fate. What does it matter to me whether other girls are good or not? I don't know them at all. Even if I know them now, I'm married, and they don't appeal to me anymore. There is no attraction, and there will be no liking and admiration. So there may be a lot of people who meet the standard, but only one scoop of three thousand for weak water. I only have you in my heart. "
"No, you must have something more core to say. It's definitely more than that." He Yi still shook his head, not paying attention to Jiang Sheng's confession at all.
Jiang Sheng gave He Yi a thumbs-up in his heart, she was indeed his wife, and it was not easy to fool her at all. But he has a sincere face, "Basically that's all. People's feelings come from the place. We have been together for a long time, and we have feelings."
"Don't talk about it, if you don't say it now, you don't need to say it in this life. Even if you want to say it in the future, I won't listen." Impatient, He Yi got up from the sofa and stopped talking to Jiang Sheng.
Jiang Sheng quickly grabbed her, He Yi was not easy to coax. He is fooling her now, and she will only close her heart to him step by step. The hearts are not together, and the same bed and different dreams are not far away. The two became strangers step by step.
He Yi shook off his hand, Jiang Sheng decisively surrendered, "I was wrong, I confess, I will tell you everything you want to know."
"Didn't you say that there is nothing? Since there is nothing, what are you talking about?" He Yi sneered.
"I was wrong, don't be angry." Jiang Sheng stood up and held He Yi in his arms, admitting his mistake honestly.
He Yi also wanted to know the reason, snorted coldly, sat down again, and did not care about Jiang Sheng for the time being.
Jiang Sheng hugged He Yi and sat down on the sofa, kissing her forehead. He Yi tilted her head to avoid his kiss, expressing her dissatisfaction. Jiang Sheng smiled, held her in his arms and continued talking.
"I like your attitude towards life. When you look at people, you always look at their strengths, and you don't stare at other people's shortcomings. Many people like to stare at the dark side of others, and wish to expose all the dark sides of others to show their own Wisdom. In fact, who is perfect in this world? Who has no flaws? But who has no strengths. People who only see flaws when looking at people have psychological problems. Their hearts are dark, so they only Look at other people's faults."
"But most people look at the advantages and disadvantages together, which is more comprehensive." He Yi retorted.
Jiang Sheng shook his head, "It's different. Everyone looks at people with their advantages and disadvantages. Even you, you also look at their advantages and disadvantages. I mean, you would rather believe in the beauty of this world than think that this society is full of darkness. And Living with an optimistic and positive person for a lifetime and living with a pessimistic and disappointed person are two completely different feelings.”
"I also have times of pessimism and disappointment, okay?" He Yi was speechless.
"Baby, you are a living person, not a machine, how can you not be pessimistic and disappointed. If you are never pessimistic and disappointed, then I will think that you have problems, and you don't even have basic emotions. You are a normal People have normal emotions. But you are generally optimistic. When you are with you, although you sometimes don’t talk much, most of what you say is full of hope, making people feel that the world is beautiful. .”
"Many girls are like this. Girls who have never experienced anything are very pure and beautiful, and feel that the world is full of kindness." He Yi still disagrees.
"He Yi, please don't think of yourself as a white lotus. You are almost thirty. Can you be a little lotus?" Jiang Sheng laughed.
"Jiang Sheng." He Yi was angry.
"He Yi, when I met you, you were 26 years old and had worked for more than 4 years. You have experienced the cruelty and darkness of this society. You are not a little white flower who knows nothing. If you are still a little white flower at the age of 26, then You will never let me have even the slightest interest. I am looking for a wife, not a daughter. I am naive and ignorant of the world because I have no experience. A father will find his daughter cute, and a man will only feel tired when he sees his wife. "
He Yi smiled, it's so realistic.
"He Yi, you are very smart and see many things clearly, but you will not blindly deny them. You will never judge others easily, because you know that everyone's experience is different, and outsiders can't comment. I like you Such an optimistic and open-minded attitude.”
"It didn't happen to me, of course I don't care. If I were the person involved, I would definitely not be as optimistic as you say." He Yi muttered.
"It's different. It doesn't just happen to someone. It's an ability to manage emotions." Jiang Sheng shook his head.
"Emotional management?"
"Well, how does a person look at life, what kind of state life will present to him. Just like when we took wedding photos, didn't you say why so many people took wedding photos on the street? The fact is that there are more photos taken on the street ? No, there were a lot of people taking pictures before, but you didn’t pay attention to it before. You will notice when we take pictures. It’s the same in life. If you stare at the dark side, then what you see will only be darkness. Sunshine, naturally feel the bright and clear sky.”
"Can you stop being so philosophical?" He Yi's goosebumps sprang up.
Jiang Sheng smiled, bowed his head and kissed her, "No matter what the reason is, the fact is that I love you and we are married. I like everything about you and want to spend my whole life with you. As for whether you will go to social occasions with me or not , it doesn't matter at all. I just need to know that I love you, and you can live freely according to your own will."
He Yi made a gesture of patting his arm, which meant that goosebumps arose.
Jiang Sheng didn't care, "He Yi, you stayed in Shanghai for me, if I still force you to do something you don't like, then what right do I have to ask you to stay with me for the rest of your life. I hope you are happy Be happy with me, instead of wronging yourself to accommodate me. You wrong yourself to accommodate me, and when the wrongedness reaches a certain value, one day it will explode. I want to live with you for the rest of my life, and I don’t want to break up halfway.”
He Yi was silent for a while after listening, "But I still think it's better for you to marry a wife who is well-matched. Your life will be more comfortable."
"As I said earlier, it would be better if I met a girl of the right family who I love. But I didn't meet the one who fell in love with the girl of the right family. I met you, for me , My life will be more comfortable and happier with you."
"One day you are in trouble and I can't help you, will you regret not marrying a helpful wife?"
"He Yi, other people's help is just icing on the cake. In life, the most important thing is your own ability. If you are a fool, no matter how big the help is, it will be in vain. I am not so useless, I need to rely on others' promotion to live .” Jiang Sheng laughed.
"Not this, I mean when you are in trouble and need someone to help you. It doesn't mean everyday life. If you have a powerful in-law, they can help you when you are in trouble." He Yi shook his head.
Jiang Sheng stretched out his hand and squeezed He Yi's face, "Honey, don't think too much. If it's a general problem, you don't need in-laws to solve it. It may be easier if you have in-laws, but you can definitely solve it yourself. If you really encounter When it comes to that kind of catastrophe, so what if there is an in-law relationship, who has no family property, who is so selfless if he puts his own family in for others? It's not about parents, most people can't do this."
"Aren't your father-in-law and mother-in-law your wife's real parents?" He Yi asked back.
"Yes, but they can protect themselves wisely. As long as they don't fail, even if my family is gone, they can guarantee their daughter's life. They get involved and involve themselves. In the end, not only can they not protect themselves, but they can't guarantee their daughter's future life. For the sake of sons and daughters, they can work hard, but for sons-in-law and daughter-in-law, few people can put themselves in it." Jiang Sheng sighed, this is the reality of human nature. If it's not a blood relationship, who would be so impartial? Even close relatives may not be able to do anything for each other.
"I'm talking about pulling you in, not putting myself in." He Yi felt that Jiang Sheng was changing the concept.
"As I said just now, it's not a catastrophe. I can solve it myself. But it takes a little more effort. He Yi, I'm a man. If I expect to live by nepotism, that's all I'll do in this life. What can I do? I The conditions of my own family and my personal ability are sufficient, and I don't need external force."
Jiang Sheng's tone was very calm, but He Yi vaguely felt that Jiang Sheng had his pride and confidence. She nodded, not bothering with the question.
"He Yi, if you get married, it is definitely better to be of the same family, but not every couple is of the same family. When you meet someone you like, the conditions of the other party are not so bad that they are completely unacceptable. Generally, you will not be obsessed with conditions. When you have no feelings It depends on the conditions, and if you have a relationship, it depends more on the person, whether the two can live happily after being together." He Yi didn't speak, Jiang Sheng continued.
"Just now you said that you would also measure the other party's conditions at the beginning, but now you are talking about feelings." He Yi muttered.
"Yes, as I said, the conditions can't be so bad that it's unacceptable. Are your family's and your own conditions very poor?"
He Yi rolled his eyes.
"What about you? Why do you like me?" Jiang Sheng changed the subject decisively.
"You, people who like you have a lot of money." He Yi snorted coldly.
Jiang Sheng laughed, "It would be better if you really just like people who are stupid and rich."
"What's the meaning?"
"It means if you're really only interested in money, how easy it is