Ding Shengguang was thinking about He Xian's battle situation last night, so he made an appointment with He Xian to go out for lunch at noon.
"How was yesterday?"
He Xian looked at the menu: "It's so-so."
Ding Shengguang tried to understand the spirit, but still couldn't comprehend it.
"What does so-so mean?"
He Xian concentrated on ordering food.
As soon as the waiter turned around, Ding Shengguang asked, "What does that mean? Did you succeed or not?"
He Xian then said, "No."
Ding Shengguang smiled.
He Xian said: "I am very sad."
Ding Shengguang couldn't stop laughing.
He Xian roughly recounted the incident. As an old hand, Ding Shengguang analyzed the situation for him: "First of all, how do you bring the person back to your current home? What if it's a psychopath who gets entangled with you?"
He Xian said: "I just want to be ruthless and bring a new person over to change the atmosphere."
"That's fine," Ding Shengguang continued, "but the biggest mistake is how could you say it so coldly and without any interest? Who would say in advance that we are nothing after the date when they are about to have sex, and say 'I won't treat you specially'? You are really a party person."
He Xian said: "Don't mention the party at this time."
Ding Shengguang thought for a moment and said, "If you had said some sweet words at the time, you would have succeeded in 80% of cases. The highest art of hooking up is to create a fait accompli of a hookup relationship without the other person realizing it, so that the other person understands their position and has no hope of further relationship, and finally gives up. Then you can get away with it."
He concluded: "In other words, relationships are built, not talked about."
He Xian disagreed with his point of view: "I think prior agreement is more important." If it is not made clear in advance or even sweet-talked, then it is a lie.
He asked, “What now?”
Ding Shengguang wiped his hands with a towel and said, "Change people. You know now that this requires skills, right? Try again with someone else, take it a little slower and be gentler, and you shouldn't fail."
He Xian thought for a while and said, "But I don't want to change people."
"A-choo!"
Lin Sitao sneezed.
He came out of He Xian's house late last night and sat on the roadside crying. He didn't get home until almost one o'clock. He was exhausted, took a shower and fell asleep on the bed. When he woke up this morning, he still felt nauseous and dizzy. It was the time of the year when you should catch a cold, and he caught a cold.
He was busy all morning and didn't have any free time until noon. After eating in the cafeteria, he sat in the tea room and was in a daze.
The initial shock and shock had passed, but the disbelief remained.
He Xian was that He Xian. He just suddenly realized that he didn't really understand him, at least not completely. Not only not completely, he probably didn't even see him from the beginning.
Although Lin Sitao had a cold and felt dizzy, he seemed to be sober for the first time.
If you think about it carefully, He Xian said it very clearly back then. He was grateful to Lin Sitao for saving his life by pulling him down from the bridge railing, so he took good care of Lin Sitao.
Why does Lin Sitao always feel that he owes He Xian more
Because He Xian didn't pull out a bundle of money and throw it at people like a normal rich man. "This is a small amount of money as a reward for saving me!" He Xian didn't follow the popular route, so he seemed particularly humane.
It’s better to just give the money directly!
Lin Sitao thought.
He could use the money to get through the difficult years of senior year. Then he could get into a local college in J City, work part-time to get a diploma, find a decent job after graduation, live with his grandparents to take care of them, and hang out with Xu Dan and the others. During the short holidays, he would travel to a big city, and Shanghai would be just the right place.
Because He Xian spoke a few more words to him and met him twice more, his life became that of a construction dog in Beijing.
There is nothing wrong with being a construction worker in Beijing. He has been working very hard.
It was not until yesterday that he suddenly discovered that He Xian was actually a hooligan.
It’s better not to let him know for the rest of his life!
Before last night, He Xian was his idol, role model, angel, male god, absolutely not an ordinary person, so good that he was out of touch with reality. He Xian's preference for men's sexual fetish was attacked as a scandal by Wu Jianghai and others, but Lin Sitao regarded it as the only tragedy of the hero, full of beauty.
After last night, the idol was disillusioned. He no longer knew what He Xian was.
Of course. He shouldn't have set He Xian's position too high. He should have known that only giant pandas, penguins and SpongeBob were perfect in the world.
He Xian is a living person after all. As a human being, he has flaws, desires and needs.
—Lin Sitao tried to defend He Xian.
But no matter how much we take a step back, hooking up is too low-level. Especially for someone like He Xian. To put it bluntly, he just wants to enjoy the body and doesn't want to take responsibility. If He Xian wanted a boyfriend, if what he said to Lin Sitao last night was "Be with me, be my boyfriend." Lin Sitao would not hesitate for a second, he would be willing, willing, willing; just like the heroine in the movie who was eagerly waiting for the hero to return from the battlefield, she traveled through mountains and rivers to find him, and finally in the last three minutes, she saw her thin lover slowly walking towards her in the diffuse smoke, and she burst into tears. How hard she cried, Lin Sitao would cry that much at that moment.
Then they can indulge in sex/love with infinite tenderness.
Lin Sitao recalled the kiss last night. That warmth was like the sun in the Garden of Eden, shining directly on Adam and Eve. When their lips touched, he seemed to know how to ask for it and how to melt.
Lin Sitao felt that the reason he caught a cold was not because he caught a cold in the snow late at night, but because the temperature difference in his heart and soul was too great. He Xianxian gave him a pot of fire, and just as he was about to light it, a pot of ice water poured down on him.
But thinking about it carefully, it was really dangerous yesterday. If He Xian hadn't said anything at that time, would he have just done it with He Xian
…
…
…
…Yes. He would have done it with He Xian right then.
An extremely subtle voice floated past his ear: "Why did he say that... He shouldn't have said those words..."
He actually really wanted to do it with He Xian.
Even if He Xian is a scumbag
What if he is sick
no.
As expected, I still can’t do it with He Xian.
Do.
Don't do it.
Is now the time to think about this
"Lin Tao!"
"Lin Sitao!" Someone called his name loudly.
Lin Sitao came back to his senses with a start.
"What's the matter? Just sit here and daydream. If you get tired, go to sleep on the sofa." His colleague reminded him.
Lin Sitao smiled gratefully: "It's okay, I was just a little distracted." He glanced at the clock hanging on the wall and only five minutes had passed.
When he got off work, Lin Sitao received an email in his personal mailbox.
It was sent by He Xian.
Very brief.
"I'm sorry about yesterday. I want to treat you to a meal."
Lin Sitao immediately replied: "It's okay. No need to eat."
He Xian replied immediately: "Sure, when is it convenient for you?"
Lin Sitao didn't reply to him.
He Xian stared at the computer screen for a few minutes, clicking the mouse gently, but there were no new emails.
Ding Shengguang had previously advised him to find someone else.
"The reason is simple, because people who fail once already have a negative impression of you. Don't do things that are thankless."
He Xian said that he was very sad about the failure and he wanted to succeed again!
Ding Shengguang was speechless: "This is not a renovation and expansion project that must be completed. If this plan doesn't work, you can try another one. It's just like fishing. As long as there is a fish on the hook, it's fine. Who cares which fish it is? If one fish escapes, there are still a pond full of fish waiting for you."
He Xian's eyes lit up: "Yes. Just change the plan."
Now he starts to implement plan B.
When Lin Sitao returned home, He Xian's emails had not come. After dinner, he started reading a book with his cell phone on the desk. He couldn't help but check it several times before he realized that he was waiting for He Xian's email.
That's enough, he told himself. This was the end of it.
The next morning, he felt much better from his cold and felt more energetic. He was also more efficient at work.
In the morning, the mail room delivered a courier.
Lin Sitao has three express deliveries.
He knew what two of them were, and the sender of the last one was just "Mr. Zhou". It was light and seemed to contain some paper documents. Lin Sitao had no idea what it was.
When I tore open the opening, a card fell out. It was just a plain white card.
It contained an apology, the name of the restaurant, the location and the time. It was a high-end restaurant that required reservations.
The signature is a "He".
The handwriting was clear and powerful, and Lin Sitao blushed.