This blind date was introduced by a friend of Wang Nan. Her friend is a girl, and the relationship between the two is good. The friend herself is married and has children. Seeing that Wang Nan has been single all the time, she is quite anxious for her.
Therefore, this friend did not fail to match her up and down. The blind date this time, the friend told Wang Nan many times, and praised the man, saying that he was young, had a successful career, had a car and a house, and was handsome, etc., anyway. The advantages are all in one.
Wang Nan was also reluctant to go at first, unable to hold back the endless chatter of friends, so she agreed to meet.
Today, it was an appointment to meet each other. The two of them met in a teahouse in Zhongjie. As soon as they met, Wang Nan saw that the man was handsome in appearance, decent in his words and deeds, and he was really impressed, so the two of them chatted.
The whole chat process went smoothly. This man is funny and humorous. He is quite a girl-like person, but Wang Nan has a suspicion in his heart. Such an excellent man should have a master long ago. Why is he still single now?
Talking and chatting, time flies quickly, it is almost evening. Wang Nan felt a little hungry, and it was time for dinner, but the man still talked freely without considering her feelings. This made Wang Nan a little unhappy, but she didn't show it right away.
Until the tea was drunk, the man still had nothing to say.
Wang Nan couldn't bear it, so he offered to invite him to dinner, which was a reminder. Unexpectedly, the man actually said something like this: What's the point of eating, why don't we go to a place where no one can enter and do something we love to do!
Upon hearing this, Wang Nan's only good impression of the man in front of him disappeared. The educated Wang Nan didn't have an attack right away, but instead asked the man how he was sure that he would do that kind of thing with him.
The man was outspoken, even shamelessly talking about his reasons.
He said that every time he went on a blind date, he divided women into three grades. The first one is very eye-catching, he will get along with her slowly, and will not rule out marrying her in the future; the second one is that it feels normal, but he will not waste the opportunity to fight for a friend; The third one is that the download address of the 31 novel app is not at all seen, and he will not waste time.
He said that he had a good impression of Wang Nan, but it was only in the second category, so he made this request.
Wang Nan was speechless after hearing this, and left without saying a word. Out of the teahouse, she immediately called and asked the friend who introduced the man to her, who they were introducing!
Wang Nan is out of anger! The reason why she was angry was not entirely because of the man's hooliganism, but his self-righteous attitude. Relying on his good looks, and having a house and a car, he thought that all women in the world would like to have sex with him? All the women will be picked by him? It even divides women into grades!
"It's a shameless bastard!" Wang Nan said this, still looking upset.
Wang Nan said that she was so angry that she was not hungry, so she went shopping in the mall to relax and relieve the negative emotions brought by this sloppy man. Unexpectedly, after choosing a favorite dress, I saw Xiao Shuang and I eating at that restaurant from a distance.
"You saw me and Xiao Shuang together, didn't you feel even more angry?" After listening to her story, I asked her with a smirk.
One sentence made Wang Nan blush, she muttered in a low voice, "Am I angry..."
"I won't go on a blind date again in the future!" Wang Nan seemed to want to change the subject and said such a complaint.
"Oh? Why?" I asked with interest.
Wang Nan looked at me and began to talk about her previous blind date experience.
She said that in the past few years, she has been arranged for blind dates, and she has also met all kinds of strange men. Several people impressed him deeply, saying that the impression might be inaccurate, but it was disgusting!
Wang Nan said that her first blind date was a civil servant, who looked pretty good, but she was too talkative. At the beginning, she felt that the other party was afraid of being cold, and deliberately looking for topics out of good intentions. As a result, this man has been talking about the Republic of China from the Three Emperors and Five Emperors!
Women are not interested in the topic of history. Although Wang Nan has read some history books, he is completely tortured by this man. Because he said this not to find a topic, but to show off how knowledgeable he is.
True, erudition is one of the advantages of a man, but you need to show off so much. Because she was the first blind date, she didn't feel embarrassed and went away, so she had to bite the bullet and listen to an afternoon history lesson!
The second blind date is a multi-kind man introduced by a friend. Not only was the man late, but as soon as he entered the house he threw the BMW car key onto the table, as if he was afraid that Wang Nan would not see that he was driving in the BMW.
This man looks average and has no academic qualifications. He wears a lot of famous brands, but he has no taste. The combination of clothes, shoes, and watches looks like a nouveau riche.
After chatting specifically, Wang Nan realized that this man did not have a serious job, and his money was compensation from the demolition, which was a typical "second generation demolition." And judging from his frivolous attitude, he doesn't seem like a promising person at all.
A man who relies on demolition money and drives a BMW car is not enough for him! No matter how much money is, there will be a day to spend it, what will he do in the future, which woman will marry such a man!
The next few blind friends, although not so weird, but during the blind date, she talked about too many practical issues, so that she did not have any feelings.
Below, a weird man appeared, it can be said that the most weird is no second!
This was also a blind date arranged by a friend. After the meeting, the two had a chat about practical issues. Actually, Wang Nan doesn't care much about whether a man has a house, but as someone who might get married in the future, she has to ask again.
Unexpectedly, as soon as Wang Nan spoke, the man was unwilling. He didn't answer Wang Nan's question, but asked her instead.
"Are you a virgin?" Wang Nan was stunned by one sentence. She didn't understand what this had to do with it, where did it all go!
Seeing that Wang Nan didn't answer, the man was not polite at all, and started to talk about a set of fallacies:
If you ask a man to have a house, then you have to be a virgin. Men prepare houses, women prepare bodies; if you are not a virgin, then don’t ask men to have houses, this is fair! If you ask a man to be a virgin, then I ask you to have a house for a woman. This is also called fairness!
A set of so-called logic that is almost like a tongue twister makes Wang Nan dizzy. What kind of thinking is this! A man who came out for a blind date, unexpectedly throw out such a set of theories, it is simply an orphan!
After listening to what Wang Nan said, I couldn't help laughing. It seems that the old saying is true: when the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds!
I have also met many strange women in my previous blind dates. In fact, there are so many individuals, whether they are men or women, and their attitudes towards marriage and love are very strange. To put it bluntly, it is the deviation of the world view and the view of love.
This kind of deviation is caused by the environment, personality, and growth experience. However, it is undeniable that if a person's three views are not correct, most of them are caused by psychological barriers.
Without a healthy mind, there will be no healthy thinking, and even less healthy and correct outlook on the world and love. In fact, many of the patients I have received fall into this situation.
While talking while walking, I quickly reached the gate of Wang Nan's house. At this time, I couldn't help feeling a little nervous.
Last time Wang Nan invited me upstairs to drink coffee. As a result, I drank too much alcohol at her house and slept for one night. Will she still invite me upstairs today? What should I do if she invites me
At this time, I was not only nervous, but in my mind, I started to think again. All kinds of imaginary pictures appeared in front of me again and again.
In fact, I hope I can stay with Wang Nan for a while, I can't deceive my heart. But I don't know how to express such feelings and thoughts.
"I'm here—" Wang Nan stretched his voice, as if waiting for me to say something. As soon as she heard this, my heart beat faster. (End of this chapter)