The parents declined, saying only that one table of reps was enough.
At the wedding, Father He took He Yi's hand and handed him over to Jiang Sheng. He Yi walked towards Jiang Sheng slowly, not knowing what it felt like. Excited? Definitely a little bit. happy? Of course there are. But there is still a trace of worry mixed with many beautiful emotions. Is it really possible to spend a lifetime with this person? He Yi didn't know.
After the wedding, He Yi was lying on the bed with only one thought in his mind, that he should not kick Jiang Sheng. Otherwise, if you remarry, you will have to hold a wedding again. Weddings are simply not something people do.
After the wedding, the two went on their honeymoon. Originally, Jiang Sheng wanted to take He Yi to Europe, but He Yi firmly refused. He Yi has no interest in Europe and the United States at all, and she doesn't want to torment herself at all.
In He Yi's heart, the motherland is vast and rich in resources, with great mountains and rivers. Regardless of longitude or latitude, similar climate characteristics and geographical environments can be found in China anywhere in the world except the polar regions. The so-called scenery when you go out to beat the jet lag is not as good as a comfortable tour in China.
He Yi didn't like going abroad, Jiang Sheng didn't force it, and the two played in China for half a month.
After the honeymoon ends, newlywed life begins. The relationship between the two is good, the financial conditions are good, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also very good. He Yi's newly married life is very comfortable.
He Yi doesn't like socializing, and has little love for social occasions. She doesn't usually go to social occasions with Jiang Sheng, unless she must go as a couple or a party at a relative's house. Jiang Sheng never forced her, so if He Yi didn't like it, then he wouldn't go.
He Yi sometimes feels sorry for Jiang Sheng, other people's families are full of husbands and wives, but she alone can't keep up with Jiang Sheng's pace. Don't talk about walking side by side with Jiang Sheng, even if you just stay by his side, you can't do it.
He Yi felt a little frustrated, why did Jiang Sheng marry her. If he married a wife who was well-matched, wouldn't he be able to worry a lot now
This kind of thought just flashes from time to time, and it will not affect their lives. But He Yi's occasional melancholy was still captured by Jiang Sheng.
Jiang Sheng asked He Yi why, and He Yi only said it was fine. Jiang Sheng was most afraid that He Yi would be bored in his heart and would not tell him. He guided her patiently and patiently, and He Yi finally expressed her thoughts. After finishing speaking, He Yi asked: "Do you regret marrying me?"
Jiang Sheng laughed, and kissed He Yi on the lips, He Yi was not happy. She discussed with him so seriously, but Jiang Sheng can be so casual.
"Baby, marriage is either for love or profit, or both. If I meet a girl who is well-matched, or even better than my family, we fall in love and get married. Of course it is the best. But I No luck, no encounter. I met you, I love you, you love me, then get married. Our marriage is purely because of feelings, that is, love. As for the interests, I will not Interested marriage, my family already has this condition, and I am not a waste, I don’t need to rely on marriage to obtain benefits. If my condition still needs to use marriage to obtain benefits, then what is the point of my struggle since childhood? I worked so hard , isn’t it for the purpose of being able to live according to one’s own wishes? So I will definitely not simply marry. I only get married because of feelings. If that girl happens to be in the same family as my family, it’s better, and I can accept it if she is worse than my family.”
After Jiang Sheng finished speaking, He Yi didn't answer. In He Yi's heart, Jiang Sheng was not as white as a lotus, and he made himself sound like a lover.
Jiang Sheng could tell what He Yi was thinking just by looking at her expression. He smiled, "Of course it's impossible for me to marry a girl just because of feelings. I have basic requirements for my wife. If a girl doesn't meet my According to the criteria for choosing a spouse, even if I have a crush on her, I won't put much affection into her, and naturally there will be no marriage without affection."
"That is to say, even if you love a girl, you may not necessarily marry her?"
"He Yi, the relationship between two people should first have a good impression, then like it, and finally love, right?"
He Yi nodded.
"A girl may be able to attract me at first, but after getting to know each other, she does not meet my requirements for a wife, then I will not continue to invest in the relationship, and I will definitely withdraw. Since there is no continuous emotional investment, how can I like it? As for her, it is even more impossible to fall in love with her. So there is no situation where I love a girl but will not marry her."
"Then what do you want from your wife?"
"The other party's family has to be a normal family. The family is harmonious, the parents are loving, the father is kind, the son is filial and the brothers are respectful. I definitely don't want that kind of messy family. I have no interest in making trouble for myself. As for the other party's economy I don’t care about the conditions. I don’t need to live on my wife’s dowry. I have no problem raising my wife and children. The other family’s character is upright, as long as their character passes the test. Words make no difference."
"Nonsense, the field of vision of farmers and elites is different, can it be the same?" He Yi held back his mouth.
Jiang Sheng laughed, "It doesn't matter what the profession of my parents-in-law is. What I require of my parents-in-law is character, not occupation. There are a lot of farmers with good character, and there are also a lot of elites with bad character. A person's character has nothing to do with their occupation. As for the field of view, if you can talk, talk more, and if you can't talk, talk less. As long as their character is fine, I can respect them and live in harmony with them. It's just time to get along More or less is a question."
"Can girls raised by peasant families be the same as girls raised by the elite? Do you like peasant daughters?" He Yi still didn't believe it.
"He Yi, since I can have a crush on a girl, and I like her enough to fall in love with her, then that girl must have something that I appreciate to make me fall in love. If that girl is useless, how can I fall in love with her. Even if They are girls from the countryside, and they also have something that I appreciate."
"E.g?"
"Self-discipline and tenacity."
"what?"
"It means self-discipline, tenacity, you heard me right. Girls in rural areas need to work harder than others if they want to get into a good university. Their character is more tenacious, more persistent, and more self-disciplined. Otherwise, it will be difficult for them to get into a good university. School. And I have requirements for my wife’s school, at least 211. If there is no 211, I will worry about the genes of the next generation. Although reading can’t explain all the problems, there are many successful people who didn’t go to a good university. But Reading is the easiest way to test a person's comprehensive ability. Other methods can also test a person's comprehensive ability, but why should I make trouble for myself? Obviously there is the simplest method, and I have to find things for myself. Find a girl's shining point from other aspects. People are lazy, and there are already ready-made methods, so just use them directly, why bother to practice a pair of hot eyes to find a wife for yourself." Jiang Sheng spread his hands after finishing speaking.
He Yi rolled his eyes at him.
"So you think my family relationship is very good?"
"Well, the family relationship in your family is very good. Every time you video with your parents, I can feel the warm and harmonious family atmosphere of your family. And your parents' generation in your family is basically college students, although There are no highly educated talents such as university professors, but they all went to university. The college students at that time are not at the same level as the college students now. In your generation, there are many masters and doctors. Although your family has It's just an ordinary family, but the overall quality of your home is very good." Jiang Sheng praised decisively.
The corner of He Yi's mouth twitched, Jiang Sheng was really thoughtful.
"Your requirement for your partner's family is that the family atmosphere must be good, and the character must pass the test. That's it? It doesn't matter what career it is." He Yi concluded.
"Well, it's almost like this. These two points are what I like the most. There are other small details like physical health, but the general direction is these two."
Chapter 70
Jiang Sheng talked about his requirements for his wife's family, but there are more critical requirements for his wife himself.
"Then what are your demands on your wife?" He Yi continued to ask.
"The school has just said that 211 starts. As for height and appearance, 1.6 meters is the minimum standard. For appearance, above average. I guess I don't like those who are too short or too ugly. People, they are more or less face-controlled. I am no exception. Look at you, the school is 211, the height is 163, and she looks absolutely beautiful. Although the breasts are a little smaller, it completely meets my criteria for choosing a mate." Jiang Sheng joked.
He Yi decisively pinched him, and Jiang Sheng screamed in pain.
"It's just these?" He Yi didn't believe it, how could it be just these.
"Of course not. These are just the basic requirements. There must also be character. I definitely don't like those with low character. I get married to live a happy life, not to cause trouble for myself."
"anything else?"
"The others are very metaphysical, and there are no specific quantitative standards. For example, it must be attractive to me. This cannot be quantified, right? It is necessary for me to have a good impression of her, otherwise how could I like and Falling in love with her? Isn't it?"
"Then what attracts me to you?"
"You. It's very comfortable to be with you. You have a wide range of knowledge, and you won't be cold when chatting with you. You can also enjoy yourself very much, and you don't need a man to coax you all the time."
"That's it? If it's just like this, there are many girls with this standard."
"There are many girls with this standard, but I can't meet every one of them. I met you, I was attracted by you, I fell in love with you in the process of getting along, and finally fell in love with you. This is the relationship between the two of us.