What we complain about our parents the most is 'other people's children'. ,
In the words of parents, other people’s children eat more, other people’s children study well, other people’s children can sing, other people’s children have girlfriends or boyfriends, other people’s children find a good job, other people’s children My child bought a house, got married, and had a baby----
At that time, we were young and willful, and felt that life was our own, and life was mine. We can live however we want and do whatever we want.
We want to squander our youth, we want to drink and sing, we want to get personalized tattoos on our bodies, we want to wear weird earrings on our ears------drinking, fighting, and games. If you don't do these things again, how can you have the nerve to tell people that you were young
Fang Yan is also one of thousands of children.
What everyone doesn’t know is that after parents have children, their lives continue to their children. They cheered for the first sound you made, and burst into tears when you heard you shouting unclearly 'baba' or 'mama'.
They care about your learning and value your growth. Every time you achieve something, they will be happier than you. Every time you acquire a skill, they are more proud than you. Children are the greatest wealth of parents, and they are eager to let the world know ------
However, there is a conflict between what I want and what my parents want.
My children think, why should I live for you? Why should I win honor for you? Why should I satisfy your so-called self-esteem? Why should I let you lose face in front of your relatives, friends and neighbors
However, have they ever thought about your parents who have given their lives selflessly, do they really want to get anything in return from you
They just hope that you can live a better life, a little better--that's all.
At that time, Fang Yan didn't understand this truth.
He disliked Fang Yixing's rigidity and preferred the looseness and flexibility of the old drunkard.
He rejected Fang Yixing's scolding and punishment, preferring his mother's "sincere teachings".
He felt that his father was too selfish and he was unwilling to take on the responsibility of revitalizing the family, but he kept forcing himself to work hard and work harder -------
As he grew older, as his experience increased, and as his longing for his father grew stronger, Fang Yan gradually understood this truth.
Your parents are willing to make selfless sacrifices for you, and you must also shoulder the responsibility of being a child.
Love is willful and pulling.
If he could do it over again, Fang Yan only hoped that Fang Yixing could live and live well, and he was willing to live for Fang Yixing ------
Let him share the joy, let him feel the glory.
Let him point to himself in front of anyone and say: His name is Fang Yan, he is my son------
Unfortunately, Fang Yan understood it too late.
By the time he learned how to be a good son, his father was gone.
Fang Yan sat in front of Fang Yixing's tombstone, his body trembling and moaning softly.
He didn't want his mother, Lu Wan, to know how sad he was, so he covered his mouth tightly to prevent himself from crying.
However, what he didn't know was that Lu Wan in the pepper bush had already collapsed to the ground with tears streaming down her face.
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In the Ye family hall, the important figures of the Ye family gathered together.
Ye Daowen, the eldest of the three tigers of the Ye family, was sitting in the middle hall drinking tea. Although he looked indifferent, he raised his glass to drink too frequently. It can be seen that he was very worried and anxious in his heart.
Ye Daoling, who holds a high position in the political world and is known as the "Hidden Economic Prime Minister", sits under his eldest brother, frowning slightly and unabashedly showing his displeasure on his face.
His fingers kept shaking, as if he were playing an exciting piece of music.
The second eldest child, Ye Daoxian, has to perform a confidential mission in another place and cannot be present. But his wife Li Shuhua had been waiting beside the ancestor of the Ye family early on, serving the old lady some melon seeds and snacks.
The younger members of the Ye family, Ye Fengsheng, Ye Zi and others, did not dare to express their anger. They sat on the small chairs like good babies and did not dare to say a word.
"Brother, are you too anxious?" Ye Daoling said in a complaining tone: "How old is Wen Wen? Do you need to pass the test now? How long has it been since she last passed the test? She is ready Yet?"
"That's what I said, but I can't change what Wen Rou decided. She was too free to follow her own temper when she was a child. When she grew up, she became independent and didn't listen to anyone else."
Ye Daowen glanced in the direction of his ancestor and said, "That one is too doting and gentle. The two of them have settled the matter. How can I, the father, have any right to speak? You are not from this family?" What is the situation that you don’t know better than me?”
"If we can't stop it, why don't we stop it? This is no small matter - if we go to Mobei or even follow the Fang family's example and go to an extremely cold place, we can accept it with gritted teeth - but... Running away to do such a dangerous thing------"
"What were we doing when Wen Wen was so big? I remember that I had just mastered White Tiger Fist at that time. When I saw that my fists had the majesty of a tiger descending from the mountain, I was so excited. I felt like I was a god. Genius ----- After searching for the Tao, he continued to ask, and he asked him some truth at a young age. Now he wants to covet the way of heaven------Is the way of heaven so easy to climb? Practice martial arts. I asked if we should rush this kind of thing, what if God bites us back?"
"Ye Daoling, shut your crow mouth." The ancestor scolded Ye Daoling unceremoniously in front of many juniors, and said: "Is there any stable elder? The children haven't even come out yet, and you are cursing next to them. Something happened to her?"
Ye Daoling's face was filled with grievances, and he said: "Ancestor, how can I curse Wen Wen to cause trouble? Has anyone done this to uncle? I just think Wen Wen is too anxious - you said that a girl's family,... Why is kung fu so easy to practice? Even if she wants to practice kung fu well, it’s okay, and she takes her time, and no one competes with her. Besides, even if someone wants to compete, no one can be her opponent? Inner Jianghu Who among the younger generation can compete with her? It’s us, the older generation—anyway, I’m far inferior to Gentle. Even if my eldest brother is much stronger than me, he’s not as good as me. Gentle? Are you talking about the early stage of realm now? The middle stage of realm? Do you have the courage to ascend to heaven?"
"Where is Fang Yan?" Being despised by his own brother, Ye Daowen said with an unhappy expression: "I heard that he made another breakthrough in Huacheng - the old man of the Zhang family was still talking about the Light of Tai Chi a few days ago. , saying that he is a Tai Chi genius who is rare to see in a century. People from the Taoist sect also attach great importance to this matter. Didn’t the old master of the Tianji Temple go to the Fang family’s old house to visit Mr. Fang------ Is there something we don’t know that at least proves that Dao Sect attaches great importance to this matter?”
"You mean to say that Wen Wenwen wanted to break through because of the pressure from Fang Yan?" Ye Daoling asked with a surprised look on his face: "Youn Wenwen is not such a person."
"Mengwen is naturally not such a person." Ye Daowen said, he still had some understanding of his daughter. "Gentleness won't compete with others."
"Then she still wants to force a breakthrough?"
"She just doesn't like others being stronger than her ------" Ye Daowen said a little embarrassed. "In her opinion, it is natural that she is better than others. If others are better than her, that means she is not working hard enough."
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Ye Daowen sighed softly and said, "I hope everything goes well."
"I still think you are too careless." Ye Daoling said in a low voice: "The Ye family is in full swing now. My father and I are developing in politics, the second brother is developing in the military, the eldest sister and the second sister are doing business, and the third sister is doing a good job in her college education. Professors, echoing us in academia -- these are not our biggest trump cards. What are our biggest trump cards?"
"It's Ye Wenwen. It's possible that our Ye family will produce a master of the Heavenly Dao Realm. Wen Wenwen has such a good reputation that even the head of the Red Wall took the initiative to mention her to me more than once------ He wants me to say hello to Wen Wen on his behalf, let Wen Wen practice well, and report to him directly if there are any difficulties ------- Even the country attaches great importance to this matter, how can we be such a child's play?"
"If Wen Wenwen succeeds in breaking through this time, it will naturally be a great joy for us. Wen Wenwen will become the first person in our Ye family to spy on the way of heaven in a hundred years. Regardless of the political circles or the internal and external world, everyone in our Ye family has to deal with it. Look at it with admiration-----We need to reposition our relationship with our Ye family. However, if Wenwen fails to break through the barrier-------"
Ye Daoling is a politician, so he is not allowed to explain the interests involved to his eldest brother, so that he can understand the importance of Ye Wenwen to the Ye family.
"This time is no different from the past. If you can't find the way, you can continue to search. If you can't find the truth after asking, the worst thing is to ask again next time. If it doesn't work once, then twice, if it doesn't work twice, then three times - but the way of heaven cannot do it. ah."
Ye Daoling pointed to the sky and asked: "What is heaven? It is mysterious, unknown. It is inexhaustible. Heaven is sacred, majestic, and inviolable ----- If a mortal wants to pry into the truth of heaven Faces will be counterattacked by the sky and punished. Some people are seriously injured or even die as a result of the punishment, and some people have become depressed and have no interest in martial arts anymore---Brother, we may lose more than we gain."
The ancestor was angry, grabbed a fragrant pear on the coffee table in front of him and smashed it at Ye Daoling's head.
"Get out. Ye Daoling, get out of here -------" the ancestor said angrily.
Ye Daoling did not dare to dodge and let the fragrant pear hit his head.