On New Year's Eve, Jian Mingxia slept at Li Lixiang's house.
The two women who had known each other for fifteen years were lying on the same bed, feeling a lot of emotion in their hearts.
They have accompanied each other halfway through their lives, and this morning one of them will be someone else's bride.
In the dark, Jian Mingxia said: "It feels like time flies by so fast, we are twenty-eight before we know it."
Li Lixiang also said: "Yeah, I thought I was a little girl yesterday, and I'm going to marry a woman today. I really can't imagine that I will get married one day."
"Do I still remember two years ago, we also said that we would never marry for the rest of our lives and be two old leftover women?"
"The plan can't keep up with the changes."
Jian Mingxia asked: "Is he nice to you?"
"He treats me very well, but I feel that his family is a bit difficult to talk about. He has three older sisters above him, so his parents may spoil him more. When I went to his house for dinner, his mother actually rushed to help him pretend Meal. But I made an agreement with him not to develop at home after marriage, so I guess it will be less affected."
Jian Mingxia turned over, lay on the pillow, and said, "How did you meet each other, were you on a blind date?"
"No, he is a friend of my colleague. He met me once by accident, and then started chasing me. I thought he was okay, so I agreed."
"I feel that you are developing very fast. I just found out that you are in love and you are about to get married."
Li Lixiang said helplessly: "There is no way, we are old, we are not in a hurry, our family members are in a hurry first, what about you, are you still in a hurry?"
The age of the Chinese people is two serious dividing lines. As long as you are still a student, even if you are almost 30 years old after studying for a Ph. D., you are still a child in the eyes of the elders. Parents also start to worry about marital problems.
Jian Mingxia sometimes feels that this kind of thinking is a bit unreasonable.
She has been urged to find a boyfriend since she just graduated from university. After so many years of urging, Jian Mingxia felt that even if she had those thoughts, she should have a rebellious mentality.
So now when I talk about this with Li Lixiang, she is also very sad: "Hurry up, why don't you remind me, every time I call or chat, I will definitely talk about this matter. When I was in college, my mother also said that in college My love is unreliable. Breaking up is like eating. She told me not to talk about boyfriends. After I graduated from college, she asked me, why do you not have a boyfriend after graduation? .”
Li Lixiang smiled and said: "It's all the same. How are you and your little tail now, and where have you progressed?"
Concise Xia pretends to be stupid: "What progress?"
"Ahem, don't pretend, we are women who have read the entire bookstore's pocket books in junior high school, now you pretend to be innocent with me, Are you kidding me"
Jian Mingxia squeezed her to the bed and said, "Don't judge others by yourself, dear, I'm still a child."
"Oh boy, are you having sex?"
Jian Ming Xia Te is speechless, all she can say is that a woman who is going to get married really has a thicker skin!
She slept in a normal posture, and said seriously: "I still get up early tomorrow, so go to sleep."
Li Lixiang stretched out a finger to poke her arm: "Go away?"
"Why are you asking this?"
"Curious!"
Not to be outdone, Jian Mingxia fought back: "Then you guys got out?"
"We have all received the certificate, do you think get out!"
Jian Mingxia couldn't help lying down on the pillow again, blinking her eyes and asking her, "Does it hurt?"
Li Lixiang told her the truth: "It's not as scary as others say, it's just that it hurts a little at the beginning, and it's fine to get over it. And it's not as good as it is written in the book, that's the same thing."
She gave Jian Ming Xia Kepu some real feelings that are not suitable for children to hear, and at the end, she said: "If you ask me that, then you must not have one."
Jian Mingxia began to pretend to be asleep again.
After a while, Li Lixiang said: "Did you really sleep?"
Jian Mingxia didn't speak.
"Come chat with me, I'm nervous."
Jian Mingxia looked at the time: "It's almost two o'clock, if you don't sleep, what will you do if you don't have energy in the morning?"
Li Lixiang said: "I don't even want to go to sleep. I have to start putting on makeup at four o'clock in the morning. Now that I'm asleep, I'm still worried that I won't be able to get up in the morning."
Jian Mingxia was surprised: "So early?"
"It's New Year's Day, and the makeup artist is also very busy. She helped me finish my painting, and she has to help others."
Jian Mingxia can only admit that she is indeed a busy person. But since Li Lixiang didn't plan to sleep, she would risk her life to accompany the gentleman.
She asked, "What do you want to talk about?"
"Anything, as long as you don't fall asleep."
Jian Mingxia thought for a while, and couldn't help asking: "Lixiang, how did you and Feng Zheng get into this situation?"
They used to be so good that they both chose the same city for college, but now they don't even attend each other's weddings.
Li Lixiang fell silent.
Jian Mingxia didn't urge her either, if she wanted to say it, she could say it, if she didn't want to, she didn't force it.
After a long time, Li Lixiang said quietly: "Actually, it's nothing, it's just a matter of men and women."
"You know, Feng Zheng is a woman who is full of fantasies about love, so she always has friends of the opposite sex around her. When we first entered college, she introduced me to a boyfriend. In fact, it's not really a boyfriend, it's just Feng Zheng. When Zheng is dating her boyfriend, she will invite me to join in the fun with that person."
"I didn't call that person, that is, at the stage of holding hands, and we didn't mean to get closer to each other. After getting along like this for a month or two, he suddenly told me that he actually liked Feng Zheng. I was I didn't feel much after hearing it, after all, I didn't like him either. I didn't take this matter to heart, but I didn't see him anymore."
"Originally, the matter ended here. As a result, I talked too much once and mentioned this matter to Feng Zheng. Feng Zheng said that she was going to scold that person, and then guess what?"
Jian Mingxia shook her head, expressing that she didn't know.
Li Lixiang continued: "Then they were together."
Jian Mingxia was surprised and was speechless for a moment.
"Feng Zheng, we all know that sometimes you don't use your brain to think about things, and you think about it as soon as you think about it. He is a bit self-centered and rarely considers other people's feelings. But that incident really hurt me at that time. To my surprise, they were still in pairs in front of me, as if nothing had happened."
"I can only say that people will change. Before I knew it, Feng Zheng had become very strange. Anyway, since then, I have alienated her. I don't think there is a true friend who will know her when she knows it. A situation where a man hurts your friend and is with that man."
Jian Mingxia didn't know what to say, she could only say that no one should be viewed one-sidedly.
What kind of person was Feng Zheng before, and what kind of person is Feng Zheng now
What is the difference between Li Lixiang before, her before, and Li Lixiang now, her now
There is a big difference, they grow up and change all the way, and no one is what they used to be.
Regarding Feng Zheng's past memory, Jian Mingxia still remembers her carrying her home in one breath, and the memory of that touching feeling is especially fresh.
As for now? Jian Mingxia couldn't explain clearly either, sometimes she thought she was good, and sometimes she thought she was bad.
And she and Li Lixiang also had obvious changes. Li Lixiang was no longer shy, and her personality became gloomy.
No one is what he remembers.
Time has really changed a lot, only memories are eternal.
Li Lixiang broke the silence: "Let's not talk about her, hey, when you grow up, you know you can't help yourself. I originally wanted you to be my bridesmaid, but my husband's mother said that the bridesmaid should give red envelopes, and the fat will not flow to outsiders." Tian, so she let my husband's cousin be my bridesmaid."
Jian Mingxia: "It's okay, I can still get you married all the way now."
"Well, you should get married quickly, and then we will each have a child, two boys, let them sworn brothers, girls will be sisters, a boy and a girl, let's order a doll, and we will be in-laws in the future."
Jian Mingxia smiled: "What if they don't see each other well in the future, and then the girl wants to retire, and the boy bears the humiliation, is humiliated and bullied, and finally succeeds after going through untold hardships. In the end, the girl shed tears all day and died alone, and the boy lived a happy life with his wife No. 1, 2, and 3."
Li Lixiang complained: "Damn it, are you talking about our children, or are you talking about novels! Are you a joke? Treat us as if they didn't exist!"
"I'm just talking!" Jian Mingxia laughed.
"Forget it, I still won't be in-laws with you. With you like this, no matter if it's a son or a daughter, it's a disaster. You'd better let your children harm others!"
Jian Mingxia was not convinced, and argued hard with her.
The two quarreled non-stop, and neither of them won the quarrel. In the end, Li Lixiang said: "We are both bored, and the children have no shadows. We are just arguing about this here. Your husband, come and quarrel with me again."
"Say it as if you have it!"
"I'm already married, so it must be faster than yours!"
Jian Mingxia was amused by her, and said: "Do you still remember that when we were studying, whoever said the three words 'you have' would get angry and curse at others, but now we have such a serious discussion about whether there is really I am also a little speechless about this question.”
Li Lixiang said: "Because we have reached the age we can have!"
It sounds very reasonable.
Jian Mingxia was lying on her side, a little drowsy.
Li Lixiang said: "To be honest, if it is suitable, you should also consider getting married early."
"Let's talk about it later." Jian Mingxia replied confusedly.
"You already have a boyfriend, don't you ever think about marrying him?"
She said: "He is still young. Telling him these things now is not forcing him. I think this should be the case first. When dating, just simply fall in love and don't think too much. Let's talk about the future. "
Li Lixiang shook her head and stopped quarreling with her.
Jian Mingxia couldn't resist the drowsiness and slowly fell asleep.