When I heard this, I quickly handed over the tissues and let Xiaofeng go out first. When this woman first entered the clinic, her emotions were extremely depressed. She cried at this time, and speaking out was a catharsis, which was a good sign.
As for her saying that she didn't want to live anymore, I actually felt a little numb when she said that. Many patients who walked into the clinic spoke with these words. I know that they must have their own difficulties, and they may have really wanted to die before, but in fact these are all appearances, and the key is to have a knot in their hearts.
The lady in front of me is the same. I simply didn't speak immediately, nor did I persuade her to let her vent her emotions first, which is more conducive to diagnosis and treatment.
After waiting for a long time, I saw her crying lighter, so I asked her:
"What happened, can you tell me something?"
After the woman cried for a while, her mood stabilized a bit. She didn't answer my question directly, but said this to me:
"I don't have a mental illness, I'm just desperate!" After speaking, she looked at me with tears, as if she was afraid that I would drive her away.
Desperate? What will it be? Besides, I have to judge whether there is a mental illness or not. If you say that it doesn't count, I still want to hear what she said.
"Psychological clinics are not only treating mental illnesses. If you have any other problems, we can also consult." I smiled and comforted her. In fact, this is a bit big, and the pride in my heart is about to move. Other troubles depend on what they are. If she is short of money, I can’t help her...
"I just... have a relationship problem..." the woman said hesitantly.
Fortunately, she is not short of money... Well, where did I want to go! I quickly collected my thoughts and straightened my body. For emotional problems, of course, you can consult a psychological clinic. This is definitely our business scope.
However, I still dare not care about it. Generally, people who encounter relationship problems will have some mental disorders, so they can't think about it. You still have to listen to her narration before you can draw conclusions.
"What the hell is going on? Tell me!" This time I changed the question sentence to the affirmative sentence, which is also the way to guide her psychologically.
"I was cheated by a bastard!" The woman suddenly said angrily, and then told her story.
She said that her surname was Wu. Seeing that she is older than me, let's call her sister Wu here.
Sister Wu said that she was not a local, and was originally doing a small business in her hometown. She got married very early and married at the age of 19, but she was very unhappy after the marriage. The two had different tempers, and they divorced soon afterwards and had no children.
After the divorce, she had no livelihood, so she moved some clothing, shoes and hats in her hometown. Later, she opened a small clothing store. The business can be said to be pretty good. After a few years, she has small savings.
She was busy all day, and the business of the small shop was getting better and better. Sister Wu simply hired a clerk to help, so that she would have more free time for herself.
When she was busy before, she didn't feel anything. After this free time, she felt very lonely and lonely. For so many years, she hasn't found a man again, and has been busy with business, but she is a woman after all, and she needs the comfort of her arms and the support of her shoulders.
So from then on, she became obsessed with online chat. This form of talking with people in the virtual world made her feel very relaxed.
Sister Wu is a business person. Naturally, she knows that most of the people I know on the Internet are unreliable, so at the beginning she also went to talk sensibly. She never made appointments, and did not develop a relationship with any netizens. She just used this to dispel the boredom. Time.
Until the man appeared. Sister Wu described the situation when she met this man in great detail. It can be seen that the feeling he gave to Sister Wu at the beginning must be very beautiful.
This man should be called a stubborn man for the time being, because Sister Wu didn't say what his name was.
She said that it was a free afternoon, and there were no customers in the store, so she turned on Little Penguin in front of the computer and greeted some familiar netizens.
At that time, a stranger added her. Sister Wu was also very experienced in online chat. Most people would add her, and she would not easily agree to it. But this man hung his own photo on his head. Sister Wu suddenly felt a kind of intimacy when she saw the photo.
In her own words, it was as if this person had been seen somewhere.
So, she agreed to the friend's application and chatted with this man. This man is the dirty man.
After talking for a while, Sister Wu became interested in this man because his style of talking was different from that of ordinary men. Moreover, after this, the man didn't stalk like other friends. Sister Wu didn't speak, and he often didn't take the initiative to speak.
In fact, most women like to commit this problem. Those who are active and enthusiastic, she doesn't feel anything; those who are cold and not too enthusiastic, she will have curiosity instead, why are others interested in me, but you are not interested
To put it bluntly, it's not a sale!
So Sister Wu began to pay more attention to this man. This nasty man speaks quite humorously. Sister Wu likes to watch him speak very much, and she faces the computer with a smile every time. A few times, the salesperson in the store asked her what she was laughing at, without knowing it herself.
In this way, the two people can talk for half a year and still have a lot to say. Sister Wu also slowly became dependent on this man. She didn't even want to do anything every day, waiting for the man to appear on the Internet.
But the good times didn't last long. For a long time, the man didn't surf the Internet. Sister Wu, who waited for him every day, felt very disappointed, thinking that he would never be able to contact him again.
Until one day, the dirty man finally went online. Sister Wu quickly asked why he hadn't been online for so long. The man replied that there was a divorce in the previous paragraph, so he never went to it.
Sister Wu got a little excitement when she heard the news.
To be honest, in the virtual world of the Internet, she had imagined this man too well and felt that she had fallen in love with him. However, she knew that this man had a family before, and she never thought about it in that direction.
Now that she learned that the man was divorced, she felt an opportunity had come. Isn’t it right that I am also a divorced person
So, she patiently enlightened the scruffy man who seemed very depressed, and wanted to impress him with her sincere company.
Sure enough, her empathetic behavior really worked. One day, the man said on the Internet that he fell in love with Sister Wu.
Sister Wu said that when she saw the words on the computer screen, she felt that she was so happy that she fainted, and she felt like a cloud of mist, and she didn't know what to say.
Sister Wu’s ex-husband was arranged by the family, and the two had no relationship foundation, let alone a relationship experience. At this time, Sister Wu felt like she was a little girl in her first love. She had never experienced the kind of taste she felt, and she was deeply fascinated by it.
From then on, she fell in love, she really fell in love with this man who had never met. She still had a glimmer of hope in her heart, wanting to see this man one day.
Finally, there was one time when Xiao Nan invited her to this second-tier city as a guest. The long-awaited sister Wu, dressed herself carefully, got on the long-distance bus and rushed here.
When I first saw the dirty man, Sister Wu felt that his appearance was a little bit different from the picture, and he looked much older, but overall there was no difference. The man was gentle and considerate. He took her to eat, drink and have fun in the city all day. To be honest, sister Wu, who has never dated, has fallen. Especially, she had fallen in love with this man before.
So, that night, they slept together.
Sister Wu has always had a happy smile on her face when she talked about this. It can be seen that in her memories, this is a rare good time in her life. Especially when it comes to the fact that two people slept together on their first date, there was a hint of blush on her face.
But then, as she continued to tell, that expression disappeared, replaced by a sad and even hateful expression.
"I really didn't expect that he was a big liar!" Sister Wu said bitterly. (End of this chapter)