replied.
He Yi rolled his eyes at him.
"At that time, I immediately felt that I was too fussy. I felt very satisfied when you were willing to come to Shanghai. But after you got married, you demanded more and more, and now you actually get angry because you spend more time on your children. Compete with you. I don't know your occasional melancholy, but I just want you to take the initiative to spend more time and energy on me, so I turn a blind eye to your trance." Jiang Sheng continued to confess.
"Hmph, and you said you didn't do it on purpose, you did it on purpose."
Jiang Sheng ignored her interruption, and continued: "After I figured it out, I was taken aback. If we continue like this, you will definitely close the door to me, and we will go to strangers. I regretted it at the time. "
He Yi looked at him and said nothing, feeling sore in his heart.
"Last weekend you went to take care of the children, and I was at home alone. I knew at that time that I couldn't be the only one in this family. Only you and the children are here. This is a real home."
"You are sick, so you are so sentimental?" He Yi smiled.
Jiang Sheng shook his head, "It was only when I was sick that I realized that without you and the child, this family would be gone."
"You can remarry and have children." He Yi's tone was very flat.
"All I want is you." Jiang Sheng finished speaking and looked at He Yi.
He Yi just smiled and didn't answer.
"I played with my child that day. I wanted to find a reason for the baby to call you, but before I called you, you came over by yourself. I almost cried with joy."
"Is it so exaggerated? You are crying with joy." He Yi pouted.
"Almost, I took the initiative to improve our relationship, but you also have the same idea. Can I be unhappy?"
He Yi took the initiative to kiss him.
"Let's talk to each other when we have something to do in the future, don't take things to heart and cause unnecessary estrangement, okay?" Jiang Sheng said while kissing He Yi.
"Ok."
"You have something to tell me, even if you think I don't love you, tell me, don't think about it yourself, okay?"
"You don't love me anymore, why should I tell you?" He Yi muttered.
"Even if you think I don't love you anymore, you have to confirm it from me before you give up. If you don't even confirm it, it's not fair to me."
The corners of He Yi's mouth twitched, she didn't love her anymore, she needed to confirm.
"Are you okay?" Jiang Sheng reconfirmed.
He Yi could only nod his head, Jiang Sheng smiled and continued to move.
He Yi no longer only cares about Weibo and WeChat, even if he does, he is with Jiang Shengzi, and he no longer locks himself in the room. He Yi thinks that it is completely possible to play with the mobile phone and accompany the children at the same time.
Jiang Sheng didn't say anything at first, but after a few times he was dissatisfied again, "Don't play with the phone in front of the baby, he always comes to your side, but also to play with it. Mobile phones are not good for children's eyes."
"Then won't you also answer the phone?" He Yi was also dissatisfied.
"I just answered the phone, when did I play with my phone in front of my children."
He Yi snorted and finally put away the phone. Either watch the father and son play the game, or participate in it with them.
At night, the two of them coax the child to sleep together. After the child is put to sleep, they will chat for a while, talk about their respective day's affairs, and the arrangements for the past few days. Gradually, He Yi felt that the wall between him and Jiang Sheng disappeared, and the two returned to their previous intimacy.
Chapter 80
There are some precious decorations in both his own home and Jiang's parents. When there was no child, He Yi didn't feel anything, just put it there. Jiang Xiaobao is a little over one year old now, and he likes to touch here and make trouble there. He Yi couldn't help worrying about whether he would touch those valuables.
"Why don't we put these things away." He Yi pointed to a decoration and discussed with Jiang Sheng.
"What's wrong? You don't like it?" Jiang Sheng was surprised.
"No, I'm afraid your son accidentally broke it."
Jiang Sheng laughed, "If you break it, it will be broken."
"Jiang Sheng." He Yi was angry.
"Are you trying to say that I burn too much money?" Jiang Sheng teased her.
"Oh, that means you admit that you are a fool and have a lot of money?" He Yi was annoyed.
Jiang Sheng stretched out his hand to hold He Yi's hand, "I have always held the view that I can live a life on whatever condition. There is no need to deliberately pretend to be poor, and there is no need to slap a swollen face to pretend to be fat."
"I don't mean to pretend to be poor on purpose, I mean to put it away for the time being, and put it out later when the child is older."
Jiang Sheng laughed, "A little bigger? How old is he? He is only over one year old now. Although he likes to run around the house, he is so old, what can he get? When he is two or three years old, he can climb up and down. There are many things that can be obtained. It will be more noisy when he is four or five years old, and the dog will hate it when he is seven or eight years old. Do we have to wait until he is an adult before taking it out? In a few years, he will have children. stand up?"
"After all, you just refuse to accept it?"
"I don't think it's necessary. This is the condition of our family. These ornaments are things our family can afford. Even if the child breaks it, it's okay. If he breaks one or two, can he break each of them? And Children also have aesthetics, and long-term use of some inferior products is not good for children."
He Yi glanced at him and didn't speak, the expression on his face clearly disagreed.
"The child lives in whatever family he is born in. If he can afford these things, he should use them. Because the things are more expensive and he is young, he will use poor ones. This is not good for the child. What will he see one day? Good things will feel more rare. Children who grow up in this way will be more timid and petty. Only when they are used to these things, they will not take them seriously."
"As for the value of things, a child knows what value is. He only knows whether it looks good or not. There is no need to overemphasize how valuable an item is to a child. Such a young child does not need to know whether it is worth money or not. He only needs to know whether it is good-looking or not. , It doesn’t matter if he likes it or not. Don’t overemphasize the concept of money when the child is young, it will mislead his values.”
"He Yi, I don't want my children's first reaction when they see things is whether they are worth money or not. There are many things in this world that are more important than money."
"You are rich now, so even if you break something, you won't feel bad. But life has ups and downs, can you guarantee that you will have money all your life?" He Yi retorted.
Jiang Sheng couldn't help laughing, "I'm not that arrogant, and I can guarantee that I will be at the top of the pyramid all my life. As you said, life's ups and downs are normal."
"Then what do you do when you have no money?"
"Without money, there is a way to live without money. If the parents' economic conditions decline, the child's life will definitely be affected. When I have money, my child will live a rich life, and if I have no money, I will live an ordinary life. Since he is my child, these The matter should be borne by him. He Yi, I really don't understand the thinking of some people nowadays, for example, how much money must be saved to get married and have children. It seems that the child has been wronged if there is no such condition. But whose family Is the child a fairy descending to the mortal world? Can't be wronged a little?"
"Even if he saves enough for the conditions he requires, does a person always go uphill all his life? When he goes downhill, he can no longer provide the child with the current life. Does he want to stuff the child back in his stomach and not let the child Are you going to suffer with him?"
He Yi could not refute.
"Parents provide their children with whatever conditions they need. Everyone has to experience peaks and valleys in life. If my child can only live a stable and prosperous life without being wronged, then I will only feel that I have raised him and abandoned him." .This kind of person can't do anything in this life. If I only have ordinary conditions and I try to give him a good life, I won't feel that I have wronged my child. But if I clearly have conditions, but I don't give him a good life. I feel that I have wronged my child because of the living environment. If you want to put away all those decorations, you are depriving my child of the right to appreciate beautiful things." Jiang Sheng finished speaking calmly, but He Yi felt that There was disapproval of her in Jiang Sheng's calm tone.
"It's like you usually wear ordinary clothes, you don't think it's nothing, but have you ever thought about what others think of you? They will think that I don't value you, and I am reluctant to spend money on you. They will feel that you have no status at home, and even buy You can't let things go as you like. You can't let go in social situations, because you feel that everyone treats you politely and doesn't take you seriously. But you really can't blame them for this. Who would let go of a person who has no status at home? In your eyes? Especially when they are not familiar with you. At the stage of unfamiliarity, judging a person is based on their clothes and conversation."
"When I was with you, I wore top-tier brands." He Yi retorted.
"It's true that you and I are dressed in a social place, but your daily clothes are very ordinary. People are looking at daily life, and that kind of special occasion doesn't mean much. What people look at is whether you have status at home in daily life. Think about it when we usually go out to eat together and meet my relatives and friends, what were you wearing at that time?"
"Hmph, you want to say that your friends are all snobs?"
"What does this have to do with snobbery? What do people look at when they are not familiar with clothes? Who can see your soul at a glance?"
"Didn't you say that your friends laughed at your strict wife?"
Jiang Sheng was speechless, "Honey, this is a kind of ridicule."
He Yi rolled his eyes at him.
Jiang Sheng reached out and hugged her in his arms, "You are worried that we will be separated someday, so you dare not change your spending habits, are you?"
He Yi didn't speak.
"He Yi, I'll wait for you, until you can trust me wholeheartedly."
"It's not that I haven't changed at all, I'm much more generous when buying things than before." He Yi muttered.
"Well, you can