When many things happened at that time, I couldn't feel them, but through memories and narrations, I could discover many things that were ignored at that time.
Before Xue Liyan moved here, he asked her in a text message if he could live here. Maybe he was really asking for her opinion at that time, so he said this morning that she gave him the chance to get close.
Although she didn't know it at the time.
He remembered all her dietary taboos, and the dishes delivered by the housekeeper every day were always to her taste. Is this really just a boy's carefulness
Or think about it more deeply, who did he hire this housekeeping for, and who is the real beneficiary now
He said that he knew a person who said he wanted to make the novel he wrote into an animation, although he didn't want to be so narcissistic, but is it really such a coincidence
Thinking about it carefully, he should know these things, maybe Jian Mingxia really told him, after all, he is always a good listener.
He introduced Lu Yu to Xue Liheng, and he said that he didn't help Lu Yu because of guilt. If it wasn't guilt, what was it? At that time, Jian Mingxia felt that he had emotional entanglements with Lu Yu, so she didn't think much about it, but when she thought about it seriously, no matter how tolerant a man is towards feelings, he would never want the person he likes to become his sister-in-law, and he is still the most powerful push hands. Meeting her brother in the future will be torture, who would do that
But what if he didn't introduce Lu Yu to Xue Liheng? Maybe Jian Mingxia will still get along with Xue Liheng without embarrassment. Jian Mingxia admits that he and Xue Liheng will not call, but who knows what will happen in the future. It's inexplicable that two people really get along well.
But now there is no such possibility. Lu Yu is very suitable for Xue Liheng. Although he only met once, Jian Mingxia can see that their relationship is heating up rapidly. Moreover, Xue Liheng may know Xue Liyan's thoughts, after all, he is his younger brother, and they are so familiar with each other that they can see the meaning in every move, so that time when the three of them returned to Nancheng together, Xue Liheng threw Xue Liyan outside her community together.
It is reasonable to say that Xue Liheng is more familiar with Jian Mingxia, but Xue Liheng is the one who is more silent when they are in contact. If Jian Mingxia is talking to Xue Liyan, Xue Liheng will basically not interrupt.
However, Jian Mingxia didn't dare to ask Xue Liheng whether it was the case.
How does he feel about it
Jian Mingxia felt that it was better not to think too much.
Editor-in-Chief Yan looked at Jian Mingxia and said with a smile: "So, he treats you very well. Regardless of his age, this boy is indeed more mature than his peers, or far more mature than his peers."
Jian Mingxia said embarrassedly: "No, when he was alone with me, he would blush, and he was so nervous that his hands were sweating."
"There is no conflict between the two. Who stipulates that a mature boy should not be nervous in front of the girl he likes?"
Indeed, there is no such provision.
"And if you think about it from another angle, what kind of situations are boys who are not nervous in front of the person they like? One is naturally calm and self-restraining, and the other is that they have experienced too much the day after tomorrow. Today's young people, emotional experience More, it’s really not like the people before. When I was in a relationship with my husband, every time he came to see me, he was so nervous that he couldn’t eat, and he didn’t know where to put his hands in front of me, but now, he still Is there such a person?"
"Everyone comes from this stage. He is shy. You should be happy. This shows that he has little experience."
"Nowadays, some young people's views are that the more feelings a man experiences, the more he will love others. Anyway, I can't accept it. In our era, if we really want to fall in love, whoever wants a man who has experienced everything, it's his turn. It’s gone, doesn’t it mean that there is no sense of novelty. In terms of feelings, nothing can compare to starting from scratch, experiencing together, and growing together, this is the greatest joy of being in love.”
Jian Mingxia said: "It's still better in your era, with simple and pure feelings."
Editor-in-chief Yan nodded: "That is, our generation should be regarded as the real first generation of free love people in our country. It is more than sufficient and more than inferior."
Jian Mingxia also thinks so, her parents are also in free love, they got married after talking for many years, Jian's father often told her that it was not easy for him to chase after Jian's mother, he was poor at that time, every time he came to the house, he was made things difficult by his in-laws, But making things difficult is making things difficult, and he finally married a wife.
In fact, sometimes Jian Mingxia can't imagine being looked down upon by Yue's family and made things difficult for him. How did Jian's father persist? You must know that men nowadays, let alone continue chasing, would be fine if they didn't flinch, and would humbly try to please her. Yue family
What was common in those days is unbearable to many people today.
It’s not just these, love is the same, chasing after a month without success, if the woman doesn’t accept the offer twice, then get out, who cares, there are thousands of women in the world, there is no shortage of you, you look down on me, it’s you blindness. Will the future Yue family look down on him? That's fine, if you develop in the coming year, come to your door to show off.
Yesterday, I loved you like a fire, but today I love you and ignore you. This is a common situation now.
That's why some people say that people's hearts are exaggerated, and they can't compare with the sincerity before.
Thinking about it carefully, this is indeed the truth. The times have changed, and sincerity can be discounted
Jian Mingxia disagrees.
Take the most obvious example. In the early years, there were always people who said that the leprosy wanted to eat swan meat. Does anyone still say that now
It's not that leprosy doesn't want to eat swan meat anymore, it's just that he wants to eat and doesn't bother to pay for it.
Jian Mingxia doesn't think leprosy is a derogatory term, the real leprosy is a warrior, and he should embrace the beauty.
And those who claim to be leprosy are just a group of people who are too lazy to pay and wait for the pie to fall from the sky.
Jian Mingxia has lived so long, she must have met suitors, but she has never met the kind of person who refuses but still persists, or who silently pays and waits.
If you refuse, I will chase someone else. If you don't like me, then I don't like you either.
That's how boys are nowadays.
So now it is really too difficult to talk about a relationship that leads directly to marriage with peace of mind. A little unsatisfactory relationship, a little misunderstanding, is a breakup.
If it is said that Jian Mingxia was attracted to Xue Liyan at the beginning because he happened to have her favorite appearance, then after he confessed his love, what attracted her was his personality.
He is always meticulous and considerate.
Jian Mingxia doesn't believe that a person is born like this, it can only be the result of his deliberation.
He will only do this if he has thought about these things seriously.
Such a person, such a person who is willing to care for her, Jian Mingxia has no reason not to be indifferent.
Even if they have such a big age difference, there are so many contradictions in the future.
But this is no reason to back down.
Yes.
As for the future, let's talk about it later.
Xue Liyan may never know how much courage Jian Mingxia used to decide to take that step at that moment, even though there was an abyss ahead.
But no matter what the ending is, Jian Mingxia knows that she will not regret it, because she is such a person who is willing to accept herself.
Finally, Jian Mingxia said to Editor-in-Chief Yan: "I want to try."
Editor-in-Chief Yan patted her on the shoulder and said, "Then try it, young people, you must have such determination and courage."
"But I'm not too young to be called a young man anymore."
"If you say you are not young in front of a middle-aged woman like me, do you want to get beaten?"
Editor Yan made a gesture to hit her.
Jian Mingxia covered her head and said, "Don't hit me, when I go out later, others should suspect that I will be fired!"
"You should have been fired, and you have to go to work every day to catch fish, why don't you hurry up and go to work!"
Jian Mingxia endured the pain to prepare for get off work. Editor-in-Chief Yan is definitely the worst boss, not one of them.
After Jian Mingxia left the editor's office, she was surrounded by several small editors who like to inquire about things. After dismissing them with the topic of next week's magazine, Jian Mingxia couldn't help but sigh. What about chatting
It can only be said that touching fish is too open and aboveboard, and it will also be questioned.
After get off work, Jian Mingxia was not surprised to see Xue Liyan downstairs in Daxia.
He is wearing a slim and straight suit, his slightly long hair is well-styled, and he stands like a green pine tree. He has all the capital that makes young women stop.
At this moment, he was holding a bunch of purple violets, looking at Jian Mingxia who was walking slowly, showing a somewhat stiff smile.
Jian Mingxia couldn't help laughing.
She said, "You shouldn't have sent me violets because it reminded me that I'm a cow at heart, but I'm glad you didn't send peonies."
As a Taurus, I hate peonies as gifts, and I don't necessarily like violets, although this is the lucky flower of Taurus.
He tightened his hands unconsciously, and said, "Then I'll change a bunch?"
Jian Mingxia smiled and shook her head, took the bouquet and said, "Thank you."
Jian Mingxia doesn't think sending flowers is a vulgar thing, on the contrary, flowers are a part of love that never goes out of style.
In fact, no matter how many reasons a girl says and how many excuses she finds in her heart, she will not be able to resist the charm of flowers, not because of flowers, but because of the meaning it represents.
Jian Mingxia was very happy to receive this bouquet of flowers, so she accepted it calmly.
On the contrary, Xue Liyan was a little surprised and thought she would refuse.
"You must be thinking, why didn't I refuse?"
She seemed to read his mind.
"Because you once said that you only accept flowers from one person in your life."
Jian Mingxia was surprised: "What else did I not tell you before? It feels like I don't have any secrets at all."
He said with a straight face, "Don't change the subject."
"Yes, I admit it. As I said, I will only accept flowers from one person."
"Whose flower?"
"Ask so many what to do, I'm hungry, let's go eat!"
She looked left and right, but didn't finish the sentence.
He called her name: "Jian Mingxia?"
"Ok?"
"Can I give you a hug?"
She froze, then spread her arms, allowing the man in front of her to bend down and hug her into his arms.
His strength was very light, and he hugged her carefully, but he just wrapped his arms around her, but Jian Mingxia couldn't help but her eyes were red.
Many years ago, when she was a girl, Jian Mingxia wrote a sentence in her notebook: In the future, I will only receive flowers from one person, and he will be the one I love.
Time passed.
One day, a teenager of similar age opened the notebook, his eyes fixed on this line of words.
Little Tail: Sister Ming Xia, for your twentieth birthday, may I give you a bouquet of violets
Jian Mingxia: Well, I can give you anything, but why is it violet? I like peonies better. I am a big Taurus who loves peonies.
Little Tail: Then shall I give you Peony
Jian Mingxia: Boy, you really don't have any sense of humor. I won't tease you. Seriously, don't send me flowers, I won't accept them, because I hate flowers the most, and whoever gives them will beat me up!
Little Tail: Oh, I see.
Jian Mingxia: But, why do you want to send me flowers
Little Tail: No, I just don’t know what birthday present I will give you this year, so just ask.
Jian Mingxia: That's it, you can give me whatever you want. You are a junior high school student, and I can't bear to accept your gifts. Just give me ten boxes of Godiva chocolates and eight boxes. I don't ask for much.
Little tail:…
Little Tail: When I didn't say it.
On her 20th birthday, Jian Mingxia really received ten boxes of chocolates. It was the most expensive birthday gift she had ever received, and it came from a junior high school student.
It's night, Jian Mingxia sends a message.
Jian Mingxia: Boy, is your butt swollen from the beating
Xiaowei: This is actually Xue Liheng's living expenses for the next semester. He lost to me in playing games, and now he is working as a porter in a furniture factory. If you want to thank him, thank him.
Jian Mingxia: It's the first time I've seen a brother who cheats my brother so much! Boy, I just want to say...
Little Tail: Well done
Jian Mingxia:...