Luo Lian's thoughts have gone through higher education and have the experience of going abroad, so his thoughts are at a higher level. It is said that one is well-informed, has a strong tolerance, and is more tolerant and accepting of everything.
He does not have the traditional idea that he must have a child to support him until he is old.
Because in the final analysis of a person's life, he comes and leaves alone.
Others are just your companions between coming and going, between life and death.
What's more, he has no throne to inherit.
Gu Ziyi bit her chopsticks and looked at Luo Lian with a confused look on her face: "Aren't the topics progressing a little too fast between the two of us? We are already talking about children."
"Well... I feel unhappy. The ultimate expectation of our relationship is to get married. Let's talk about each other's views on marriage, family and children, so that we can better reach an agreement." Luo Lian stated his position.
"That's right." What Luo Lian said does make sense.
In the final analysis, we still need to reach an ideological agreement so that we can form a family.
Gu Ziyi said: "I... actually don't think much about the marriage certificate. But the peers around me, including my elders, are also looking forward to my future marriage. I didn't think this at first It doesn't matter, because it's just two people living together. But..." She paused and laughed softly: "I am inevitably a vulgar person, an ordinary person. So I still can't break away from the rules, not so much. I am determined, if possible, I still want to have a marriage certificate. As for children... I can have them when I think it is appropriate, and I have no objection."
Although she knew that pregnancy was very hard and ten months of torture, Gu Ziyi did not resist.
Luo Lian said: "I am more... casual about marriage certificates and children. As you said, two people live together. So the meaning of a marriage certificate is to allow the relationship to be protected by law. Children... I don't really want to, Because I was unprepared, I didn't feel like I could be a good father. If I couldn't do a good job, I would feel very guilty about the child. So the child...may not really want it."
Gu Ziyi could understand Luo Lian's words, "I have thought about this problem before. Because a child is a person. And I have to take the responsibility of educating him. I was also panicked and scared, and I also thought about not having children. But At my current age, saying this is really too absolute. Because no one can predict what will happen in the future. What if I don’t want children and I regret it when I’m 40 or 50 years old? It’s too late.”
"I told Xia Yue about this, maybe because she is pregnant and will soon be a mother. So she has another thought... upgrade. She told me that there is actually nothing to be afraid of. So when she becomes a mother Everyone is also a mother for the first time. No matter how many children she has, every time is actually the first time. Because children are born different, people are full of uncertainties, and there is no template to follow. "
"So, why should we be afraid of things that haven't happened yet?" Gu Ziyi shrugged.
"That makes sense. I've learned a lesson." Luo Lian laughed.
After Gu Ziyi finished eating, she took out her lipstick and mirror from her bag and touched up her makeup. "Let's go."
The two walked out of the mall holding hands, then drove home.
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Gu Ziyi did not have a long idle life, because she spent a month traveling, then stayed at Gu's house for four or five days, and stayed with Luo Lian for another four or five days.
She really took a long vacation and had to go back to work.
The preparations for putting it on the electronic platform are almost complete, and the plan is proceeding step by step.
The sales volume of books and periodicals is also at a stable level. Except for books by celebrity authors, which are more popular and may see a huge increase in sales volume, everything else is very stable.
Gu Ziyi hadn't seen Xu Ruanruan for a long time and found that Xu Ruanruan had changed a lot.
I cut my hair, got a new hair color, and my makeup looks better. It can be seen that he is in love.
"Boss Gu, how was the trip?" Xu Ruanruan asked Gu Ziyi with a smile.
Gu Ziyi smiled back: "Very good."
Gu Ziyi looked Xu Ruanruan up and down, "I can see that you are doing very well during this period. You have a new hairstyle."
Xu Ruanruan touched his hair and said, "I want to change my style. Does it look okay?"
"It suits you very well." Gu Ziyi opened the door and entered the office.
Her office is still as clean as before. Sitting in my seat, it still feels very good.
Gu Ziyi opened the computer on the desktop and looked at her mailbox. She usually clears emails and responds to those who need to be responded to in a timely manner, so there is no accumulation of work because she arranged it well before leaving.
Xu Ruanruan knocked on the door.
"Enter."
Xu Ruanruan came in with a document, "This is a work summary. It hasn't been released for the past half month. This is for the month after you left."
"Okay." Gu Ziyi reached out and took it.
"Boss Gu, has anything interesting happened abroad?" Xu Ruanruan asked.
Gu Ziyi held the signature pen and supported her chin with one hand, "Interesting thing? Like?"
"Such as meeting a handsome foreign guy." Xu Ruanruan winked and began to gossip again.
Gu Ziyi pretended to think about it for a while, "There are also romantic encounters..."
Xu Ruanruan's eyes lit up, waiting for Gu Ziyi to continue.
"But he's not a handsome foreign guy, he's Chinese." Gu Ziyi smiled lightly, and what came to mind was Luo Lian's face.
Xu Ruanruan continued to ask: "When you meet a compatriot in a foreign country, it must be very topical. Is he a handsome guy? Is there any follow-up?"
Xu Ruanruan's anxious look is like an audience watching a soap opera at 8 o'clock every day. He knows that the bloodshed will continue and he is anxious for the characters in the play.
Gu Ziyi rubbed her chin, "Looking..." Luo Lian's facial features were in her mind, "It's considered to be excellent."
"What's next..." Gu Ziyi drawled her voice.
Then in Xu Ruanruan's expectant eyes, he said two words: "No."
Xu Ruanruan: "..."('')
Gu Ziyi opened the file, "Come on, go out to work, there is no gossip to talk about."
Xu Ruan Ruan walked out of the office angrily, and his newly ignited interest was extinguished by the cold water of the word Gu Ziyi.
When Xu Ruanruan went out, Gu Ziyi put down the documents. She was thinking about her month abroad, especially when she and Luo Lian met.
It was a very precious memory that she would probably remember for a lifetime.
In a foreign country, she turned around and saw Luo Lian in the distance.
(End of chapter)