Talking and laughing together, we came to the fast food restaurant, the small shop was still bustling, the three of them lined up to finish ordering, took their menu cards and sat down.
"Another hot and sour cabbage?"
After Qin Guanglin sat down, he asked Sun Wen curiously, "Could it be reunited?"
I just got my salary and caught up with the breakup. I should be very rich. Why did I eat meat for a day
Unlike his character.
"No, what's the deal." Sun Wen grinned, glanced at the menu on the wall, "Save money."
"That's not so difficult, it's not even oily." Qin Guanglin was a little disbelieving, "I think you have a demonic disease."
Last month, he was too irritable because of eating Chinese cabbage, but now he took the initiative to order it. He reckoned that there must be something wrong.
But since Sun Wen didn't want to talk about it, he didn't ask any more questions, got up and brought three bottles of Coke over, "Here, do you want a straw?"
"No, bitch chirping."
Sun Wen pried the glass bottle of Coke with his chopsticks like opening beer. There was no bang, only the sound of running out of gas. He threw the lid aside in disappointment and took a few sips.
"Have you ever blushed with your girlfriend?" Sun Wen asked while playing with the Coke bottle.
I remember that during a quarrel, he asked Qin Guanglin how to coax him, and Qin Guanglin said that he had never quarreled.
"Red face?"
Qin Guanglin was stunned, and laughed, "How can I be red... She is the red one, she would blush even if she held hands at that time, and she would get red easily if she talked or teased her."
"..." Sun Wen was speechless, "When I said red face, I meant to quarrel."
"Oh, no."
"Not once?" Sun Wen stopped his hands, "Think about it carefully."
"Not once." Qin Guanglin shook his head without even thinking about it.
"how did you do that?"
"Maybe, maybe, maybe..." Qin Guanglin pondered for a moment, then looked up at Sun Wen: "Why are you arguing?"
Sun Wen was stunned.
Why
"No matter what a person does, there must be a reason and purpose, and the same is true for quarrels." Qin Guanglin tapped his index finger on the table and continued to think, "What about you? Why are you arguing?"
"How would I know?!" Sun Wen frowned, "Didn't I tell you yesterday? Why do you think so?"
"Um… "
Qin Guanglin fell into deep thought.
Indeed, there is no reason for that.
Because he hesitated between slightly spicy and medium spicy, he quarreled so much that he broke up
Although there are reasons such as accumulated dissatisfaction before, no matter how you think about it, such a trivial matter as the degree of spiciness should not be the trigger.
"The starting point of the quarrel should be dissatisfaction, dissatisfaction with certain behaviors or habits of the other party." Yu Le pushed up his glasses and looked at the two, "The purpose of the quarrel should be to want the other party to correct it."
"Dissatisfaction and correction." Qin Guanglin thought for a while, then nodded affirmatively at Yu Le, "That's right, it should be like this."
"But if you have something to say, can't you say it well?" Yu Le asked a single dog question.
Qin Guanglin also looked at Sun Wen, "Yes, can't you talk about it?"
"..."
Sun Wen shook the Coke bottle and didn't speak, he was also thinking.
"What if, I mean what if." He said after thinking for a while, "If your girlfriend was arguing with you over dinner, and you sat where I was at that time, what would you do?"
"Me?" Qin Guanglin frowned and thought for a moment, then shook his head and said, "No, she won't be angry because of this kind of thing."
The two have been tolerant of each other. At first He Wu cooked or ordered according to his taste, and later he also tried spicy food according to He Wu's taste.
There's nothing wrong with this kind of thing.
"I told you it's a hypothetical!" Sun Wen was furious, "Of course I know it won't be true. If I pick out a hundred couples, ninety-eight of them won't quarrel over this nonsense."
"Oh, what if..."
Qin Guanglin looked up and thought carefully.
If Teacher He got angry at him inexplicably, threw his chopsticks and left, then he must have chased after him to ask the reason.
Because she didn't notice that she sneezed... This reason is too ridiculous, there must be a real reason.
for example…
"Oh." Qin Guanglin suddenly sighed.
"What?" Sun Wen asked.
"I will make the same choice as you, finish the hot pot by myself, pack up and go home, and then..."
He hesitated for a moment, and continued: "Then we can talk about it, if it doesn't work, we will divide..."
When Qin Guanglin said this, he couldn't help but think of that scene, but he insisted on not saying the last handwriting.
If you think about it now, you will definitely not be able to bear it by then.
"Why?" Sun Wen licked his lips, "You are just assuming that this time, I have gone through countless times before making up my mind to break up."
"Because there is no love anymore." Qin Guanglin looked at him sympathetically, "The reason why this kind of thing happened is because there is no love anymore."
"..."
"Arguing for the sake of arguing, it's better to let her go." He paused, seeing Sun Wen's dazed expression, he was a little embarrassed, and then continued after a moment of silence: "The two of you are together because of feelings. It doesn't make any sense to be together, it will only become more and more sad, and if you let her go... at least one person will feel better."
At least one person will be better off, and that person is not Sun Wen, nor will it be him.
Sun Wen's lips moved twice, but he didn't speak.
After a long time, he shook his head when the meal was brought to the table by the waiter, "No."
"What's wrong?"
"There are still feelings." Sun Wen stared straight at the hot and sour cabbage in front of him, "Will you quarrel with a stranger?" After he finished speaking, he looked at Qin Guanglin and then at Yu Le, "Would you?"
"...I don't think so." Yu Le couldn't turn his head around.
"Just like what you said just now, the quarrel is due to dissatisfaction, and the purpose is to ask the other party to correct it." Sun Wen seemed to have figured it out, "That's right, really, I understand."
"Of course I won't quarrel with strangers, because strangers have nothing to do with me." Qin Guanglin felt that he was cornered, "What do you understand?"
"I understand everything."
Sun Wen heaved a sigh of relief, pulled out the disposable chopsticks and opened them to eat.
There are feelings, otherwise how could we be together in the first place
The quarrel was just because of dissatisfaction, not dissatisfaction that he didn't notice her sneezing, it was just an excuse.
He was so stupid before.
Not only the time of eating hot pot, but also every quarrel in the past half a year, most of them were due to the same reason.
It was so obvious that he only realized it now.
How silly.
"I don't think you really understand." Qin Guanglin clicked his tongue, "You don't want to chase her back, do you?"
"Maybe will."
"Do you really want to get back together?" He just asked casually, but he didn't expect Sun Wen to really have such an idea.
It's already like this, do you still want to get back together
Sure enough, love blinds.
"Got to try, but not now."
Sun Wen has found the cause of the problem, but he is not yet able to solve it.
Money is at the root of most problems.
(end of this chapter)