In order to raise the 100,000 yuan bride price, Coach Wang's family owed a lot of debts, and even the wedding was a bit shabby, and even the wedding banquet money was paid after the gift money was collected at that time.
Moreover, in order to borrow money, Coach Wang also told other creditors that once the dowry was in place, he would be able to pay off immediately. However, after a long time after the marriage, I didn't see my natal family dowry money back, so Coach Wang was a little confused.
This money, will not be dependent on not giving it! He asked his wife what was going on, and the wife told the truth. It turned out that she also had a brother in the family who was about to get married, but the family had no money, so he could only use the 100,000 yuan first. NS.
After coach Wang learned the truth, he was really out of anger! Ten years ago, this 100,000 yuan was roughly equivalent to 300,000 yuan today. Such a large sum of money was taken away by my brother-in-law, so why!
Coach Wang was very annoyed at the time. If he had the financial strength, it would be fine to help the brother-in-law, but after all, the conditions in the family were like this. He still owed a debt to him. The brother-in-law took it away. Can he not be angry!
So he lost his temper with his wife for the first time, and was going to go to his natal family to get the money back. Coach Wang's wife is also an introverted woman. She didn't dare to stop him, but the conflict intensified when the two arrived at her natal house together.
Coach Wang said that my brother-in-law is the baby of the family and has been spoiled since he was a child. After he went there, people not only didn't think he was wrong, but also said a lot of irritating things! The father-in-law and mother-in-law are also unreasonable, and they are biased towards the younger brother-in-law. In short, their meaning is very clear. The 100,000 yuan is gift money, and they have the right to control in any form!
In the end, Coach Wang was also angry, and simply waved his hand and took his wife away. Before leaving, he said cruel words, he didn't want the money, but he would never interact with their family again!
Coach Wang also said that ●As long as he did it, since then, he really stopped contacting his wife’s natal family. He worked hard and saved money, and the family lived frugally. It took several years to pay off the debts owed before.
Throughout the process, Coach Wang’s wife has been silent, and she is not good at expressing her attitude, but it can also be seen that this woman is of good character, and in her heart she should also feel that her family has done too much, so she did not. I have any contacts with my family, and quietly work hard to make money and pay off debts.
But later, when his wife became pregnant and gave birth to a daughter, things became a little tricky again. Because Coach Wang's mother died young, no one came to serve the confinement. In desperation, Coach Wang could only make peace with his mother's family and asked his mother-in-law to take care of the confinement.
In this way, the two families started to move around again, although
There is a gap in each other's hearts, but it's still okay on the surface.
But later, Coach Wang really regretted his original choice, because this mother's family is a bottomless pit!
The so-called bottomless pit is not because the two old people are in poor health and need money for medical treatment, but because of the unsuspecting brother-in-law! This guy didn't have a serious job and was idle all day long. At the beginning, he used the 100,000 yuan that Coach Wang took to get married and had a hard time. His wife ran away within a few days!
Also, this kid eats, drinks, prostitutes and gambles, and he has all kinds of poison. Originally, there was a chicken farm in my mother’s family. After one year, I could earn an income of 50,000 to 60,000, but this kid lost it all! Also owed a debt of ass!
There were still a few acres of land in the family, but they were all sold to repay the debt. Today's maidens have no life, basically no source of income, and still owe debts!
Although these people are hateful, they are relatives of their wives after all. She must not be willing to see them so miserable. So overtly and secretly, she did not help her natal family less and gave them a lot of money. Coach Wang opposed it at first, but later Just acquiesced.
But it was this kind of acquiescence that made the maiden's family more vigorous, especially the brother-in-law, who bet the bigger and bigger, and lost the family house! The family didn't even have a place to live, so they licked their faces and went to live in Coach Wang's house, and they lived there for more than a year!
Coach Wang originally hated that brother-in-law, and now he still lives under one roof all day. What's more terrible is that this family still thinks it is right and right, and he keeps saying that he has gone to his wife, and he lives in peace of mind!
Coach Wang said that he didn’t earn much from the job, and his wife was also a part-time worker. It was very hard, but she wanted to feed such a big family in vain. The family’s living standards have plummeted, and her daughter is now in high school. They all need money, and the more he looks at them, the more unpleasant he wants to drive them out!
But the wife didn't say anything about it, this family is simply a rascal! Every time he asked them to move away, the group of people began to play tricks, especially the mother-in-law, sitting on the ground began to cry and play rascals! That brother-in-law, even smashed things, smashed glass, and had two fights with Coach Wang!
Therefore, Coach Wang once reported to the police, but the police had nothing to do with such family disputes. They could only persuade Coach Wang to prosecute them, but it was so easy. It took time and effort not to talk about it. In the end, it was sentenced. They said nothing to move, what should I do, fight out
"Oh! I really regret it. I shouldn't have relented at the beginning and let them live in! This time, it's okay. It's easy to ask God to give it away!" At this point, Coach Wang picked up the glass again, but found that it was in the glass. No alcohol, simply, he wants
Take a cup.
Coach Wang's language skills are not high, and the process of speaking is a hammer to the east and a hammer to the west. I sum it up, it is probably such a process. Now for Coach Wang, it is really bad enough!
Such maidens are rare, and if they can be so shameless, they really don’t even have a face!
It is true that Coach Wang's wife is a relative of your family, but if your own life is not good, you will come to harm other people's homes. This is really unreasonable! More importantly, they themselves don't want to get rid of the current predicament, eating other people's food, but feel at ease!
Of course, from the whole process, we can also see that Coach Wang is a straightforward and kind honest person, otherwise things will not develop step by step to the out-of-control situation it is today.
In fact, the maiden family is a typical coach Wang who is honest and easy to bully, and even more seizes his soft-hearted and kind-hearted personality traits, and uses them infinitely. It is purely a bumbling of the best! Especially his little brother-in-law, who is still a rascal if he doesn't behave badly, such a person is unnecessary to live! He is alive and can only cause trouble to others!
With a mental state like Coach Wang, if this continues, he must be forced to get sick! What's more frightening is that there may be unforeseen dangers!
I am not alarmist at all, if Coach Wang kills his brother-in-law on impulse, or simply doesn't want to live, then this home is completely destroyed!
In a long-term depressed mental state, not only will there be problems with mental health, but also all kinds of extreme things will happen! Especially in the current situation of Coach Wang, he is really forced to desperate!
Going home and looking at those people, he is unhappy, and it won’t work if he doesn’t go home. He still has a daughter. Let them move away. If they don’t move, life and death is a rogue. Coach Wang can say that he is forced to choose how to choose. The situation is not good!
When a person has no way out or solution, he is forced to a dead end. When he is forced to a dead end, anything can be done!
We often hear news about where someone committed suicide or killed someone impulsively. Many people can’t understand what these people think, but in fact they just don’t realize the feeling of despair. Once a person is desperate, he will still be cautious. What
But judging from the current situation, Coach Wang has already suffered from a serious anxiety disorder. The reason why he is so fierce to the students may actually be unaware that he has begun to have problems with his mental health, and then develops like this. Going down, something big must come out!
No, I have to help him! But how can I help him? (End of this chapter)