What a? "Jiang Sheng didn't go around and asked directly.
He Yi was stunned for a while, but finally said, "If I say I want to move back to my own home, will it be heartless?"
After He Yi finished speaking, he looked at Jiang Sheng with anticipation and guilt in his eyes.
Although He Yi said before moving here that she would not live with her parents forever, she and her parents have always gotten along very well. Jiang Sheng thought that he could live like this forever. He knew what his parents were thinking, and he always wanted to have three generations under one roof. They only have one son, and Jiang Sheng also wants to fulfill his parents.
Every day when Father Jiang came back, the first thing he did was to hold the child, unless the child fell asleep. If the child is awake, as long as Jiang's father is at home, he must hold the child to play. If you go back to your own home, it is impossible for parents to see their children every day.
But He Yi wants to go back, although he can persuade her to continue living, but Jiang Sheng also knows that if He Yi lives here unwillingly, it will easily ruin the relationship.
Jiang Sheng didn't speak, He Yi was a little nervous. Although it was agreed at the beginning that she would not stay for a long time, Jiang's parents really treated her very well. He Yi felt guilty about moving back home. Now that Jiang Sheng didn't speak, He Yi felt even more uncomfortable, and was a little angry. He felt that he was wrong but he also blamed Jiang Sheng.
Jiang Sheng was silent for a while and then smiled, "It's best if you go back. My parents have lost an ancestor to serve them. They have time to do their own things."
He Yi breathed a sigh of relief, "I also know that this is not good. If we go back, your parents won't be able to see the baby every day. But I still want to go back."
"Okay, don't add drama to yourself. Everyone lives at their own pace."
"Am I very heartless, your parents are so kind to me." He Yi lowered his head.
Jiang Sheng laughed, "You also know that my parents are very kind to you. But you still want to leave, so what should you do? Then go back."
"Jiang Sheng." He Yi didn't know what to say.
"As a human being, don't put too much shackles on yourself. You want to live by yourself, but you also want to live up to my parents. How can there be such a good thing. Since you have chosen, don't think too much."
"Oh." He Yi nodded sullenly.
Jiang Sheng cheered up and comforted his wife, "Okay, you said at the beginning that you would not live permanently, and you didn't lie to them. Now it's time to move back to your own home, they can understand."
"Then what about your parents?"
"Cold salad."
"Jiang Sheng."
"Honey, don't burden yourself, and don't regret it if you choose. You obviously choose but you add some moral guilt to yourself. Life is so tiring." Jiang Sheng stretched out his hand and hugged He Yi in his arms.
He Yi hugged him too, and didn't speak any more.
Jiang Sheng went to his parents' room, "Mom and Dad, we are going to move back."
Jiang's parents froze for a moment, "I'm going back so soon."
Father Jiang's voice was full of reluctance, and Jiang Sheng was cruel, "We don't live far away, and parents can go there anytime they want to see their children."
No matter how close you are, can it be the same as living together? But Mother Jiang nodded, "Well, then you go back."
"Next month is Dad's birthday. We will move back after Dad's birthday."
Jiang's parents smiled, "Alright."
Jiang Sheng went back to the room, "It's agreed, I will move back after my dad's birthday next month."
"They didn't say anything, did they?" He Yi was a little worried.
"Nothing. They were more relaxed when we got back."
He Yi pulled out a smiling face.
Jiang Sheng sighed, pinched her face, "Okay, don't wrinkle your face."
He Yi glanced at him and said nothing.
The next day, Jiang's parents treated He Yi as usual, but He Yi felt uncomfortable. Father Jiang smiled, "Okay, don't make it look like you're sorry for us. We don't live far away, so you don't think we're bothering you when we pass by in the future."
"How come, parents can go there every day." He Yi said hastily.
"Xiao Yi, don't feel burdened if you choose. There is no right or wrong in this matter. There is nothing to be sorry for us two old guys. Nowadays, young people generally don't like to live with their elders. Parents can understand .” Instead, Father Jiang enlightened He Yi.
"I don't dislike living with you." He Yi whispered.
Jiang's father smiled, "Okay, you guys still remember to wait until my birthday is over before moving back. You are already very interested."
He Yi smiled.
"After you go to work, you still want us to help you take care of the children. You are moving back now because you feel sorry for your parents. Let us rest for two years." Mother Jiang joked.
He Yi was taken aback, but couldn't help laughing, "Mom."
"Okay, it's not bad for you to go back and live the life of a family of three. When Jiang Sheng was young, we didn't have much experience of living as a family of three. We can't let our baby also have this experience."
"That's right, my parents don't mind if we move back, so don't add drama to yourself." Jiang Sheng also interjected.
He Yi sighed inwardly, she was really selfish, but she did not change her determination to move back in the end.
On Jiang's father's birthday, a photographer was invited to take a family portrait. The next day Jiang Sheng took his wife and children back to his home.
When Jiang's parents were there, many people took Jiang Xiaobao with them. Now in my own home, only He Yi and Yuesao, Jiang Sheng will only help take care of the children after get off work at night. The auntie who cooks and cleans will go back to the other house after she's done her own thing, not here. Compared with the liveliness of the Jiang family's parents, my own home is obviously much deserted.
He Yi couldn't help but wonder whether it would be better to live with her parents or to live alone? She doesn't know the answer either. But she finally moved back, and it was absolutely impossible for her to live with her in-laws again.
He Yi brought the child back to his own home, and Jiang's parents wanted to see the child, so they called He Yi before coming and asked if she was at home, it would be inconvenient. He Yi said they didn't come until they were home.
After the Jiang family’s parents came, He Yi gave them two keys, “Mom and Dad, you can come here if you want to, I don’t care if I’m at home or not. If we’re not at home, you can sit down for a while when you get here. I’m usually in the community Walk around and be back soon."
Jiang's parents looked at each other, He Yi and Jiang Sheng didn't come over after they got married, and they didn't want to disturb their life, so as not to be annoying. So they didn't have their keys at all, and they didn't even think about taking their keys.
The Jiang family's parents' social circle is very particular about etiquette. When going to someone's house, they must call in advance to make an appointment, and they will only go there after making an appointment with the other party. It is absolutely impossible to go directly without an appointment.
Jiang's parents didn't answer the call, He Yi continued: "Mom and Dad, do you still have to call to make an appointment every time you come to your son's house like outsiders?"
"We are afraid that we will disturb you." Mother Jiang finally spoke.
"What's bothering you, as long as you don't think I'm too casual."
"Okay, then we'll take it." Mother Jiang smiled and took the key from He Yi's hand.
"The second bedroom is for parents. If parents are tired, they can go there to rest." He Yi pointed to the guest bedroom.
"Okay." Jiang's parents nodded with a smile.
At this time the child woke up, He Yi carried the child out, and Father Jiang took it to play with the child. He Yi took out his mobile phone and began to scan it, chatting with others or browsing the web. Although she was sitting on the sofa, she didn't look at Jiang's parents and children at all.
Jiang's parents felt that there was no difference between Jiang Sheng's side and their own. It was the first time for He Yi and Jiang Sheng to come here after their marriage. At first, they felt that they should be more careful in other people's homes, but now they feel like He Yi said, why should they behave like guests in their son's home.
The Jiang family's parents teased the children, and chatted with He Yi casually. Everyone feels quite at ease. No one feels like having guests at home, or being in someone else's home. We get along naturally.
When Jiang Sheng came back, he saw Jiang's father playing with toys in the living room with the child, but Jiang's mother He Yi disappeared.
"Dad, why are you alone?" Jiang Sheng wondered.
"Your mother is taking a nap in the room, and your daughter-in-law may be taking a nap too." Father Jiang didn't even look up.
"Why did she let you take care of the baby alone." Jiang Sheng frowned.
"What's the matter, dad can't take care of your son alone?" Father Jiang finally looked back at him.
"No, why doesn't she come out to say hello, how can I let you watch the child alone." Jiang Sheng said and walked over to tease the child with Jiang's father. The child saw his father rushing straight into his arms, and Jiang Sheng quickly took him.
Father Jiang smiled, "Your wife doesn't treat us as outsiders, but you treat your parents as guests."
Jiang Sheng was taken aback for a moment, then smiled, "You and her get on pretty well."
"Dad, go and have a rest. I'll watch him."
"Well, I'll go to the room to rest for a while, he's been playing for so long, it's almost time for him to sleep."
Jiang Sheng went back to the room, He Yi was sleeping soundly. The child was tired after playing for so long, and fell asleep in his father's arms after a while. Jiang Sheng put the child beside He Yi, and lay down for a while to rest himself.
After waking up from a nap, Jiang's father held the child and played chess with Jiang Sheng. Jiang Xiaobao waved his small hand to grab the chess pieces, drooling happily.
From then on, the Jiang family's parents would come over to see the child at least every other day, and they would call to confirm the first few times, and after a few times, it was no longer such a trouble, and they came directly if they wanted to. Although He Yi moved back with the child, Jiang's parents saw the child quite often.
Jiang Sheng was not at home on a business trip, so He Yi took the children to live with Jiang's parents or Jiang's parents came to live here for a few days. Sometimes Jiang Sheng would take his wife and children to live at his parents' house for a few days in Shanghai. Although it is not every day that three generations live under the same roof, such days are not uncommon.
Because He Yi is not there, they have more time for themselves. After a long time, Jiang's parents also thought it was good.
Chapter 77