Tomorrow Psychology Clinic

Chapter 89: Explore

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"Ah, this... it's a long story!" My hand touched the wound subconsciously, but was stopped by Wang Nan.

"Don't move, your hands are dirty!" she shouted. Immediately she took out a band-aid from her backpack and gently applied it to my wound. "I'm still a doctor, and I don't know how to deal with it myself!"

The words she taught me, I basically didn't take it to heart, but my heart was filled with a feeling of happiness. A gentle movement made my heart melted suddenly, feeling warm.

"How did it hurt?" Wang Nan asked again while I was still immersed in this wonderful taste.

Helpless, I can only explain the causes and consequences of the incident, including why I appeared in this restaurant with Xiao Shuang, in detail. I think this last explanation is what she wants to know the most.

"Huh, I won't rest even if I'm injured, so I won't delay your date with the little girl?" Wang Nan said this jealously after listening.

"Why, people are still a student, how can I..." I hurriedly wanted to explain, but was interrupted by Wang Nan.

"Forget it, I don't care who you are going to date with!" Wang Nan glanced at me, and then threw a more sour remark.

To be honest, even if I am an inexperienced raw egg, a woman speaks like this, I understand what it means! She is obviously jealous, so she likes me too

In fact, everything in the past has already proved this. At least she has a good impression of me beyond ordinary people. Otherwise, it is impossible to take me to her house and drink so much alcohol. Even her parents let me see it. .

Maybe she was such a naturally beautiful woman. It was the first time in her life that she met me such a stubborn man. All signs showed her good feelings for me, but I never took any practical actions. I neither asked her out nor did I. Pursue her, hang your feet ● 31 novel app download address ● Have her appetite!

"Are you jealous?" I simply throw out the topic and see how she answers!

"Who is jealous of you!" Wang Nan responded forcefully, but his face turned red. "I'm afraid you make mistakes, and they are still a child!"

Obviously, she still cares about me and Xiaoshuang coming here for dinner, but even though her mouth is hard, I can see her intentions from her expression.

At this moment, my heart is tumbling, and I can't wait to confess directly: I like you! But when it came to my lips, I couldn't say it anymore. Because of the dull pain in my heart at this time, it came out of my mind untimely, and the scene of Xiaobei's suicide resurfaced before my eyes.

My heart started to hurt again.

Wang Nan seems to have noticed my strangeness, because I still looked at her with eager eyes just now, but immediately the eyes dimmed, and she also noticed it.

"Master of psychology, do you think that man's wife loves him or not?" Wang Nan saw that my mood was a little wrong, thinking that he seemed to have said something wrong, and quickly changed the subject.

When asked by her, I eased my emotions a bit, but started thinking about this issue seriously.

"I think it should be love, what do you think?" I replied.

Wang Nan was pondering for a long time before she began to talk about her views.

She felt that his wife should love this man, especially at the beginning. It is estimated that her first love experience was with this man, and even all the first time was given to this man, so she loved him very much.

So that, when the man proposed to break up, she jumped off the building.

But this kind of love, because of her mental illness, behaves very differently. She is always inexplicably angry, in fact, it may not be all because of the illness, but she enjoys the feeling of being favored by that man.

The spoiling of men that the average girl likes is that he is kind to himself, tolerant of himself, caring about himself, etc., but the wife at that time liked the feeling that the man coaxed her to himself.

Therefore, every time she needs the feeling of love, she will be angry, and then the man will coax her, and the next time she needs love, she will be angry again, instead of like ordinary girls, when they need love, she will take the initiative to say it. , Or express it implicitly.

She actually used the form of anger in exchange for the man's feeling of love for herself!

To say that this method is indeed very alternative, a bit abnormal, but it is not all caused by mental illness, perhaps she also has an unknown past.

When Wang Nan finished speaking, I nodded, but I didn't fully agree with it. What she said was only one aspect of consideration, especially from the perspective of a woman to think about this issue.

In fact, although he has told a lot about the past between Lao Xing and his wife, we still don't fully understand, so many things can only be guessed.

In my opinion, apart from being more alternative to the wife's love for Lao Xing, her selfish possession and control are also very important manifestations.

Because of her strong desire to control, she was repeatedly angry, and then asked Lao Xing to coax her in a humble manner. The purpose of her subconscious was to completely tame the man. It is estimated that in daily life, she is also instructing Lao Xing to do what she says, and to deal with interpersonal relationships according to her intentions, and so on.

But Lao Xing is a man after all. The ways and principles of men mingling in society are different from women. In some cases, a woman may shed two tears, or she can pass by acting like a coquettish, but a man cannot. Can you imagine a horror scene where a man shed tears or acting like a coquettish

Therefore, Lao Xing has become increasingly selfless by her. It is also conceivable that he will deal with people according to a woman's theory of life, what will be the result. Slowly, Lao Xing really became a "wasteful".

However, when things got here, they changed again. His wife is a woman after all. Although she has a strong desire for possessiveness and control, she is still a woman. Although she is very strong, she still wants to have a support, a embrace, and a little woman in front of a big man. This is the feeling that almost every woman wants.

But Lao Xing was completely useless by her sex. She gradually became very dissatisfied with Lao Xing, because she couldn't find the feeling of being a little woman in Lao Xing's body.

Lao Xing first had no successful career, and second, he was obedient to her. In her eyes, she gradually became inferior to a slave and was just a rubbish. Therefore, she is getting worse and worse with Lao Xing, hitting him, and even chatting with other men ambiguously.

When Lao Xing completely became a housewife in the master, his wife began to dislike the useless man who was fucked by her own hands.

Thinking of this, I can't help but think of the dispute between men and women in a family, who is in charge of the outside and who is in charge.

Some people may say that the male lead is the same as the female lead, but I don’t think so. The Book of Changes talks about yin and yang reconciliation, and the yin and yang of a family also need to be reconciled. A family in which the yin is prosperous and the yang is declining can easily become discordant.

In other words, in a family, it should be more that men dominate the outside and women dominate the inside. The harmony of yin and yang is the harmony. This is not unfair, but is determined by the nature of men and women, and it is difficult to change.

You don’t have to talk about it, just say a little bit and you will understand. Most women need a support, a warm embrace, and the feeling of being a little woman. And which man have you heard of needs these? If he really needs these, how horrible it would be

Therefore, women often need a man who is stronger than them, whether it is career, financial or aura, a man who is stronger than herself. Because only in this way can she find the feeling of a little woman, the feeling of relying on and relying on a person.

This is what women often talk about-a sense of security!

"Gao Xin, what are you thinking?" Wang Nan suddenly asked when I was silent.

"Thinking about a lot of mess, forget it, I still don't worry so much!" I touched the back of my head and said with a silly smile.

Seeing me like this, Wang Nan made an inexplicable expression, "It's so mysterious!"

I glanced at my watch, it was 8 o'clock in the evening, and the glasses should be ready by this time, so I called the waiter to check out.

"Sir, you spent a total of four hundred and twenty yuan!" the waiter said calmly.

I rub, what kind of western restaurant is this, it's too expensive! (End of this chapter)