"Yo, I'm busy!" I was talking to Xiao Shuang when a familiar voice came. Turning my head, it turned out that it was Aunt Li who came.
"Oh, Aunt Li, please sit down!" I greeted him quickly and asked Aunt Li to sit down.
"Don't sit down, pass by, come in and have a look!" Aunt Li waved her hand and did not sit down. "Where is that girl named Xiaofeng?" Aunt Li asked immediately.
"She took leave today..." I said. I can't say that it's because her partner drank too much, so let's take care of drunks at home!
"Why ask for leave again? Last time I came, she wasn't there either!" Aunt Li said suspiciously. Really, Xiaofeng was not in the clinic the day Aunt Li brought sister Zhang over last time. That day, she had a fever and asked for a leave of absence. This is a coincidence.
However, I suddenly remembered the incident between Sister Zhang and Master Feng's daughter. The pennants sent by others were still hanging on the wall!
"What's going on with sister Zhang and their family?" I blurted out, ignoring that Aunt Li might not even know.
"It seems that there is nothing wrong, that old hooligan has also been arrested!" Obviously, Aunt Li learned some plots from Sister Zhang's brother.
"Oh, it's okay, Auntie, sit down!" When I saw that I was standing and talking, it was impolite, and I quickly asked her to sit down again.
"Xiao Gao, you're welcome, my aunt can't sit down, there are too many things every day! I will leave in a while!" What she said is the truth, in fact, community workers, not like many people imagine, sit in the office and drink. A day passed after tea reading the newspaper.
In fact, they are very busy, they are short in their parents, they are also very tedious and detailed, and there are many things.
"Isn't this girl from Zhang Ji Restaurant's house!" Aunt Li glanced at Xiao Shuang and recognized her.
"Hello Auntie, I'm Wang Shuang!" Xiao Shuang greeted politely.
and many more? what's the situation? Zhang Ji Restaurant, the owner should be surnamed Zhang, why is Xiao Shuang surnamed Wang? I was a little messy for a while.
"This girl, really handsome! You..." Aunt Li looked at Xiao Shuang, then glanced at me again, "Why are you here with Doctor Gao? You two..."
"No!" I quickly denied, but don't let Aunt Li misunderstand it. Looking back, Xiaoshuang's parents know that everyone is so close, don't call me to seduce minors!
"Auntie, I'm here to borrow a book!" Xiao Shuang explained, raising the book in Yang's hand.
"Oh, this way..." I don't know if Aunt Li has let go, or if she misunderstood the relationship between me and Xiao Shuang.
"Xiao Gao, there is one thing I came here today..." Aunt Li made a long tone, as if something was asking me.
"Auntie, tell me! What's the matter?" I said readily. Aunt Li is an enthusiastic person who helps people solve problems and introduces patients to me. In fact, I have a very good impression of her, and I feel that he is like my pro-aunt.
"It's not my business either," Aunt Li paused and took a look at me. "You know, am I not working as the director of the Community Women's Federation!"
In fact, I really don’t know. What I know about Aunt Li is limited to her being a community worker and her family lives in the opposite community.
"Ah..." I pretended to already know, and continued to listen to her seriously.
"In the past few days, I have encountered a domestic violence incident, which is a bit tricky..." Aunt Li explained.
When I heard of domestic violence, my mind was full of thoughts.
Speaking of domestic violence, it is not uncommon in China and the whole world. It is a very acute social problem. The origin of this problem has historical reasons, social reasons, and even its own reasons.
Although many countries have already enacted legislation on this issue, because this kind of violence occurs between close family members, it has a certain degree of violence, and the law is difficult to intervene, which has led to this problem has not been well resolved.
I was thinking, Xiao Shuang suddenly interrupted and asked, "Aunt Li, is this poor sister being bullied?"
"This..." Li Da looked like his mother wanted to say something but stopped. "Why should I say it's tricky, because this victim is a man!"
After hearing her words, Xiao Shuang and I were a little surprised, especially Xiao Shuang, whose eyes widened in surprise.
However, after all, I am a psychiatrist, and I have already understood this kind of problem, and I quickly understood it. Although it is relatively rare for men to be domestically abused, it is definitely not something that cannot happen.
Many times, people tend to be like this. When they think of domestic violence, the image of a poor woman who has been beaten all over by her husband appears in their minds. The first reaction is the same as that of Xiao Shuang, who habitually thinks that the victims of domestic violence are all women. .
In fact, the so-called domestic violence refers to acts of violence that occur between family members, injuring and torturing the victim from the physical, mental, and sexual aspects.
In other words, the victims of domestic violence are not necessarily all women, but they also include the elderly, men, and children. In addition, the form is not just the act of "beating", verbal violence, cold violence, and sexual violence are actually domestic violence.
Insults, derogation, long-term ignorance of the Cold War, forced sexual relations against the other's wishes, corporal punishment (such as kneeling on the washboard), etc., are actually acts of domestic violence. The perpetrators of these behaviors are not necessarily all men, they can also be women, or even the elderly and children in the family.
Therefore, it is not unusual for a man to be domestically abused, but it is undeniable that the entire society, and the whole world, are selectively blind and ignore this point.
Baidu searched for "domestic violence", and the first thing that popped out was: "The Anti-Domestic Violence Law of the People's Republic of China" came into effect on March 1, 2016! The following slogan: Anti-domestic violence, speak it out! Women's Rights Protection Hotline-12338.
I would like to ask, if the victims of domestic violence are men or the elderly and children, which phone call should they call to defend their rights
In addition, every November 25th is the United Nations "International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women", but have you ever heard of such a thing as "International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Men"
It can be seen from this that, in fact, the whole society has not really realized the essence of domestic violence. It is estimated that the person who shouted the slogan and called on women to defend their rights did not really read the "Anti-Domestic Violence Law".
I thought about it a lot, and simply asked Aunt Li, "Where is this man now?"
"It's in our street office!" Aunt Li sighed, "Oh! He has been here many times these days. It seems that he has really encountered difficulties..."
Aunt Li is the director of the Women’s Federation. Protecting women’s rights and interests is her top priority. Therefore, he must also think that the victims of domestic violence are all women, but he did not expect to meet such a man. It is very pitiful to see him. In fact, Aunt Li also felt loose in her heart and wanted to help him.
But she had no way to help him, which reminded us of our psychological clinic tomorrow. She came here this time, not just passing by, but wanting to ask me what to do.
This is really a tricky thing, I don't know for a while if I should care about it. However, after thinking about it, I decided to meet this man first.
"Aunt Li, please bring him, I will talk to him." I made up my mind and said to Aunt Li.
A smile appeared on Aunt Li's face, a pair of big white fangs set off the smile more brilliantly, "That's it, Xiao Gao! I'll bring him here!"
With that, she turned her head and left.
"Unbelievable, men will also be domestically abused?" Xiao Shuang asked suspiciously.
Seeing Xiao Shuang still looking puzzled, I smiled and said, "Find a wife like you, of course not! But if you find a wife like Sun Erniang in "Water Margin", it will be dangerous, haha !"
Xiao Shuang blushed after hearing what I said, "New brother, what are you talking about, what a wife like me..." After speaking, she lowered her head and became shy.
Seeing Xiao Shuang like that, I explained to her: "Have you seen "The Wonder Doctor Xi Lai Le", Xi Lai Le his wife, often let him kneel on the washboard, that is domestic violence!"
"Have seen... Ah! Really!" Xiao Shuang said with a sudden realization.
I smiled and shook my head, then did not speak any more, waiting intently for Aunt Li to bring the man.
The community office is not very far from my clinic. After a while, Aunt Li brought the man.
Who knows, I was surprised when I saw this man! (End of this chapter)