After spending the weekend with Ms. Meng Xin, Bai Duanduan returned to his busy work. Originally, Monday was the most annoying day for Bai Duanduan, because there was a backlog of work for the weekend, and Monday heralded another boring week of no change.
Unexpectedly, this Monday was different.
As soon as Bai Duanduan entered the office, he saw several female colleagues gathered in the large office area discussing something.
Wang Fangfang's expression was quite excited: "This official account article is so well written. Really, although I am not married and have no children, I can fully understand the helplessness and pain of married women with children when they are marginalized in the workplace, especially The author's previous experience, if I were her instead, it would be... too sad."
Cai Xiao also agreed: "Then I have a deeper understanding than you. Childbirth really wears a toll on professional women. I gave birth to my family's Dianbao two years ago, and my mother helped to take care of it at home. My husband is also very considerate. I also hired a live-in aunt, but there are many things that cannot be faked by others, such as breastfeeding, which can only be done by me as a mother. I have been feeding for a year and a half. During this year and a half, I can hardly do anything. Received a case that required a business trip, the breastfeeding period was over, and the child was very clingy to me. He was still a high-demand baby and had to sleep with me at night, so you see, I have hardly been able to work overtime in the past two years, so the income-generating performance in the past two years has been completely It's a straight decline. Fortunately, Ji Par didn't say anything to me. I have a friend who is in the same situation as me. In the end, he was forced by his boss to resign automatically... Hey... "
"This article is really satisfying!"
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The female colleagues looked at the same hatred, and the discussion was in full swing. Bai Duanduan leaned over curiously: "What happened?"
"It just happened to be here! Did you know that there is still a second season in the case of Guifeng Communications dismissing a pregnant employee that you represented with Ji Par before?"
Bai Duanduan wrinkled, with a blank face: "What?"
Wang Fangfang enthusiastically popularized science and said: "Look, the well-known mother and baby V Qitian Dasheng posted an article this morning, which is about this matter, completely standing on your client Dai Qin! Now the public opinion on Weibo has completely reversed! A lot of netizens who scolded your client came out to apologize, and many people spoke up for Dai Qin!"
Bai Duanduan took out his mobile phone to look at it, and finally understood the ins and outs of the matter.
The vocal blogger Qitian Dasheng is a well-known maternal and child traffic V with 3 million fans on Weibo and 100,000 pushes per WeChat public account. She herself is an ordinary office worker and a mother. In the future, I will do everything for children by myself, and love to share. I have shared her complementary food recipes, invented early education games, and some real experiences of using baby products on the Internet. Mixed with water, objective, fair and true, and very practical, she soon gained a certain reputation in the Baoma circle, and after gaining a certain influence, she did not stop there, but continued to work hard, in addition to pushing educational content every day In addition to the dry goods of baby knowledge, it also began to systematically evaluate some baby products on the market.
Bai Duanduan clicked on this blogger's popular Weibo to share, only to find that it was really familiar, especially a few of them were about the comparison and evaluation of all imported and domestic food supplements on the market, the selection guide for crawling mats, and diapers, The cost-effective introduction and popular recommendations of several well-known baby toy brands have indeed been shared by many friends with children in WeChat Moments.
In addition, this blogger diligently makes various small checks every day, such as whether it is necessary to quit pacifiers, how to buy imported milk powder from overseas, and brand recommendations for children's shoes and clothing... In short, it is fragmentary, but They are all very practical, all-inclusive, with a lot of information, and the blog posts are concise and clear at a glance. Bai Duanduan almost glanced at the other party's Weibo, and he knew why this blogger is so popular.
It's just that this blogger, who usually only shares mother and baby products and baby-raising experience, suddenly commented and took sides with Dai Qin? In her usual Weibo, she obviously never expresses her views on current affairs and social hot spots.
With curiosity, Bai Duanduan clicked on the article that Wang Fangfang and the others called a big block of people's hearts. The title of this article was very eye-catching - "I took the initiative to kill my child with my own hands", long subtitle It is—"The woman who concealed her pregnancy and took sick leave immediately after she became a regular was scolded by the whole network. What about the woman who worked professionally for many years after joining the company and then became pregnant? "
The title made Bai Duanduan a little confused, but the subtitle was easy to understand. Bai Duanduan thought that the blogger wanted to start a new job, whether it was a newcomer or an old man for many years, as long as she was a woman, as long as she was pregnant, the workplace would not be easy This is the starting point, but when she actually clicked on this article, she realized it wasn't.
This article turned out to be Qitian Dasheng's personal experience.
And the beginning of the article dropped a bomb like a thunderbolt—
"On the Internet, I am a big mother and baby V with more than 3 million fans, but in reality, I am just an ordinary woman struggling between work and family from 9 to 5 - an employee of Guifeng Communication, He has worked in the company for six years and is a colleague of the woman who was attacked, Dai Qin."
"I joined Guifeng Telecom after graduating from a bachelor's degree. After working for three years, I became a family. In the second month after finishing the wine, I found out that I was pregnant! The little guy came by accident. It has been two months. In the middle, I Business trips, overtime, and irregular work and rest, but TA is growing strongly. This is good news, but I am not happy at all, because Guifeng Communication has a high proportion of female employees, and the company wants to prevent female employees from getting together. There is a shortage of manpower after pregnancy, so a pregnancy scheduling system has been formulated to arrange the order of pregnancy for female employees according to their service years in the company, age, and length of marriage."
"And according to this form, I have to wait until the third quarter of next year before I can conceive."
"The company doesn't have a clear rule that it is mandatory to abide by this pregnancy sequence, but if you don't follow it, everyone knows that the rest of the female colleagues who are waiting for their turn to get pregnant will exclude you, and the HR department will give you white eyes and talk to you. And your prospects in the company are doomed—because you don’t obey this collective will, the leaders will never consider you for promotion in the future.”
"So I'm scared."
"I chose, voluntarily, to kill my own child."
"So to this day, I don't know the gender of this child at all. Should I use 'she' or 'he', because he is a cowardly and incompetent mother, his bravery is not worth mentioning, his growth has been obliterated, and he has no Fat has time to look at the world before it becomes a dead blood clot."
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"Later, according to the shift schedule, it was my turn to get pregnant. I also got pregnant successfully and gave birth to a daughter. I shared some mother and baby information with everyone every day, and finally became the so-called big V now. My life is happy, and my work is also good. It seems that there is nothing bad about it. It’s just that my heart has never reconciled with myself. I tried not to think about the child I killed in the past until Dai Qin appeared.”
It can be seen that the long-term operation of the official account has enabled the narration of Qitian Dasheng to catch the readers' hearts very well. The straightforward and sharp words make people want to continue reading.
As an employee of Guifeng Communications, and in the same department as Dai Qin, she described the whole incident of Dai Qin in great detail in the article, including the predicament that women face being unable to work once they become pregnant, and the difficulty that the HR manager made against Dai Qin , the ostracism among colleagues, including the reason why Dai Qin desperately wanted to keep the child, as well as Dai Qin's original intention, the initial practice of working overtime to make up for it, and the later physical unbearable situation, the operation of Guifeng Communication's attorney , the final result of the legal negotiation, and even after Dai Qin could not be dismissed according to the law, Guifeng Telecom's lawyer's job transfer and other disgusting operations...everything is detailed.
Qitian Dasheng's writing style is not gorgeous, but it is concise and simple. In just a few strokes, it fully shows the pressure and working atmosphere of pregnant women suffocating in the workplace. They just felt sad, angry and helpless.
She is a witness and an objective third person, so she is more convincing to the readers. Bai Duanduan believes that even if Dai Qin herself clarifies so clearly, the public may not buy it. The mother and baby V who has been quiet for a long time will "reveal" everything, and everything will become more real. What's more, what she shared was indeed true.
"When we were little girls, we all had many, many dreams, to be scientists, to be astronauts, to be teachers... we could be anything we wanted to be. But we grow up, from girls to women, and we have more dreams than we did when we were young. We have more experience and more education, but our road has become narrower and narrower. We have become office workers who are worried about pregnancy, and people who kill their own children in order to get promoted and survive.”
"I killed my child cowardly and incompetently, but I was unanimously praised by my colleagues and the company for this; Dai Qin bravely protected my child, but for this I was besieged by a group of public opinion in the company of my colleagues."
"If the critics said that she suffered this kind of treatment because she was pregnant and took sick leave when she first joined the job, what about me? I have worked diligently in Guifeng Communication for many years, but when it was my turn to get pregnant, I was still beaten by invisible hands. Forced to kill her own child? The society is not tolerant of Dai Qin, so is it tolerant of me? Pregnant women, no matter when, are very difficult. She was wrong in hiding her pregnancy, but Guifeng Communication was right ?"
"Dai Qin made me feel that I was very bad at the beginning, and I was even more sorry for my child. Now that Dai Qin is in the second trimester, even if she suffers from rejection and blind eyes, she has insisted on returning to work. I know that it is the best choice to protect yourself and keep your mouth shut, but I I can no longer be silent, I am a woman and the mother of a little girl, I want to stand up, I want to stand by her side."
An article, from beginning to end, reading it only makes Bai Duanduan feel excited, it is indeed very satisfying!
It can be seen that this Qitian Dasheng was very restrained in his words, including the matter of Dai Qin's dead boyfriend, which was only mentioned lightly, and did not disclose private information. Dai Qin was very protective, but relatively speaking, Gui The attorneys representing Feng Communication and Guifeng Communication were more ruthless. They not only disclosed the name of Li Wanjun, the HR director, and her series of oppressive operations against Dai Qin, but also disclosed the name of Du Xinyi from Zhaohui Law Firm, including her damages. Zhao and early online marketing operations deliberately obscured the fault of Guifeng Communications, and poured all the dirty water on Dai Qin, resulting in the fact that Dai Qin was attacked by human flesh and insulted by the entire network.
The most interesting point is that this Qitian Dasheng specifically mentioned Bai Duanduan who was affected before, and quoted her words—
"Dai Qin has no right to speak, and she can't even defend herself. It is precisely because of this that we women who are working hard in the workplace, women who have a certain social voice and influence, need to redouble our efforts to represent Tens of thousands of Dai Qin speak up and speak for them."
"I want to thank the lawyer who said this, and thank her for waking me up, and I am very grateful to myself for persisting in establishing the Maternal and Child Official Account of Qitian Dasheng, thank it for the traffic it brings me, and thank it for bringing Those of you who gave it to me, thank you for allowing me to have the right to speak and fight for Dai Qin."
"I only hope that from now on, no woman will be forced to kill her own child. I only hope that my daughter can live in a society that is more tolerant of women in the workplace. Today, please let me support Dai Qin and fight."
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Wang Fangfang commented very pertinently on this: "Anyway, as soon as this article came out, based on her influence, plus the popularity of Dai Qin's incident at the time, it was definitely scheduled to be a hot search, which definitely offended Guifeng Communication thoroughly. Can't Guifeng use these clues to identify which employee Qitian Dasheng is? If he can post like this, he must be ready to resign and don't want to do it, so he simply dragged Li Wanjun and Du Xinyi into the water before he died. , is a ruthless person. I appreciate it!"
"Why not, even with our Duanduan name on the hot search again, what's the topic? #Please to Daiqin and Bai Duanduan Apologize#, young people nowadays are really..."
Bai Duanduan didn't know who was behind Qi Tian's victory, but she was so excited that she rushed into Ji Lin's office almost without thinking, and wrote this article And the comments on the Internet were given to him—
"Look! I just said it! I'm not fighting alone! I just said it and words are never wasted because you never know who might hear what you say, or what you say unintentionally. The words may have changed someone." Bai Duanduan's eyes lit up, "Ji Lin, look."
Because of this article, many women in the workplace also stood up and shared their experiences of discrimination and unfair treatment in the workplace during pregnancy. All of a sudden, the discussion exploded, and the case of Dai Qin was sublimated, triggering an all-out discussion. A new online movement—
Speak For Her
Many women joined in, not only to speak out for the injustice suffered by pregnant women in the workplace, but also spread to speak out for disadvantaged women in other different fields.
"I feel like a little tinder. Although it's windy and rainy outside, I still ignite something else."
Bai Duanduan's voice was full of emotion and pride. At this moment, she suddenly felt that all the overtime work she had done before was meaningful: "Women still have to work hard and occupy various positions in all walks of life in society. The right to speak, if these positions are all occupied by men, no matter how considerate men are, they are not women after all, and they cannot really consider issues from a woman's standpoint." She glanced at Ji Lin, "Ji Lin! I'm done! I can continue to work overtime! Let the storm of overtime work be more violent! Tonight, please continue to arrange for me to work overtime!"
"..."
After Bai Duanduan finished speaking, he left happily just like when he came, leaving only Ji Lin sitting and looking at her leaving figure.
This girl, sometimes really... indescribably... cute.
Bai Duanduan is a person who is calm and mature at times, and at other times he is like this, a bit of a second grader, like a young fool, passionate and lively, hot-tempered, saying that the wind is the wind or the rain is the rain, and there is no economic benefit , also doing it in full swing, enjoying it, and full of truth, kindness and beauty.
In the past, Ji Lin probably felt that this was hypocrisy, but after getting in touch with him a lot, he also knew that Bai Duanduan really thought so in his heart. In the current popular words, sometimes she is kind and a bit of a saint, such as Ji Later, I found out that Bai Duanduan had to "go to the sea" to do housework for his mother because she lent Xu Zhixin a large sum of money and refunded the lawyer's fee, which has not been returned so far; In fact, it has nothing to do with her, but she became so excited again, as if she saw hope for future women...
It's really a bit silly, a bit Madonna.
In the past, Ji Lin probably scoffed at this, but now he feels that the world still needs such a silly little virgin.
Because she will care and see those who have a difficult life and are even neglected all the year round.
She is warm, fiery, and bright.
Ji Lin couldn't help but wonder, if he had met Bai Duanduan at the age of thirteen, wouldn't he have become like this? Will Bai Duanduan come to feel sorry for himself
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[Small Theater] by reader sheena
Ms. Meng: We do not like tigresses like you in Linlin! He wants to marry that kind of gentle and virtuous woman who can go up to the hall and go down to the kitchen!
when married
Ms. Meng: Why is it that we go up to the hall and go down to the kitchen? ?
[Update 8000 words tomorrow, and start entering the copy of the workplace line]