Pan'er was still sorting out his speech, but Wanrong spoke.
"Mother, in fact, I blame my daughter for this matter. My daughter was too proud for a while, so she said that. She knows that the third sister usually likes to care about these things, but she forgot."
Pan'er couldn't hold back, and rubbed her daughter's little head with a smile: "How can you complain about Wanrong? Wanrong is still young, it's normal to say wrong things and do wrong things, but if you can understand that you are wrong, it means that you are not wrong. Miscalculated. Do you know what you did wrong?"
Wanrong was a little stunned, she thought that her mother said she was wrong just casually, but she didn't expect that her mother really thought she was wrong.
"daughter… "
Pan'er patted her on the shoulder, and slowed down her voice: "You see, since you know that Wanchan is a caring person, but you still say that in front of her, mother knows that you are a slip of the tongue, after all, everything People always get carried away for a while. Do you know why she is so angry and thinks you are trying to stab Wanmei?"
"Because I have it, Fourth Sister doesn't." When she said this, Wanrong was extremely hesitant, as if she was sure but also uncertain.
Pan'er nodded appreciatively: "Yes, because you have some, but she doesn't. People are jealous, you see that you built the yard because your father promised to give it to your mother, and it is also because of your father's preference for you, but the same They are both daughters, and if the father favors you, it is inevitable that he will neglect others. If you are a concubine, would you be angry and sad today when you see that the father gave others what you don't have?"
Wanrong thought for a while and said, "My daughter will definitely."
Probably because Pan'er's example was too serious, Wanrong seemed to think too much, she seemed to be particularly unable to accept that her father treated others better than herself, her face turned red, and she looked like she wanted to cry.
"You can't stand it just as a possibility, let alone someone else."
Wan Rong lowered her head: "My daughter knows she was wrong, so she will apologize to the third and fourth sisters tomorrow."
Pan'er smiled, and stroked her little head again: "Mother gave you an example, not to ask you to apologize, but to tell you that people are divided into ranks, and some things are incomparable and incomparable. Yes, it's like looking at those maids and eunuchs in the palace, why do they have to serve others as slaves, while you can enjoy their service from above?"
"That's because I am the daughter of my father, whether my father is a crown prince or an emperor, and my daughter is born with golden branches and jade leaves." The Wanwan replied very quickly and with a very certain tone.
Pan'er found it difficult to talk to Wanrong, this child is too good at changing the subject, but she was right in saying so. Just because she came from a humble background and didn't have the idea of Wanrong, she shouldn't be considered wrong.
Bloodlines and births restrict everything about people by nature. Some people are born with bran swallowed vegetables, and some are born with a golden spoon in their mouth. You don't want to let yourself live an agitated and cynical life, so you can only keep a peaceful heart, and then work hard to fight for it with your own hands.
I am lucky to get it, not to be my fate, neither humble nor arrogant, neither angry nor complaining.
"This is similar to what my mother said, but some people have some things, and some people are destined not to have them. Is it wrong for those who have all these things?"
Wanrong hesitated for a moment, then shook her head.
"But what if those who don't are jealous of those who have?"
"Stay away from her."
Pan'er felt that her daughter had gotten into the mood, nodded and said: "This kind of thinking is correct. The son of a daughter can't sit still. Jealousy is a human emotion. Sometimes she can't control it, let alone an outsider. You don't want to be hurt or the other person's jealous emotions, so it's okay to stay away from this kind of person. But what if you can't stay away from her?"
"Why can't I stay away? If I don't like her, I just stay away from her." Wanrong asked.
"For example, you don't like Wanchan, but she is your third sister in name, and she is also your father's daughter. You live in the same place, and you study in the same place. Occasionally, you have to attend family banquets. Sometimes it is inevitable that we will encounter each other, so what should we do?"
"Mother means that the daughter should hide what she has but what she doesn't have?" Wanrong is very good at drawing inferences from one instance to another.
"Mother doesn't mean that, it's just... When people get along with each other, if you don't want to cause conflicts and make each other unhappy, you can hide your clumsiness occasionally. But you also said before that you are the daughter of the emperor." , born with golden branches and jade leaves, you don't have to give in to others. How you deal with things at this time depends on the situation. And the one thing that never changes is to keep your heart."
"Keep your heart?"
"Yes, if you think you are right, but the other party reacted too much, then no matter what she said, you are right. If this is the case, why should you be sad? In the same way, if you are wrong, ask the other party to apologize That's fine, if she can accept it, it's good, if she can't accept it, don't force it.
"There are always some people in this world who can't get along well with others. If you can't get along well, let it be. The so-called friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. You come and we meet each other. If you don't come, I will not be flattered or humiliated. You are still young, mother." You may not understand some of the words that are occasionally said, but you will gradually understand them in the future."
Wanrong listened while nodding her head, lost in thought.
In fact, Pan'er still has a lot to say to her daughter, but as the saying goes, she can't chew too much, and she can only teach her some things slowly.
"I didn't expect you to be good at teaching your daughter."
A voice came from the door, and Pan'er looked over, only to realize that it was Zong Cong.
Zong Yue and Zong Qian were still by his side. Zong Yue had a weird expression, probably because he was worried about his father not daring to speak out, but he wanted to try his best to hint at his mother. He spoke so seriously that he didn't see it at all.
"Why is Your Majesty here?"
Zong Cong walked in and said, "I thought that I haven't passed the children's homework for many days, so I went back to the East Palace to take a look. I didn't expect to meet you teaching my daughter. What's wrong with Wanrong?"
Wanrong felt quite ashamed to see others, probably because her father knew about the wrong thing she had done, so she blushed in embarrassment and did not speak.
In fact, Zong Cong came a long time ago, when she said that she was a golden branch and a jade leaf. I don't know the details, but I know that it is Wanyu and Wanchan who are having a conflict.
"Actually, it's nothing. It's your fault. You asked the House of Internal Affairs to repair Wanyu's courtyard, but not Wanchan and the others. A girl at this age will inevitably get into trouble over a trivial matter. No, Wanchan is getting into trouble with her." , she feels uncomfortable, you, the father, are not here, and I, the mother, can only sharpen my sword and untie her." Pan'er said with a smile, without hiding it.
Zong Cong couldn't help but feel a little embarrassed, he complained about this matter, did he blame him
But if this matter is serious, he is really biased.
Zong Cong didn't hide it, he probably wanted to coax Wanwang, and said: "This matter is the fault of the father, the father has been busy for a while and didn't care about these things, they are all the daughters of the father, how could the father only give you a child?" Wanxi repaired the yard, but didn't repair it for them, but the emperor forgot to tell them about it. Fulu, you send someone to each princess to inform."
Fulu hurriedly responded and went down to do it.
"Father also repaired it for the elder sister and the others?" Wanrong was not embarrassed now, she leaned forward and asked.
Zong Cong came to the kang and sat down, scratching his daughter's face: "What? Father also repaired it for them, are you unhappy again?"
Wanwei pouted, and said awkwardly: "That's not true."
"It's just that I'm a little jealous in my heart, and feel that I'm not my father's favorite daughter." The mother made trouble at the side.
"Mother—" Wanrong acted coquettishly, and became embarrassed again, "How can you say that about your daughter."
Zong Cong laughed and said, "What a little girl. Well, the emperor promised you that I will give you more good things when the time comes, are you happy?"
"I'm happy." The girl Wanrong didn't hide it.
After finishing talking here, Wanrong got off the kang again to talk to her two younger brothers. Zong Cong thought the children were too noisy and asked them to go to the east room to play.
After the children left, he glanced at Pan'er: "You come to sweep the couch and meet me. If you don't come, I won't be flattered or humiliated? Is this how you deal with me?"
Where is this
Pan'er didn't have a way to deal with it, he smiled and caressed his lapel which had just been wrinkled by Wanrong's coquettish and foolishness: "I am not a child, does your majesty really want me to be a jealous bag in your mouth?" , wandering around the palace with a vat of vinegar all day long."
... These words were a little deep, Zong Cong glanced at her, smiled and said nothing, but pinched her cheek with his hand.
"Little monster." After a while, he said helplessly.
Pan'er glanced at him and stroked his temples: "It's not a little ghost, it's an old ghost, and she's the mother of three children."
"Then you mean I'm an older spirit?"
Pan'er hurriedly covered her face and hid aside: "This is what His Majesty said, not me."
Zong Cong couldn't reach it this time, so he could only look at the ocean and sigh.
Now that I'm here, and it's time for dinner, I must stay for dinner.
Zong Cong hadn't had dinner with Wanrong and the others for a long time, and the children were very happy.
Especially Wanrong, who can't remember what happened before now, talking and laughing with her father, and even showing her father the picture she drew. It was still blocked by the plate, and said to wait until the meal was finished.
After eating, Wanrong's picture has already been brought over and prepared.
She took it to the study and spread it out to her father, mother and younger brothers to look at, and explained to Zong Cong one by one, looking very poised.
Zong Yue said: "Elder Sister's pond is good, Father and Emperor should also repair one for his son."
"I want to, too. I want to raise small fish." When it came to raising fish, Zong Qian naturally would not ignore it.
Zong Cong looked at the children with a smile, and said generously: "Okay, all of them will be repaired." But he couldn't help but think of Zong Duo's cautious look when he was taking the exams for Zong Duo and Zong Yue.
Zong Duo is the eldest son, so he inevitably has high hopes, so he is usually very concerned about his studies.
What surprised him was that Zong Duo was not close to him, even a little strange, especially compared to Yuanyuan's children.
Zong Cong couldn't help but wonder if he was too strict with the children, or if he was negligent. After all, he was busy with important affairs in the court these years, so he inevitably neglected a few children, so naturally he didn't care enough.
Daughters are fine, Zong Cong has always been a loving father in front of several daughters, and he is mostly tolerant, which may be the reason why he rarely sees him, but his sons are treated equally, but Zong Yue can control his own things without restraint , Zong Duo wanted to say something but he hesitated to say something but kept secretive.
Just now he obviously wanted to say something, but Zong Yue was also there.
Zong Cong can't deny that the royal family has many sons and grandchildren, but he has experienced too many of these, and he doesn't want his children to be like this, especially since the children are not very old, it may not be possible to break them.
Naturally, he couldn't help but think of Wanrong's repairing the courtyard again, so after taking a break, Zong Cong rarely sighed to Pan'er: "I still neglected a few children."
Pan'er didn't think much about it, she just thought she was talking about Wanrong.
"The little girls are still young, and they will blush for a bead flower, but it's all for a while, and then it's like nothing. Didn't you promise to repair the yard for them, it's okay, Wanwei It’s just that I was still young, so I didn’t understand the meaning for a while.”
She didn't know that Zong Cong had thought very far, and had already thought about the matter of establishing the crown prince.
It was also mentioned by a minister in the court, but because the Supreme Emperor has not moved the palace, the new emperor has not even settled his own family affairs, and the post-sealing ceremony has not yet been held, so naturally it is impossible to think about it, so there are only a few Several ministers raised a few words, but no one agreed.
But Zong Cong had already considered it.