The grand scale of the wedding was exaggerated, and Lao Xing almost spent all his savings, because it was his wife's request that he didn't dare not listen.
However, he also had a hint of illusion that his wife used to be young and ignorant, so that's why he will mature after marriage and life will be better.
But this idea of him is really just a fantasy. After getting married, many things are very annoying. Not only does his wife not help him share anything, but she is very lazy, and she also likes to spend money indiscriminately.
At this time, Lao Xing was almost desperate, but he wanted to make the last bit of effort, so he discussed with his wife the topic of how to live a good life. Unexpectedly, the wife not only didn't know how to repent, but was furious, arguing with Lao Xing, and beat Lao Xing for the first time!
How can Lao Xing be beaten? The whole society is based on this principle. It is unreasonable for a man to beat a woman, and it is wrong! Can he fight back? So he endured it.
Who knows, this is just the beginning, and since then, his wife started beating him when he was angry. It is said that it doesn't hurt for a woman to hit someone, but her wife is a sportsman and she is very energetic. She hurts Lao Xing every time, and he doesn't even dare to block it with his hands.
Because once he uses his hand to block it, in the eyes of his wife, it becomes a fight back. She will beat him more frantically, and even use a kitchen knife. That posture is like desperately.
Once, Lao Xing was slapped a lot by his wife. He couldn't help it anymore. He said that he didn't slap someone in the face and cursed someone without revealing his shortcomings. The taste of being slapped was really uncomfortable, so he pushed his wife a bit. .
Maybe it was his harder, unprepared wife who was actually pushed by him and fell to the ground. The back of her head hit the shoe rack, and a small amount of blood came out.
Now, he got into trouble again. His wife picked up the phone and called the police, saying that he had been domestically abused and that he was beaten up and bleeding! He also called Lao Xing's parents, relatives and friends, saying that Lao Xing had hit her.
Except for Lao Xing's parents who knew something about this daughter-in-law, the others didn't understand the inside story. They mistakenly thought that Lao Xing, who had always been honest and introverted, was suddenly so violent and stood by his wife's side and condemned him for this way.
Lao Xing wanted to cry without tears. He wanted to tell everyone what happened to him, but he was afraid of embarrassment. It was originally, a big man who was beaten by his own wife and bullied him into this way was a shame in itself, so he was too embarrassed to say it.
In the end, he compromised again, and under heavy pressure, he actually knelt at home for a day and night without sensation on his knees, which calmed the storm.
After getting married, Lao Xing's wife felt that she was still young and did not want to have children. He felt unacceptable at first, but he couldn't help it, and then he accepted it slowly.
Who knows, when he has adapted to life without children, his wife doesn't know what is wrong, but desperately wants children.
Lao Xing feels that the current situation in their family is really not suitable for having children. If he selfishly brings the children into this world, but because their husbands and wives are not in harmony, what kind of shadow will be caused to the children's future, it will be for a lifetime. thing! So he did not agree.
The wife was furious again. This time, she didn't even make a quarrel. She picked up the thermos and smashed Lao Xing on the head. Fortunately, there is not much hot water in the kettle, otherwise you have to be scalded and disfigured! Even so, the broken glass ball still scratched Lao Xing's face.
When Lao Xing talked about this, he also showed me the scars on his neck that had been scratched by glass ballast. When I saw it, I was surprised that it was so severely scratched, as if he had undergone an operation on his neck. The same scar underneath.
Later, Lao Xing continued to tell.
He said that his wife is not only treating him like this, but also becoming more and more violent towards many outsiders. When the two went out on the bus together, she was able to take off her high heels to chisel the woman's head without apologizing because a woman stepped on her foot, and beat her to death.
Because of this incident, they also compensated the woman for thousands of dollars in medical expenses, and his wife was almost sentenced to detention.
In addition, when his wife was in the unit, she would also work with colleagues. Once, the specific reason is unknown. She beat a male teacher. The male teacher was not lightly injured because of this. The wife was also punished by the school.
In addition, in school, his wife is a physical education teacher, and she swears at students at every turn. Many parents of students come to the school to ask for advice, but she doesn't feel that she has done anything wrong.
When I heard this, I couldn't help being shocked. This is simply a contemporary version of Hedong Lion Roar! I can't believe what Lao Xing said before me. Is there anything he made up? Will a woman be violent like this
Lao Xing seemed to understand my doubts and quickly said to me: "It's true! Doctor Gao, you believe me, what I said is true!"
"Don't get excited, speak slowly," I quickly comforted him. "Then what are you doing this time?"
"Hey, it's too embarrassing to say it!" Lao Xing sighed again.
Lao Xing said that he recently discovered that his wife is always obsessed with chatting online, chugging with a cell phone all day long. At first, he didn't think there was anything. It was good for his wife to have her own hobbies, so she didn't have to find fault with herself.
But later, he found that his wife was getting more and more wrong, as if there were signs of derailment. At first he was not sure, but observed some signs. Later, he simply took advantage of his wife's unpreparedness and secretly checked his wife's mobile phone.
Obviously, Lao Xing's wife didn't take him seriously and felt that he was afraid to take a peek, so she didn't even set up a combination lock. Lao Xing turned out the chat log smoothly and found that she was chatting hotly with a man, and the content was very ambiguous.
Lao Xing finally couldn't stand it anymore. He can stand his wife's abuse and his violence, but he can't stand his wife betraying him! So, for the first time, he was so furious and asked his wife to settle the accounts.
Unexpectedly, not only did his wife not admit to cheating, she was even more violent than him, saying that Lao Xing didn't believe her, so she secretly investigated her, and then started talking.
This time, Lao Xing did not fight back, let alone quarrel, but told her directly: divorce!
When the wife heard the word divorce, she seemed to be shocked. She was stunned for a while, and then became angry like a beast and beat Lao Xing frantically. His heart was broken, and even if his wife beat him, he didn't say a word, so he was beaten like what I see now.
Lao Xing was desperate, he ran out of the house and summoned his courage to go to the police station to call the police.
However, the performance of the police completely disappointed him and fled.
"They all smiled, as if watching the animals in the zoo! A policeman also said:'You are a man, a tall man, how can you be beaten like this by your daughter-in-law!' Everyone around was watching. I, laugh at me, if there is a hole in the ground, I can’t wait to get in right away!"
At the end of the story, Lao Xing said this angrily.
After listening to Lao Xing's long narrative, I felt uncomfortable. From his firm eyes, I couldn't see that he was lying, and he didn't need to lie to me. Besides, with his head full of injuries, he was silently accusing his wife's atrocities. Needless to say, he can understand how painful he is now.
Ugh! Who said that the victims of domestic violence are only women? Lao Xing in front of me is a very vivid example! Everyone didn't see him at the time. If you saw him, you would definitely think like me.
Especially as a man, he can understand his situation. When a man suffers domestic violence, he usually swallows his anger, because this kind of thing is too embarrassing. The incomprehension of the society and the discriminatory vision of the people can make him silent.
In fact, I don’t understand what those people who discriminate against such male victims think, especially some women also discriminate against such men who suffer from domestic violence, saying that this man is too bearish, too useless, and can’t even deal with his wife. Do you encourage him to fight back? Encourage him to beat women
This is the typical lack of empathy. If you encounter such a thing yourself, will you handle it well? This kind of people are actually just villains who don't have a backache while standing and talk, and just watch the excitement of other people's homes and make themselves fun.
Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite. Who has no difficulty? (End of this chapter)