Marriage is a matter of two people, but not a matter of two people.
Some people can take it as a personal matter, regardless of the opinions of friends or parents, they are just references, and cannot influence their own decisions. Whether it's unfortunate or not, I will bear all the consequences on my own, and I will not blame others, nor will I shift the responsibility to the other party. If I have to blame, I will only blame myself for being blind at the beginning.
Some people regard it as a matter of two people. Two mature people rely on each other and live their own lives behind closed doors. A quarrel is just an internal conflict between two people. No matter what others say or how they look at it, whether they are poor or rich I don't care too much about whether the door is inappropriate, whether the household is right or not, even if family and friends agree to oppose it, anyway, the two of them agree with each other, like a person who knows whether drinking water is warm or not.
But more often, marriage is a matter of three families. The people in the two families are separated to form a new small family. The three families can be regarded as a big family. Your relatives are my relatives, and my relatives are also you. Relatives, it’s hard to separate them. It’s okay if they are happy and harmonious. If the relationship between the three families cannot be balanced, the mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, and husband-in-law cannot accept and tolerate each other. For the sake of the family, there are constant quarrels. The two people are caught in the middle, and the relationship will be broken. It's hard to maintain.
Apart from love, there is life in marriage.
Qin Guanglin thought a lot, thought a lot, but he never thought that He Wu would have this reaction.
"Seeing that my father-in-law is not married, let my dad get to know you earlier, so that you won't be too old to think about it, and I will give you a reassurance."
He might as well see him standing there in a daze, and finally couldn't help laughing, but didn't tease him anymore.
The more she cared, the more she would think about it. She knew that Qin Guanglin suddenly wanted to retreat at the door, not because he didn't like it enough, but because he paid too much attention to it.
Afraid that her family would not like him.
"I didn't think about it so much before, so I urged you. Now that I think about it, it's not appropriate to meet too early..." Qin Guanglin looked up at her, and said softly: "My mother likes you, this is a good start, I don't want to be with you There is no problem at home, and I don’t want to cause any conflicts between you and your family because of me.
Your father and your brother dote on you very much, think about it differently, if my daughter just graduated and dragged a guy who wants nothing but nothing and said this is her boyfriend, I would definitely have to... "
"What are you sure about?" He Wei sat on the sofa and listened with a smile. Seeing him standing there, he asked aloud.
"I have to twist his head off." Qin Guanglin shrugged and smiled.
"Hehehe, are you afraid?" She leaned forward and said triumphantly: "It's useless to be afraid, you have to go if you unscrew it, who told you to push other people's cabbage."
"If I tell them that you actually cheated on me, will they believe it?"
"Bah, shameless, who beat you up." He Wei pursed his lips and moaned, "Hurry up and cook properly."
Qin Guanglin turned around with a smile and continued chopping vegetables. He didn't want to entangle with her about who would support whom. Anyway, the two of them were on good terms.
"Really, I think it's better to go later. Why don't I go at the end of the year? Or wait until my job is stabilized. If Sun Wen leaves, it may be an opportunity. I will be the biggest pillar for the company to survive. Let the boss give me a promotion that sounds dignified, and it will save face with your father."
"But I have already told my dad that I will take you back to show them the National Day."
"...can you postpone it?"
"My dad doesn't like to go back on the good things he said the most, so you can show up in the past, don't worry, I'm here."
Why not patted his chest to reassure, then picked up the phone from the table and took a picture of his back, secretly sent it to the family group.
Qin Guanglin talked about going to her house for two or three months. She knew that he really wanted to go, but he was hesitant because he thought too much. No matter what, he had to fulfill his wish during the National Day.
"You are the chief editor of your company now, isn't that enough for you?" She chatted with Qin Guanglin while pressing her mobile phone, "I didn't graduate when I went to your house to meet your mother, and then I asked you to raise two I haven’t been to work for a month, I’m fine, you’re afraid of a ghost.”
"You will please my mother. She is closer to you than to me now. I didn't go back to eat for a week and didn't call me. Instead, I called you over."
Qin Guanglin was a little speechless when he mentioned this matter, he didn't know whether to be depressed or happy.
His girlfriend is liked by his mother, generally speaking, it is still something to be happy about, it is much better than a bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law - but when they get together and whisper together, it always makes him feel a little shivering down the spine, as if there is some conspiracy look.
He might as well hold the phone in his hand, put it aside after replying with a smile, then turned around and lay down on the sofa, stretched his calves comfortably, and said to him: "My dad will like you too, don't worry."
Qin Guanglin didn't respond to the hot oil pan. He was thinking about how to deal with it. There is less than half a month left to face his father-in-law and uncle, so he must be steady.
"Actually, getting married is a matter for the two of us. Why do you think so much? Although you don't have a car or a house, we can make money slowly." Why not look at the ceiling and say, "You are not rich Dai, I am not a rich second generation either, the two of us are rightly matched now, I don’t want to sit back and enjoy the success, I want to accompany you and experience everything with you, no matter what the result is, what we want is the process.”
"I have to let you have a good life." Qin Guanglin replied while frying vegetables.
"I'm living a good life now, very content."
"You're too easy to please."
"Enough is enough. I'm afraid the blessings are too much to bear. It's enough now." He might as well lie on the sofa and look at the back of Qin Guanglin cooking with a shovel, with a touch of tenderness on his face, "Have you seen the little prince?"
"Movie?"
"Book."
"I haven't seen that."
"There is a sentence in it like this: If you come at four o'clock in the afternoon, then from three o'clock, I will start to feel happy, and the closer the time is, the happier I will be. At four o'clock, I will be restless , I'll discover the price of happiness. But if you come anytime, I don't know when to prepare my mood."
She looked up at the ceiling, twirled her fingers around the hair on her shoulders, and asked Qin Guanglin, "Guess what time I started getting ready for my mood?"
"I don't know." Qin Guanglin came out with the fried dishes, leaned over and gave her a mouthful on the forehead, "What time?"
"It's been a whole day since I got on the bus."
"So early?"
"I've been thinking of you since we left."
"I won't be able to stand you talking like that." Qin Guanglin's heartbeat speeded up quietly, he picked up her hand and kissed her hard, then turned and went back to the kitchen to continue cooking, "Whoever taught you these love words, I have to study hard. "
"So you understand?" He Wu asked.
"What?"
"What you said, houses, cars, deposits, prestigious positions...they are not important. As long as we are together, we will have them sooner or later. It doesn't matter if we don't have one. The most important thing is that you are here."
"Don't worry, I'm always here."
(end of this chapter)