Yang Haiyan listened to the boy's decisive voice and looked at his determined expression. In fact, she had a very good impression of the Qin family. Even the second branch of the Qin family, she did not have any negative emotions. The second uncle and Niu Dan of the second branch were both very good. Because she had not seen the second aunt for a long time, she could not see her shortcomings. Even at Qin Fang's grandmother's house, although Qin's uncle and Tadpole came, they were taken away by Qin's mother. Therefore, she did not have any extra thoughts.
Yang Haiyan didn't dare to think too much about marrying into such a family. Because everyone was good, it was a pleasure for the whole family to live together. Humans are social animals. If there were only servants at home besides her and Qin Fang, life would be boring. After all, the master couldn't play with the servants. Even if she didn't think it lowered her status, what would it be in the eyes of others? The servants also had no place to go. So living with the family members seemed quite lively.
Yang Haiyan said: "Shouye, besides this, do you want anything else? For example, when you grow up, do you want to find a partner, get married and have children?"
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When Qin Shouye heard this, his whole face turned red, probably because he felt guilty. He immediately thought of Miss Li. He was very worried. Did his sister-in-law find out
Thinking about how he had just met his sister-in-law and she asked him this, he thought that she must have discovered something. He hurriedly said, "I... I... Sister-in-law, I..."
If it was Nanny Lian's suspicion at the beginning, then looking at Qin Shouye's expression now, Yang Haiyan knew that Nanny Lian's suspicion had come true. Qin Shouye was like a young man thinking about love, and he had thoughts about Miss Li.
Yang Haiyan smiled and said, "Don't be nervous, speak slowly."
Qin Shouye took a deep breath, then he stood up, bowed to Yang Haiyan, and said seriously: "Sister-in-law, I have a girl in love with you, but I dare not express my feelings for her, for fear of offending her. Please give me some advice."
Yang Haiyan was stunned, then very happy. It must be said that Qin Shouye was the fastest and best learner of etiquette. It was mainly because he was still young, and young people had their own ideas of progress, so they worked so hard. "Sit down and tell me."
"Yeah." Qin Shouye sat down again and asked a question first, "Sister-in-law, when you married my brother, did you ever dislike him? I'm not saying that my brother is not good, but I heard from my grandparents, father and mother that my brother was not worthy of you before, and they said you are so good, so I asked this." Moreover, as they came to the general's mansion and lived with his sister-in-law, even though they didn't spend much time together, he felt how good his sister-in-law was. She allowed them to learn new things and see many things they had never dared to think about before, especially his sister-in-law taught him how to read and do accounts, so he respected his sister-in-law very much.
Yang Haiyan didn't expect him to ask this question, so she answered without thinking too much: "I don't think your elder brother is unworthy of me, so there is no idea of disdain. Before marrying your elder brother, I was a maid in the Taifu Mansion. Even if I ate well and dressed well, I was still a maid. Later, the court released me and I married your elder brother. I was indeed a little proud at the time. It might be because I came from the Taifu Mansion. The former glory of the Taifu Mansion made me feel very proud, but this kind of pride does not mean looking down on others.
Before I met your elder brother, I already knew my fate. At that time, I was thinking, what if I marry someone I don't like in every way? Our marriage was decided by the court, and we had no choice but to divorce. So I thought, even if I married him, I would not want to have children for him. At that time, I could only let him marry a concubine, and then I would give the rights that belonged to the principal wife to that concubine.
At that time, I thought a lot. "
Qin Fang was outside, his mind was in a mess, his heart was in a panic, why did he always hear these whispers? Ever since he heard Yan Yan and Lian Ma say that if anyone dared to have a concubine, they would live separately, he had been on guard against other women getting close to him and causing his wife to misunderstand. And now, why did he hear these again
Nanny Lian was gone at the door. After Qin Fang came back, he asked Nanny Lian to leave, and he also shushed her to keep quiet, as he wanted to give his wife a surprise. As a result, he heard all this.
Qin Fang felt that he was going to get into trouble again.
When he thought about his wife's idea of letting him marry a concubine, he felt upset that his body was no longer his own. Even if his wife said that she had never disliked him, it could not erase this bad feeling.
Qin Fang hadn't felt bad for a long time. However, he didn't go in, but continued to stand outside and listen.
Qin Shouye listened to her slowly talking about the things between her and her elder brother. He listened very carefully: "What happened next?"
After hearing Qin Shouye's question, Qin Fang moved his ear closer to the door.
Yang Haiyan said: "Later, on the wedding day, I was not feeling well, so I didn't see him clearly when I lifted the veil. I was only concerned about my discomfort at the time and didn't pay attention to him. Later, I took medicine, and the effect of the medicine changed. It was not good for my health, so I was sick for a few days. I was not very conscious during those days. Your elder brother went to the military camp again, and it was Mrs. Lu who took care of me. The next day after I woke up, I went to find your elder brother.
I watched him coming from outside the military camp. I knew he was tall from the day we got married, so I recognized him right away. My heart was beating really fast. This was my dream husband. I liked tall people like him.
Qin Fang: "..." His ears turned red. Did his wife fall in love with him at first sight? He had always thought that during the time at the border, she didn't like him, she was just nice to him. But it turned out not to be the case? Qin Fang felt that his previous thoughts were wrong and he didn't realize it.
Men will never accept the status quo. For example, Qin Fang would rather believe what his wife said than what he personally experienced. Besides, now he can feel her love from her eyes, so he believes her words even more.
Qin Fang felt like he was about to fly, and he wanted to shout out in joy. She was the one who liked him first, and this feeling was really good.
Qin Shouye blushed a little, he always felt shy when he heard such things. He didn't expect his sister-in-law to say this to him, but the things between his sister-in-law and his brother were unknown to the Qin family.
Yang Haiyan thought about the first time they met. She knew Qin Fang was her type at first sight, especially his long legs, which were so attractive. Thinking about it, she found it funny again. "I can say that I fell in love with your brother at first sight, but love at first sight is a superficial feeling, which comes from external things such as appearance and figure. To understand a person, you don't just look at these.
So, if you like a girl, you can't just understand her from these external aspects. Of course, if you like a girl, you also need to let her know your inner self. We girls are easily afraid, worrying that this man is too good-looking and unfaithful, and also worrying that this man will let us down in the future. Men should let women know their feelings, so that the two of them will not be suspicious of each other.
As for your elder brother, although I fell in love with him at first sight, we didn't get married right away. I started trying to understand him. Although he didn't say nice things, he paid his monthly allowance. When a man pays his monthly allowance, it makes a woman feel safe. This was the sublimation of my impression of him. I thought, this man is pretty good.
Later, he remembered what I said, bought what I wanted to eat, and respected me. I thought that meeting him was probably the happiest and luckiest thing in my life. "Meeting Qin Fang was the happiest and luckiest thing for her in traveling through time and space. Because if she met someone else, she didn't know how she would live the rest of her life.
Qin Shouye savored Yang Haiyan's words. He remembered that Miss Li was always very nervous every time she saw him. Could it be that he used to think that Miss Li was shy, but now he thought that it was because he made Miss Li uneasy? Thinking about this, Qin Shouye asked: "Sister-in-law, if a girl is always very nervous when she sees you, so nervous that she dares not breathe, do you think it's because she is shy or afraid?"
When Yang Haiyan heard this, she knew the reason. It was normal for Miss Li's experience to make her feel alienated from men. However, "I'm not herself, and I don't know if it's because I'm nervous or shy. But nervousness and shyness are different. Shyness will make you blush, but nervousness should be shy. If this situation persists when two people meet, then you should consider whether this way of meeting is wrong. Or, you can tell me who this girl is. If I know her, I can give you some advice. If I don't know her, I can also choose the time, maybe I can get to know her."
Hearing Yang Haiyan say this, Qin Shouye thought that since his sister-in-law already knew about Miss Li, he might as well tell her directly. Moreover, his sister-in-law was more knowledgeable, unlike his grandmother and mother. Chatting with his sister-in-law made him feel enlightened. Thinking of this, Qin Shouye said directly: "Sister-in-law, I can tell you, but you can't tell anyone else, no one."
Yang Haiyan said: "Of course you can. If you still don't trust me, I won't tell you even if he's your elder brother."
After Qin Fang heard this, he felt as if he had been stabbed by an arrow. He thought, even if you didn't tell me, I could have heard it.
Qin Shouye trusted Yang Haiyan, and this trust exceeded that of his parents, probably because Yang Haiyan was different from ordinary people. She was like his teacher and taught him a lot. So he thought for a while and said, "I like Miss Li."
Yang Haiyan was not surprised, but Qin Fang outside was greatly surprised. When he came to his senses, he had already entered the house: "What did you say? Miss Li?"