a farewell
On April 30, 2018, nearly two years after obtaining the certificate, my third master and I finally had a ceremonial wedding.
In fact, I am not a person who cares about the sense of ritual very much, but I always "succumb" and give in to others (parents) with an explanation.
But this kind of surrender also brought a little rebellion. We hosted a banquet for our relatives in our hometown, but only 20 friends who had a good relationship were invited to participate in this wedding in Beijing, and no parents were involved.
Saying it was a wedding, it was more like a home party. I rented a villa in the suburbs of Beijing. My friends helped me arrange the balloon curtains. For the first time, I wore 7cm high heels and swayed down the stairs like a duck. , I didn't even have a word with the third master, and as soon as I opened my mouth, I shed tears.
Our witness is Jin Yu, the editor of the physical book "Disgust". She wrote a long testimonial and is more serious than the two of us who attended the wedding.
she says:
In 2015, I met Xiaobu, who writes novels, and signed her first book. I think she is frank, cute, and sincere. She writes novel and interesting stories. She is a very interesting girl.
After getting acquainted, I know that she has a long-distance boyfriend who has been in a long-distance relationship for many years. Xiaobu calls him "Third Master". She often shows her affection in front of me, and also posts interesting things that happened when she was with the third master to share with readers on Weibo, and you can smell the sweet smell of love through the screen.
They started a long-distance relationship in college. One was in Beijing and the other was in Xiamen. After graduating from college, they thought they could be in the same city. As a result, the third master went to work in Wuhan. In this way, I have been in a long-distance relationship for many years, and until I received a marriage certificate in 2016, I still failed to realize the desire of the same city.
I've always felt that long-distance couples are emotionally intelligent people. They know how to get along with each other, are good at communicating when they encounter problems, can understand each other's emotions, respect and cherish each other. Because I met the right person, the difficult life in a different place became full of expectations.
In 2016, I signed Xiaobu's second book "You Have All I Dislike", she wrote the long-distance relationship with the third master into a book. When the book was published, on the cover of this book, I wrote a copy of this: 10 years of companionship, 6 years of different places, mutual disgust, and deep love to the end. The sun cast a shadow on the wall, and the days are slowly getting old. They went from school uniforms to wedding dresses, and their former best friends became each other's favorite people.
It was an honor to witness their once-in-a-lifetime moment. I wish Xiaobu and Sanye a good relationship for a hundred years, grow old together, and love to the end in this life and this life.
She said it so well, I didn't even know I was such an interesting person.
In fact, we are just two very ordinary people, and our relationship is only a story that is not very profound in the ordinary world. If we can make everyone laugh at it, it will be good.
After we got married, my third master and I still couldn't live together every day for various reasons, but it was much better than when we were in school. At least we could see each other once a week, and we could even take a vacation to travel for a few days.
I don't know how to keep the relationship sweet all the time, but I know that if one day, you meet someone who can do silly things together and be your truest self, everything will be right.
Finally, I hope you can all find your own "little dislike"~
The author has something to say: Dear readers:
I said before that this story will continue to be serialized and will not end.
Slap, slap in the face.
Don't worry, the third master and I are still fine~ We will continue to meet you in the form of Weibo or physical books in our daily life, and this article needs to be marked to end due to the time limit~
I'm very happy to meet you here, and let you know me and the third master.
bow.
Bush.