Knowing that Liang Yiran would also go to the alumni association, Cheng Yao almost tried her best to dress herself up. As she expected, she almost became the focus of the audience.
It's just that this kind of attention has attracted Qian Heng's dissatisfaction: "You are so beautiful tonight."
Cheng Yao just smiled: "Isn't it beautiful? Don't you like me being beautiful?"
Qian Heng's ears were a little red, he turned his face sideways, and said solemnly: "I like you or not, didn't you know enough last night?"
Cheng Yao's face turned red, and she covered her ears: "Stop talking!"
Qian Heng arrived in China in the early morning, and almost didn't stop there. After getting off the plane, he rushed directly to Cheng Yao's place. Cheng Yao was in a daze, and Qian Heng took advantage of it. She couldn't sleep all morning.
"Next time I go to a party, you'd better not come." Qian Heng still looked confident and calm, "Just show it to me alone, don't show it to others."
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Cheng Yao whispered to Qian Heng for a while, and was interrupted by a call from a customer. She switched to work mode almost immediately, said hello to Qian Heng, and went out to answer the call in a quiet place.
When she came back again, she found that Qian Heng was already surrounded by several alumni. A group of successful people were leaning on the bar, talking in a relaxed manner, while Liang was still holding his wine glass, and was staring at Qian Heng unfathomably.
Several people were chatting about another old classmate getting married, but for some reason, the topic turned to Qian Heng: "Qian Heng, when are you and your girlfriend planning to get married?"
This topic made Liang Yiran's expression saddened.
This clubhouse has a sense of design. Each box has an independent bar, and there are wooden sliding doors outside the bar to isolate the line of sight and completely protect privacy. Standing behind the sliding door, Cheng Yao always felt that Liang was still going to be a monster, so she paused, subconsciously not going in.
"Marriage?" Just across the door, Qian Heng's voice inside the door was indifferent, as if he was not interested in this topic at all, "I am a non-marriageist, and I am also a DINK, so I will not get married."
Inside the door, Liang Yiran's eyes lit up. She swept away the previous ashes and looked at Qian Heng.
Outside the door, Cheng Yao held on to the sliding door, her face darkened.
Unexpectedly, it was not Liang Yiran, but Qian Heng himself who was acting as a demon.
Cheng Yao's face was hot and hot. Yesterday she made up a version of Qian Heng begging her to get married in front of Liang Yiran, but Qian Heng himself forcefully refuted the rumors and slapped her in the face tonight.
this fucking...
Another voice sounded—
"You are like this, does your little girlfriend know? A relationship that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan. Qian Heng, if you just fall in love with someone without getting married and don't want to have children, can they accept it?"
"She knows, I've always been on this principle." Qian Heng's voice was soft but heavy into Cheng Yao's ears, and she felt that she had seen Liang Yiran's face of success.
"I didn't hide it. Since she knew and agreed to date me, of course she accepted my principle." Qian Heng's voice was as cold and arrogant as ever, "How could I, Qian Heng, use deception to find someone to fall in love with? You Is there any misunderstanding of my personality charm?"
…
After that they talked about something, but Cheng Yao couldn't listen to it at all, both disappointed and embarrassed.
In a panic, Liang Yiran just walked out of the private room and ran into Cheng Yao who was at the door.
At this moment, Liang Yiran's face was really bright and cheerful. She glanced at Cheng Yao's expression and quickly understood everything. I love to dream."
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In the second half of the party, Cheng Yao was absent-minded, but her heart was filled with a huge mess of emotions, such as anxiety, embarrassment, loss, loss and bewilderment.
It's not that Cheng Yao didn't know that Qian Heng claimed that she was unmarried and dink, but psychologically, she didn't take it seriously. After all, before he was with him, Qian Heng still had a mess of fluffy standards and principles for choosing a mate, and he almost didn't meet any of them, but Qian Heng still chose himself. She didn't expect that he would still insist on not marrying and dink.
But now, no matter what his principles are, even if he doesn't know it, the face that slapped him tonight is really swollen and can't be seen!
On the way back, when only she and Qian Heng were left, Cheng Yao finally couldn't hold back.
She seemed to bring up the topic naturally: "You said that many couples, after falling in love to a certain stage, naturally want to be together forever and spend the rest of their lives with each other, so they get married."
"That's because they are not clear-headed." Qian Heng snorted without doubting him, "There is no good in getting married. It is all harmful but not beneficial."
Cheng Yao pretended to be casual and said: "I always feel that a relationship begins with love, matures day by day, and finally gets married. Look at the end of all fairy tales, don't princesses and princes also fall in love and get married in the end, and live happily in a castle? "
Qian Heng snorted coldly: "You have already said that it is a fairy tale. Fairy tales are full of lies. Have you never heard of this? A relationship can only start with love and die with marriage."
Cheng Yao endured the emotions in her heart, and said angrily: "You say that now, maybe you will beg me to marry you in the future."
"No." Qian Heng pursed his lips and said decisively, "I will not change this principle." He looked at Cheng Yao, "Don't worry, I won't force you to marry me, let alone I'm going to ask you to have a baby."
I rest assured? ! What do I worry about? Cheng Yao wanted to growl in her heart, I don't worry if you don't want to get married and have children! Children are so cute, why not give birth? ! You don't want to get married, but I still fantasize about someone kneeling down to propose and have a grand wedding? !
Cheng Yao endured the anger in her heart and tried to calm down: "The future is still long, so don't be so sure. When you kneel down and beg me to marry you, I hope you can be so stubborn."
As a result, Qian Heng has no desire to survive at all: "You are still young, wait until you do a few more years of family affairs cases like me, see through the essence of marriage, and see too many ugly scenes of men and women eventually tearing each other up, then you will have no doubts about marriage." Any expectation." He took it for granted, "Marriage is the tomb of love. Once you enter into marriage, the attraction between men and women is bound to death by the contract. Besides, as long as you love each other, it doesn't matter whether you have a marriage certificate or not. Having children is a matter of life." I'm looking for death, isn't the world between the two of you bad? With a troublesome creature like a child, you can't even develop your career well, and there is no freedom in life. You can no longer simply live for yourself. Meaning, completely courting death."
After finishing speaking, he looked at Cheng Yao curiously, and said with a little surprise: "Don't you also agree with my principle of not marrying and DINK? What's the matter? Do you want to marry me? Do you really want to have children with me?"
Cheng Yao endured the fire in her heart, and said stubbornly: "I didn't!"
Qian Heng rubbed Cheng Yao's head, and said cheerfully: "I just admire you, and you are in perfect harmony with me. I know that my eyes will not like the wrong person."
"..."
"What's more, if you think about it in your own shoes, there is no benefit in marrying me. Not only will you not get a penny in divorce, but you will have to pay me back." Qian Heng said with a good feeling about himself, "After all, there is no family lawsuit in this world. Can you beat me?"
"..."
"It's even worse after giving birth to a child. My parents like children. In order to prevent them from annoying me, once we get divorced, we must fight for the custody of the child. No one can compete with me." Qian Heng grinned. "So it's easiest not to get married and not have children, just talk about a relationship that will never break up."
Qian Heng was still talking, this cosmic straight male cancer didn't notice Cheng Yao's subtle emotional changes and her gnashing of teeth at all.
In this world, is there such a man who preaches how miserable it would be to marry and have children with him
This kind of person can actually get out of the order, he must be blind!
Cheng Yao only felt that her face was hot and cold, Liang Yiran's sarcastic smile made her feel stuck in her throat, and Qian Heng's sure answer made her upset.
She walked in silence for a while, and finally couldn't hold back—
"Did you presuppose marriage too badly?" Cheng Yao pursed her lips, "Before you get married, you think about how to deal with disputes after divorce, so you say non-marriageism, but there are also many marriages that last forever. accompanied."
"We are lawyers. Before doing anything, lawyers must think carefully, analyze the pros and cons, and have risk thinking. We should think about how to deal with the worst situation and minimize the loss. Marriage is a responsibility, and responsibility means Constrained and restricted, two people live together for a long time, but because of love, they are willing to take the initiative to grind away their own edges, suppress their own nature, put away their sharp side, bend themselves into the way the other party likes, and respect each other. Adaptation, adaptation. But people are independent individuals. Limiting yourself for others is like cutting off your own wings. When you love, you feel that your sacrifice is great, but sooner or later this kind of love will be exhausted. At that time, it was unwillingness and resentment."
Qian Heng's voice was very calm, and he glanced at Cheng Yao: "I don't want us to become like this, to lose ourselves for the sake of marriage. You are still you, and I am still me, there is no need to sacrifice for each other to adapt to the unchanging and tasteless married life."
This sounds reasonable, but Cheng Yao quickly found a loophole: "Don't you need to work with each other when you're in love?"
Qian Heng smiled slightly: "At least if we don't get married, then our relationship won't be mixed with any other factors, we won't quarrel because of the parents' shortcomings, we won't be busy dealing with the children, and we won't have those circles in marriage, There will only be pure love, and freedom."
"Although marriage sounds troublesome, the law protects the marriage relationship and marital property. Because she is not married, Li Mengting is very passive in dividing her property, while Jiang Wenxiu is protected to the greatest extent."
"We are all family lawyers, and there is no situation where we will not be vigilant and protect ourselves like Li Mengting."
"But don't you have no one to win? Even if I protect myself, I can't protect you." Cheng Yao lowered her gaze, "Besides, if we have been in love for several years now, and we later find out that it is not suitable and we want to part ways, at that time Your man in his thirties continues to be a flower, let alone get married when I am in my thirties, I may not be able to find a suitable love partner."
Qian Heng frowned: "Why did we break up?"
"It's not what you said, our lawyers have to think carefully enough to consider the worst case?" Cheng Yao planned to get to the bottom of it this time, and she analyzed rationally, "So let's do some things that may be involved during the relationship." The property division plan, so that we will break up after a few years, so we can deal with it according to this division plan, which is of the same nature as a prenuptial agreement, so that there will be no disputes when the relationship breaks down."
"In addition, as I said, the ten years of youth from the age of 20 to 30 for girls are more valuable than the ten years for men. Once we break up, shouldn't you show me some spiritual compensation? After all, because I'm not married, girls If you men change your mind at any time and want to get married, even if you are forty years old, as long as the conditions are good, you can find someone in your twenties to take over the offer, but not for a woman."
Qian Heng's expression was not very good-looking: "Our law does not support this kind of spiritual compensation."
Cheng Yao smiled: "I know, I've thought it over, we can just change the form and write it as a loan. You can set a certain amount, refer to the alimony in the prenuptial agreement in Europe and the United States, the longer you are together, the more you break up The larger the loan amount, the larger the amount. After all, the longer we are together, the higher the cost for me as a woman when we broke up, and it is reasonable to get more compensation."
What Cheng Yao said was clear and logical, but Qian Heng's face was getting darker and darker, but Cheng Yao didn't care at all.
"During the relationship, we should be financially independent, so there shouldn't be any other disputes. Then let's deal with DINK's issue." Cheng Yao said clearly, "DINK and unmarried women face similar risks. Marriage and childbirth are the same. Regarding matters related to personal relationships, even if we sign an agreement together saying that we are determined not to marry and dink, otherwise the defaulter will pay compensation, and it is illegal to do so. Then if we break up in the future, or you change your mind, my risk is very high Big."
Qian Heng had a stormy face on his face: "I don't like children, I won't change my mind."
"You can't talk too much. When you get old and become kind, you may like children, and when you get old, your life may depend on new life to inject vitality." Cheng Yao said angrily, "We continue Ah, the reproductive period of men is much longer than that of women. In seven or eight years, if you want to have children, then I may be infertile at an advanced age. At this time, you will definitely break up with me again, go out Find a young girl to give birth to a child. As for me, I can only be strong alone in the miserable wind and rain. When I get old, I have no wife or children to take care of me. Maybe there will be social news like that "the old man who lived alone died for many days and no one found it". It's too miserable, so on this point, you should also express and protect me, what do you say when we break up?"
"..."
Qian Heng's face was not very good-looking, but his tone was very calm. He looked into Cheng Yao's eyes: "I will not break up with you."
Cheng Yao choked.
Qian Heng looked away: "At first, I wanted to say, unless you ask to break up, but after thinking about it, even if you ask, it won't work."
"I won't break up. If you want to break up with me and find someone else, I can only find one and destroy the other, so that you have no choice but to come back." Qian Heng looked at Cheng Yao with eyes that could kill, "Anyway, we There is no disagreement on the principle of not marrying and not having children. Stop thinking about it and go."
What doesn't disagree? That's the biggest difference, right
Cheng Yao was speechless. Is Qian Heng mentally retarded? Dare he say so much, he didn't realize his subtext at all? Do you have to say "I want to get married and have children" by yourself in order to understand
From this perspective, Qian Heng really shouldn't have children. There is really no need to pass on his stupid but self-conscious straight male chromosomal gene. Let him be exterminated on the spot!