I understand what Coach Wang meant. He was going to tell me something annoying and ask for help, but in a place like a noodle restaurant, people are noisy and it is not a place to talk about things.
"Hehe, the noodle shop is the most convenient place!" I replied with a smile.
In fact, I think differently. The crowds in the noodle shop are noisy, but it is actually conducive to talking about privacy. In a noisy environment, it is harder for others to hear what we are talking about. This is much better than the so-called private rooms of some restaurants, which are separated by a thin plate, so there is no privacy.
Seeing my insistence, Coach Wang had no opinion. So we exchanged seats. He drove me into the city. He first found a place to park the car, and walked to a noodle shop with me.
Maybe Coach Wang felt a bit shabby if he invited me to dinner here, so even in the noodle shop, he still ordered a lot of meat dishes, such as spine, sauced beef, etc., not less. I didn't stop how I stopped it.
Soon, the noodles and dishes were all ready, and the two of us began to push the cups and switch. I didn’t eat at noon and I was a little hungry, so I focused on eating. At the beginning, the two of us didn’t talk about the key things. Instead, we chatted some gossip, mainly about matters needing attention in driving license test. .
After three rounds of drinking, I saw that my emotions were almost mobilized, and I was a little full, so I started to turn to the topic.
"Coach Wang, let's talk about it, what's upsetting about the family recently?" After taking a sip of white wine, I put down the glass and asked.
"Since Doctor Gao is so good, guess first?" Unexpectedly, Coach Wang didn't know whether he was excited about drinking or was a bit naughty by nature, so he even asked me to guess!
Immediately, I thought, although my reputation is not there, many people have said how good I am, but Coach Wang may not fully believe it. Now, he needs my help if he has something to do. He also keeps an eye on him, wanting to test if I am as good as the legend!
If I were a liar, he didn't need to tell me anything. I understand that he did this. After all, we met for the first time today, and we are still very strange to each other. He would not easily tell a stranger about his life privacy.
After understanding this level, my enthusiasm for being competitive is really hooked. It seems that I really have to show him my skills!
"How many people are in Coach Wang's family?" I asked. I still have to understand some simple information. I can't guess out of thin air. At least I have some basis for reasoning!
"Three people, daughter-in-law and children!" Coach Wang stared at me and replied.
"Son or daughter?" I asked.
"Daughter, freshman in high school!" he replied. After that, I found out my mobile phone and showed me a photo, which was a family portrait of the three of them.
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Grandpa and grandma, are you still alive? "I asked after reading it.
"My mother died early, and there is still a dad..." Coach Wang replied directly without hesitation.
"Do you have any brothers or sisters?" I asked again.
"No, I am the only child in the family..." he replied.
Come on, the situation is almost understood, I stared at Coach Wang for a while, and then said lightly: "Recently, your troubles should be due to the relatives of your wife's family!"
I spoke very plainly, but when Coach Wang heard it, he was stunned. He was very surprised. "You... how did you know?"
Obviously, I was right! You may also have questions. Why can you guess so just by asking such a few questions
In fact, I also reasoned out.
First of all, Coach Wang's family is a daughter, and she is in the first year of high school. This is a very important piece of information. Generally speaking, a daughter is more worry-free for parents, and she also went to high school, which shows that her academic performance is not bad. The parents are too bad.
In addition, I guess there is no problem with premature love, because Coach Wang's looks... To put it bluntly, it should be a bit ugly. Most of the daughter's appearance genes follow his father, and her daughter is probably not good-looking, at least it should be plain. Such girls, in their school days, it is basically impossible to have premature love, most of them are children who study hard.
Therefore, I deduced that it must not be his daughter that bothered Coach Wang.
The second important message is that Coach Wang’s old mother has passed away, leaving only his old father alone. This can rule out the possibility of family conflicts caused by discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Under normal circumstances, the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law have difficulty getting along, but the chance of conflict between the daughter-in-law and the father-in-law is relatively small.
The third important message is that Coach Wang is the only child in the family, so he basically has no immediate family members. In this era, his collateral family members are also going farther and farther, and the chance of disputes is very small.
Then the problem must have appeared with his wife. I was not sure what happened to Coach Wang's wife at first. But after I saw the family portrait, I felt that the relationship between Coach Wang and his wife is still very good, and the family appears to be very harmonious, which should not be caused by the relationship between the couple.
So where is the problem? It is very likely that the relatives of Coach Wang's wife's house had some entanglements and conflicts with them, which made him very sad!
Of course, there are many possibilities. For example, the family suddenly owes debts, the old father is sick, and so on. But I use my instincts and comprehensively analyze his performance when I contacted Coach Wang. I think it’s the first one. Most likely!
Sure enough, in the end, I really guessed it!
"Doctor Gao, you are too good, just ask a few questions, you can guess?" Coach Wang was still very surprised and asked quickly. "What's the specific thing, can you still guess it?"
Where am I going to guess! There are so many trivial things in life. I can't guess at which point the problem occurred, but I don't want to just say it to him, so I rolled my eyes and thought about it again.
"Between relatives, entanglements between family love and money are the most common!" I said this seems to be an answer, but it is a test, and my tone is not so sure. I didn't say that Coach Wang's house must be this. The situation, after speaking, I stared at his expression, hoping to be verified.
I feel that I have become a fortune-telling fairy at this moment, and I have to observe my words and expressions! However, in fact, sometimes psychologists and fortune-telling immortals do have similarities, which I admit!
"Awesome!" Coach Wang directly gave a thumbs up. It seems that my tentative statement is really true!
"Doctor Gao, please help me! I'll do it first!" Coach Wang finally made up his mind, and even sipped the remaining liquor in the glass.
"Slow down... Drink slowly... You have to tell me what happened?" I hurriedly persuaded.
"Hey... It's really hard to say in one word!" He sighed deeply and finally opened the chattering box.
Coach Wang said that because of her poor appearance, when she was 30, she met her current wife. She did not dislike Coach Wang's appearance, but made a request, that is, Mr. Wang needs to pay 100,000. Block dowry.
More than ten years ago, 100,000 yuan was not a small amount. In this city, you can buy a medium-sized house with full price. At that time, Coach Wang's family had prepared a wedding house for him, but he had already spent a lot of money to buy a house. He was a little worried because of his average family background.
At that time, his family really couldn't come up with 100,000 yuan, up to 30,000 to 50,000 yuan. If they had to, they would have to borrow money. No one likes the taste of being in debt. He was hesitant at the time and tried to bargain with the woman.
But the woman, that is, his current wife, also said that she is from a rural area, and the custom in the family is like this. If a daughter does not get a gift or receives too little gift, she will be laughed at. Moreover, this gift money will be returned by her parents to the dowry. It is nothing more than pour it from her father-in-law and mother-in-law.
At that time, Coach Wang felt that this woman was still quite filial, able to consider the elderly in the family, and had a good character. In addition to all these years, he had no object and didn't want to miss this opportunity, so he had to borrow 100,000. The dowry money finally took care of the marriage.
But after getting married, things didn't develop in the direction expected! (End of this chapter)