Fireworks March, the weather warms up.
The big locust trees in the community began to sprout buds again, heralding the arrival of spring in the new year.
Mother Qin, who didn't meet new friends here, is bored at home every day, without the excitement and joy of having a granddaughter at the beginning. Although she is still happy when she sees the mother and daughter, she is alone every day. Sometimes it's lonely.
Staying with them is not at all comfortable in Beifei Road. The neighbors over there are all talented people, they speak nicely, and they can dance in the square...
"Isn't our mother here quite..." Qin Guanglin accompanied He Wei to bask in the sun on the balcony, and when he turned around to see the lonely silhouette of Qin's mother sitting in the living room, he felt something was wrong.
"No one plays with her. You are too stupid to talk to you. Apart from teasing my granddaughter and chatting with me, there is nothing else to do. Free time."
He Wu had already seen Qin's mother's discomfort, but he couldn't speak up, saying let her go back... as if she was chasing someone away; let her stay, she was too busy to feel at ease, and she wanted to take care of mother and child The two of them, why couldn't they bear to ignore her kindness, and never mentioned it to Qin Guanglin.
Seeing that Qin Guanglin has also noticed it now, it saves trouble, so he simply suggested to him: "She is not comfortable living here, and she is not comfortable alone, why don't you persuade her to go back, or we can go back to Beifei Road to live together. The day is over."
The old man always likes a familiar environment, and she is afraid that the old lady will get sick if she stays here for a long time.
"Okay, let me find a chance to talk to her, it's really boring here... Fortunately, we both like this environment, otherwise it will be boring."
Qin Guanglin immediately understood that Qin's mother was not a quiet person. When she was at home, she would get up early every day and go for a walk outside, watching other people dance and do morning exercises. Sometimes she would join in for a while. Buy a breakfast to go home comfortably.
He was thinking about how to open his mouth to send Qin Ma back. It would definitely not work to take him back to Beifei Road with him. There is nothing to ask for there. Even if he lives for a while, he will have to move a lot of things. In the current situation, it is not suitable to run around. .
When it was time for dinner, Qin Guanglin had finished the meal and hadn't sat down yet, Qin's mother frowned suddenly, her eyes turned around the couple.
"Hey... I found out why you seem to be fat?"
She compared it for a long time, and found the family portrait taken in the hospital from her mobile phone, and put it in front of Qin Guanglin and her son to make gestures...
Whoops!
I didn't feel anything when we got along day and night this day. Compared with the photos from three months ago, Qin Guanglin's whole body has gained a lot of weight, so it's not a big change.
"It seems that she has gained a lot of weight..." He Wu swallowed a mouthful of saliva. In the past few months, she always felt that something had been missed by her, and now she realized it.
This guy gained weight in a short period of time after having a daughter, and then got out of hand!
"What are you afraid of? It's not like exercising all the time, and then you will rebound after a period of rest... It's normal and normal. After a few days to exercise again, you will lose weight again."
Qin Guanglin.plus doesn't care at all, if he is fat, he will be fat. Anyway, now his wife is fine and his daughter is born, so why not make him fatter
"No, you have to start exercising today, and you won't be able to do it in another two months!" He Wu pursed her mouth, showing reluctance, she didn't like being pressed down by a fat man.
What a miscalculation.
After being pregnant for three years, she couldn't go out to exercise at home, and she still had to feed him soup, which was really stupid.
"Yes, exercise! Why don't you get fat, you get fat first, that..." Mother Qin looked around, pointed to the big box with diapers in the corner, and said, "Starting today, you carry it downstairs every day for five days. ... No, ten times, one time at noon and one time at night, it must be reduced."
"...Don't worry about it, anyway, as long as I can reduce it, I can carry any suitcase."
Qin Guanglin would not accept such a stupid proposal. He ate two mouthfuls of food with a bowl in his hand and said, "diet and exercise. It's a two-pronged approach. In fact, there's nothing wrong with being fat, and it's more deterrent. I'll shave my head again..."
"You want a fart deterrent, who are you going to fight with?"
"..."
What happened in Hecheng left a deep impression on Qin Guanglin. The first time he went to the father-in-law's house, he was opened by someone, and he still remembered it for a few years. Qin's mother didn't know about it, and he didn't want to talk about it, so why not smile at him , turned to Qin Ma and said, "If there is a brat who dares to bully my daughter in the future, see if I won't screw his head off."
Deterrence is not used to intimidate others, but to protect yourself and your family from harm.
"..."
Qin's mother opened her mouth, then remembered the news she had seen, and didn't make a sound.
Having a father who seems to be able to twist people's heads off is really good for little Anya in the future.
He might as well purse his lips and smile, "Send her to Zhou Nan to learn, and no one can bully her."
"no!"
Qin Guanglin immediately objected, there is still a stinky boy over there, is it right
"We'll wait until she grows up. She's only a little old now. When she just learns to turn over, she thinks about what to eat and what to eat."
An ancient martial arts movie was playing on the TV, and the sound of crackling and fighting came out. The three of them gathered around a table and chatted and had dinner. Little Anya was sitting in the baby carriage, chewing on her fingers, and the small bell on her wrist rang softly from time to time. .
After the meal, Qin Guanglin packed up the dishes and went to the kitchen to wash them, wiped his hands and came out to discuss with Qin's mother about going back.
"The two of them are fine now, and don't need to take care of them. I think you are panicking here, or..."
"Is this going to drive me away?!"
"Hey, where is it... If you didn't sit on the sofa and stare at the TV every day, would I—"
"Then talk to me more." Qin Ma didn't want to admit that she wanted to go back and thought about it for a long time, so she raised an argument.
This is the most difficult thing to deal with. Why don't you want her to go back, but you are afraid that you will drive someone away; Qin's mother wants to go back, so why not think that she is tired of serving and hides.
Qin Guanglin had to step forward and take the blame on both sides—the nominal one.
Anyway, as long as everyone is comfortable, Qin Guanglin doesn't care about the mess. It's hard for a husband to be caught between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, especially when mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are at odds. His family is harmonious, and this is not difficult. He grinned and said: "When I was not with He Wu, our mother and I have lived for more than 20 years, how can there be so much to talk about, don't I always draw in the studio?"
Qin's mother had nothing to say. When the two of them lived in their own house, they used to say a few words every day during meals.
"I can take care of the two of them, you don't have to work so hard... It's time to enjoy the life you want. If you don't have the money, tell me, really, we can all see that you are not as comfortable and happy here as you are at home, No peers to talk to or anything—
Now you live how you want, you don’t have to worry so much, come here as you are happy, don’t be tied here to serve your daughter-in-law and granddaughter... If you miss her, come and see, we can go there if we have nothing to do, there is no need to stay here, wait for someday If you feel that you don't want to live there anymore, or you are too lazy to move by yourself, I will take you over to enjoy the blessing.
Now the two of them still need someone to take care of them here, it's enough for me to be here alone..."
Qin Guanglin didn't hide it. There is no need to engage in such hypocritical things between mother and child. If Qin's mother said now that she wanted to take care of the elderly, he could serve three women every day. When his daughter was older, why not take care of the elderly with him , but it is obvious that Mother Qin's heart is not here, she is just being led by her granddaughter.
Who would love to serve their daughter-in-law if they could live happily ever after
"You guys..."
Qin's mother was puzzled, other people's families wished that the old man would take care of her every day, if she didn't come over, she would be picked on behind her back: the daughter-in-law would hide and not take care of the child after giving birth...
This kind of thing accounts for a lot of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Some pregnant women can remember their attitude towards their mother-in-law when they give birth.
How come here is completely different, really times have changed
"Then if I go back, you have to take good care of my granddaughter."
"Do not worry."
(end of this chapter)