.
Of course, I also made speculations based on professional sensitivity and intuition, without any basis.
"Next!" I was thinking about this, and a roar came again.
"Mom... It's time for me..." The little fan shivered with fright, dropped these words, and ran over. And that old student came back in sweat!
"What's the situation, why are you so fast?" the gossiping woman asked curiously.
"I pressed the line at the first right-angle turn. The coach was angry at the time and drove me down..." the old student said with a sigh of relief, taking out his handkerchief and wiping his sweat.
This scene is very sad to look at, a gray-haired old man who was so unbearably trained by a young man, the pitiful feeling is enough to make people feel indignant towards this coach!
Of course, I'm talking about other people, I'm not so impulsive, so emotional. At this time, I am becoming more and more curious about this coach. Why does he have such a big psychological fluctuation
I was thinking, if I can help him with anything, then help him. This nosy spirit is coming up again, out of control.
However, just when I was looking forward to my turn as soon as possible so that I could communicate with this coach, I found that he never asked me to train! I was at noon... It should be said that I arrived here near the afternoon, but I waited until 3:30 in the afternoon and it was still my turn!
What is going on here? Didn't he forget me? After waiting for so long, I was also a little uncomfortable, and I started to become anxious.
Just when I was eager to ask what was going on, I suddenly saw the coach enter the building with the trainee who had just practiced.
At this point, I took a good look at the coach. He is not tall, a little fat, and about 45 years old, but he has a vicissitudes of life, a gloomy face, and no smile at all.
"That's it for today, you students, when you have time to practice the car, tell me in advance! There are currently few people, and you can practice a few more when you come!" The coach looked around the crowd and announced.
Is there any mistake? I have not touched the car before I came here today. It is over? When I heard what he said, I was puzzled.
"What about me?" When I saw the situation, I was anxious, and quickly raised my hand and asked.
"What are you in a hurry! They can go, you stay and practice the steering wheel!" The teacher
Lian gave me a blank look and replied. After speaking, he went out and got into the car.
"Doctor Gao, it was the same for our first day, you go!" The little fan kindly reminded me.
Oh... It turned out to be so, I thought this coach had any opinion on me! I came here at noon. He definitely had to let the trainees who came first practice the car, and finally let me practice the steering wheel. Everyone's progress is different, so naturally they are treated differently.
So, I hurried out of the teaching building, came to the car, hesitated for a moment, and opened the driving door. To be honest, it was the first time I opened this car door by myself when I grew up so big!
"What are you talking about, come up!" The coach yelled when he saw that I hesitated and didn't get in the car.
What else can I say, get in the car quickly and obediently. However, I don't know if it is because I am tall, my legs are too long, or because the seat is not adjusted to a comfortable position, I accidentally stepped on the accelerator after getting into the car.
Hearing the car's sudden "boom" engine roar, the coach was angry!
"Where are you stepping on! Underneath is the accelerator, I don't know!" The coach was so excited that he spouted stars!
"Um... I'm sorry... I really don't know..." I quickly apologized like a kid who did something wrong.
"You haven't driven a car, haven't you taken a car yet!" The coach continued to train me reluctantly.
At this moment, I suddenly left everything I thought about in the building just now! It was not a good feeling in my heart, this coach... is indeed too fierce!
However, I am a psychiatrist after all, and I cannot be like ordinary people. So, I took a deep breath, adjusted my mood, and asked casually: "Coach, your name!"
"Under the seat, there is a metal pull ring, you can adjust the front and back of the seat, you can adjust it!" The coach ignored my question as if he hadn't heard my question, and just said his own.
Reluctantly, I reached out and touched under the driver's seat, there was indeed a pull ring, pulled it a bit, adjusted the position of the seat, leaned back a bit, and it really felt a lot more comfortable.
"My name is Wang..." As if backlash, he only answered my question just now. "Fasten your seat belt, I don't need to teach this!"
"Um..." I hurriedly pulled the seat belt and fastened it.
"So... it's called a turn... so, it's called a turn and a half... so it's called back to the right... so, it's called to the end... Remember!" Then, the coach Wang held the steering wheel while demonstrating. Started the professor.
"Well, remember!" I nodded and replied.
After I heard it, I thought it was quite simple, thinking that I had remembered it, but in fact... I may have committed a problem that many students have committed, and I am self-righteous! (End of this chapter)