Jiang's father paused here, letting He Yi digest his words, and He Yi himself substituted it. If she and Jiang Sheng had a child and the child was about to get married, she would definitely check the other party's details. Don't know the details, how to get married with confidence. But she definitely won't carry others behind her back like this, but should she just tell others that I want to check you? It seems that this is even worse. If it weren't for her sudden whim, she would never know about it. Is this kind of happiness kept in the dark also a kind of happiness
He Yi was also confused.
"Xiao Yi, this matter is indeed our family's villain's heart and a gentleman's heart. When we went to your house to propose marriage, your parents also gave us a copy of the information." Mother Jiang took the conversation.
"What?" He Yi was surprised, why didn't she know.
"It was that day, the day I talked with your mother on the phone. After you went back that night, I called your mother and confirmed with your mother what we needed to prepare for the marriage proposal. That night your mother said that Jiang Sheng gave them a document, and they We also prepared a copy for our family. We all know each other well, so we can rest assured." Mother Jiang explained.
He Yi still didn't recover a little bit, why she didn't know these things.
"Your parents are very frank, which makes us ashamed. So we confessed to your parents what we have checked, and your parents expressed their understanding. Your parents said that they are also parents, and can understand why we do this. And don't tell you about this, you will definitely feel uncomfortable if you know. Xiao Yi, we are not trying to excuse ourselves, but we really don't mean to despise your family in the slightest. If we really don't take your family seriously, we won't Maybe you agree to your marriage with Jiang Sheng. A daughter-in-law who doesn't like you, why should you agree to the marriage? Jiang Sheng loves you again, so he has to consider his parents' opinions. If Jiang Sheng loves you so much that he doesn't care about his parents' opinions, Do you dare to marry such a man? He can ignore his parents for you today, and he can ignore you for others someday. "
"And if our family really doesn't like your family, why should we invite so many people when we go to your house to propose marriage? Just me and Jiang Sheng's father, or we only go to one, can't we propose marriage? But think about it , is there any disrespect in our family towards your family? Do we pay enough attention to you and your family? "
He Yi nodded sullenly.
"Xiao Yi, think about it carefully, this is indeed something wrong with our family, but there is really no way to avoid this." Father Jiang finally said.
He Yi didn't say anything, and went back to her home with Jiang Sheng after breakfast.
Today is Friday, I was supposed to go to work, but He Yi's condition is not good, so I asked for a day off. After returning home, He Yi went back to the master bedroom, closed the door, shut Jiang Sheng out, and then picked up the phone to call He Mu.
"Mom, you provided Jiang Sheng's family with information about our family." He Yi cut to the point without any inkling.
Mother He knew that He Yi must have known it as soon as she heard it, "Well, getting married requires the sincerity of both parties. Since their family has already shown sincerity, and you want to be with Jiang Sheng, then our family has to show our family's sincerity too. But his family has been checked, so your father and I are quite relieved."
"What?" He Yi was a little confused. Was her mother bought off
"Xiao Yi, the conditions of the two families are different. If his family doesn't know anything about our family and wants to marry our family, I will doubt his family's sincerity or his family's strength. As parents, we all want our children Live a happy and healthy life in the future. If you marry a troublemaker, you will not be able to live well? So it is necessary to inquire about the character of the other party. Even if the girl is good, there are many mothers-in-law who make trouble. So not only girls You also need to inquire about the character of the other party's family. If his family wants to get married without asking anything, then either the family has a brain problem, or Jiang Sheng is not their own at all, so it doesn't matter what his future life is. Or maybe his family didn't look so rich, but was heavily in debt, and they really couldn't marry a daughter-in-law of the right family, so they had no choice but to find someone to make do with."
"So it's right for Mom to say that it's his family's investigation behind our backs?" He Yi couldn't help interjecting.
"Xiao Yi, you just like to be true. This method is indeed bad, but can you find a better method?"
"Can't we talk openly and honestly?"
"Of course, but Xiao Yi, do you believe what other people say? Even if what others say is true, can your subjective evaluation be the same as other people's objective evaluation?"
"So mom isn't angry at all?"
"Don't be angry. At first, Jiang Sheng didn't want to make a prenuptial agreement with you. Mom and Dad were actually a little worried. He didn't even have a rough plan for his own property. How sincere is he to you? But his family has a plan for our family. I got a general understanding, and then he said that he would not make a prenuptial agreement, and then his parents believed that he really wanted to live with you for the rest of his life, not just a novelty for a while. Xiao Yi, people clearly know what they can get and bear in marriage, so that they can do their best. The greatest possibility is to ensure that the marriage will last for a long time. If you get married when your eyes are darkened and you don’t know anything, the biggest possibility is divorce. He didn’t make a prenuptial agreement because he knew it was best for you.”
"Mom, why do I feel that you were bought by their family?" He Yi pouted.
"Xiao Yi, if he doesn't make a prenuptial agreement, he's actually giving you the biggest excuse to make your marriage feel safe." Mother He sighed.
"what?"
"Do you know Tudou.com? It used to be more popular than Youku. Later, when Tudou went public, the boss and his wife got divorced, and the woman refused to sign. As a result, Tudou couldn't go public for a long time. In the end, Youku took the lead. Now everyone just If you know Youku, how many of you know Tudou? You don’t have a prenuptial agreement, and you have a share of his property after marriage. If you want to punish him, you have plenty of opportunities.”
"Mom, don't talk about him being so affectionate, okay, I've only been with him for a long time, and he put all his wealth in my hands." He Yi's goosebumps popped out.
"Hey, mom is just giving you an example. It doesn't mean that he put all the property in your hands. What mom means is that he gave you the handle to restrain him. As his wife, without a prenuptial agreement, you Capable of giving him a blow in the head."
"Mom, if you put it that way, then he is really smart. If he gave me a handle, he will not be responsible to his investors. Who will dare to invest in him in the future." He Yi disdains.
"Why are you such a stubborn child? Could it be that no one dares to invest in those couples who jointly hold shares? And you are a husband and wife, and you are a community of interests. After you have children, even for the sake of your children, you will have something to do." Scruples. You ruined the child's own father, and the child's own father has nothing, so what can the child have? The life of the child is based on the ability of the parents. And he dares to do this, and he doesn't make any prenuptial agreement with you. Based on the trust and understanding of you. In short, Xiao Yi, my parents don’t think there is much wrong with their family in this matter. The only thing is that the method is wrong. But there is nothing wrong with asking about the character and temperament of the other party’s family before marriage. Parents who are responsible for their children will do this. When your younger brother gets married, parents will definitely inquire about the conditions of the other’s family. A pre-marital medical examination is a must, otherwise, no matter how much your younger brother really loves that girl, parents will not agree to their marriage. "
Chapter 64
After He Yi hung up the phone, he fell into deep thought. Why did his own parents think it was no big deal? Jiang Sheng checked her behind her back, and her parents only thought that there was a problem with the method, but there was nothing wrong with the starting point.
She couldn't help thinking that her child was going to get married in the future, what would happen to her? He Yi finally agrees with her parents' point of view. After her child gets married, she will definitely check out the eight generations of the other party's ancestors. If her child wants to marry low or low, she will most likely not agree.
Thinking of this, He Yi was not so angry anymore. Although the method of this matter is wrong, it is really not a big deal. Even if she is not worried about Jiang Sheng, is she worried? So Jiang Sheng took the initiative to give her those materials. Jiang Sheng also had doubts about her. He was rich and powerful, so he didn't need to go round and round to inquire, he just checked. And she can only count on Jiang Sheng to take the initiative to tell her.
He Yi thinks about it and thinks it's very boring.
Jiang Sheng came in at noon and asked her to go out for dinner, He Yi gave him a disgruntled look, got up and followed him out. She put down her chopsticks before taking a few bites, Jiang Sheng had no choice but to say, "You are angry with me, you don't want me to eat at the table, why are you so hard on yourself?"
"Then why don't you hurry down." He Yi said angrily.
Jiang Sheng smiled, put down his chopsticks, and went to sit on the sofa in the living room.
He Yi looked at the leftover rice in the bowl, took another two bites, but really lost his appetite, so he put down his chopsticks and went back to the bedroom. Jiang Sheng followed in. He Yi snorted and turned her back to him.
Jiang Sheng hugged her from behind, He Yi broke his hand hard, Jiang Sheng hugged her very tightly.
"How about you slap me a few times to relieve my anger?"
"I won't hurt my hand from beating me, right?" He Yi scolded, even Lao Tzu came out.
"You are a girl, shouldn't you call yourself an old lady?"
He Yi was taken aback, and continued to break his hand, "Get rolling."
"I've already done this. You can punish me however you want, but don't compete with yourself."
"Well, now please get out mellowly." He Yi snorted coldly.
"How about you beat me up?"
"If you have no strength in your hands, you'll have to kick them with your feet." He Yi sneered.
"Okay, let's go." Jiang Sheng said, instead of hugging, he led He Yi out.
He Yi was a little confused,