After giving birth to a child, Wishing can clearly feel that time has passed too fast.
Panda is very smart, he has learned to walk when he was about one year old, and he can say some simple words and make wishes. Looking at his cute appearance with short legs kicking and playing in the living room, I always feel that giving birth to him is just like what happened yesterday .
I saw such a sentence on Weibo before, after having a baby, time flies, and I especially agree with Wishing.
Although everyone has been tossed hard by him, but one has to admit that having such a child in the family is indeed a lot more lively.
Meng's father and mother would come to see Pang Da almost every day. They wished to know that, in fact, Meng's mother had thought about letting them move back to the old house. After all, people are getting older, and they like to have a lively home, and they also hope that they can take care of their grandchildren. It was Meng Zhengrong who talked with Meng's mother for a long time in person, and Meng's mother gave up this idea.
Making a wish is a sigh of relief. The problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has not been solved even by saints since ancient times.
Although the current relationship between her and Meng's mother is very harmonious, and in the eyes of outsiders, it is almost the same as mother and daughter, but that is because they do not live under the same roof, whether there will be conflicts when living together, this is everyone's opinion Unclear things.
Meng Zhengrong has always done a good job in this regard, but he will stand in front of her and help her solve any things that make making a wish difficult, so that making a wish will save a lot of worries.
But having said that, whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good or not, the most important thing is to see how the husband balances it.
Xu's father and Xu's mother also come here every two days. They both love Pang Da very much. .
Of course it should be cared for.
Pang Da is also very cute. The confinement sisters-in-law and nannies who take care of him love him very much, and they are also very attentive in taking care of him.
That night Meng Zhengrong came out of the shower, lay directly on the bed, made a wish when he came back from the nursery just now, closed the door behind his back, and said with a worried face: "Zhengrong, I feel that Pangda has inherited a very, very big shortcoming of yours. How to do?"
Meng Zhengrong raised his eyebrows, "Are there any flaws in me?"
What kind of words is this talking about.
Shouldn't he be perfect in her mind
Making a wish gave him a blank look, sat on the bed, and sighed, "Didn't you find that Panda likes to look in the mirror?"
"I thought it was something." Meng Zhengrong looked disapproving, "Children think mirrors are very strange, they are all like this."
Not to mention children, even cats and dogs will be curious when they see themselves in the mirror.
"The key is that he can sit in front of the floor-to-ceiling mirror for an hour or two a day without moving the floor!" Wishing wanted to laugh when she thought of this. The nanny told her before, but she didn't take it seriously. She asked for leave and stayed at home these two days When I was with Pang Da, I discovered his habit. Other children just learned to walk, and they couldn’t stop for a moment. Mirror, I would go to the dressing room where I made a wish every day, sit on the carpet and look at myself in the mirror. It is no exaggeration to say that it is common for me to look at myself for an hour or two.
Meng Zhengrong was amused when he heard this, "Look in the mirror for an hour or two?"
Make a wish and nod, "Yes, why does he like looking in the mirror so much? You know he doesn't smile often. Every time he looks in the mirror, he can be amused by himself. He laughs so happily."
"So?" Meng Zhengrong felt that his son's little habit was quite cute, and just thinking about it made the scene so cute.
Make a wish and said very seriously: "So, I think your son is quite narcissistic."
"What does little butt know. It's okay to like to look in the mirror. It's fine when he gets tired of looking in the mirror. This can also be related to narcissism. I'm convinced of you."
Wishing grace, "Then how do you explain that he will laugh when others praise him for being handsome?"
"He can't understand a lot of words now." Meng Zhengrong tried his best to explain to his son, "This is an accident, and it doesn't explain anything."
"Why don't you go over with me to confirm it?"
"Just go."
Meng Zhengrong followed the wish to the baby's room. Panda was indeed still awake. He was a very special boy. He didn't like listening to stories or singing to lull him to sleep. He just wanted to keep his eyes open and watch. Ceiling, keep it absolutely quiet, he'll be asleep in no time.
It happened that Pan Da was in a state of meditation at this moment.
Meng Zhengrong and Wishing leaned over to the crib, Pang Da glanced at his parents, his expression remained the same, he looked very calm.
"Try it." Wishing gave Meng Zhengrong a push.
Meng Zhengrong looked at his son, and said in that exaggerated tone of boasting, "Oh, we Panda are so handsome, I don't know how many girls will like it in the future."
It's time to witness the miracle!
Pang Da, who was still immersed in his own world with a cold face, actually grinned.
Meng Zhengrong rubbed his chin, could it be that his son really understood what they said
Then when he was alone with Pang Da before, he told Pang Da to be obedient and not sleep with them at night, it would make Dad hate him, did he understand
Could it be that his son has become a genius
Impossible impossible.
The two stopped disturbing Pang Da's handsome boy's sleep, and when they returned to the bedroom, Meng Zhengrong said helplessly as soon as he closed the door: "It seems that Pang Da does seem to be a little narcissistic."
"I can't stop him from looking in the mirror, and we can't stop others from praising him for being handsome." Pang Da is still young, and if he is narcissistic, he will be called cute and cute by others. If he grows up and still looks like this... then It's hard to say.
Meng Zhengrong: "..."
"But it would be nice to give him a mirror to make him quiet for a few hours." There may really be very good babies in this world, but her Pang Da is definitely not.
Before making a wish, I had never taken Panda with me. I didn’t know that taking care of children was very hard work. Panda knew who his mother was, and he was very attached to make a wish. When the company didn’t have much to do, he would take a rest at home for a day or two. Pang Da, when he really takes care of the child by himself, even for a day, he will find it very hard.
"Song Ci's wife is pregnant again." Meng Zhengrong said casually.
Wishing grace, "I know, I saw his circle of friends, his eldest son seems to be almost three years old, right?"
Thinking that it was two years ago that I attended Song Ci's son's full moon banquet, I couldn't help feeling that the days passed so quickly when I made a wish.
"I'll be three years old in a few months." Meng Zhengrong glanced at the wish, "Song Ci is still asking me today if we plan to have a second child."
Wishing to lie down, "Then what did you say?"
Meng Zhengrong would not bring up the topic of the second child for no reason, he must have wanted to test her meaning.
I don't know if he wants to have a second child.
"I said I didn't have that plan, Pang Da is still young."
"kindness."
Meng Zhengrong came over and held the wish in his arms, "What about you, do you want it?"
In fact, he doesn't want a second child in the past few years, so he doesn't know what he thinks about making a wish.
Wishing first shook his head, then nodded, "I still want to have another one, but not now, Panda is still young, and the company has a lot of things to do, I really don't have time to spare."
"That's good." Meng Zhengrong breathed a sigh of relief, "Song Ci actually didn't want to have a second child so soon, but his wife wanted to have one, so there was no way."
A fat man in the family is enough to cause trouble, and they have to sleep with them every two days, and Meng Zhengrong is particularly annoying to his son at night.
In the past, Pang Da was willing to sleep in the crib, but now it is different. Every time he sleeps with them, he has to sleep in the middle. Sometimes when Pang Da finally falls asleep, he can take the little fat man back to the baby room After making a wish, she was so tired that she fell asleep again, he couldn't bear to wake her up.
It would be great to make a wish and not want children now.
Sometimes Meng Zhengrong regrets that Pang Da should not have been born so early, obviously they can still be in love for more than a year!
Meng Zhengrong pulled up the quilt and covered it, put it close to Wishing's ear, and asked with a low smile, "Today, do you want to drive the manual transmission or the automatic transmission?"
This is the secret code of the two now.
During pregnancy, I wished to drive a manual transmission car.
As we all know, driving a car with a manual transmission is not as comfortable as an automatic transmission, and you have to step on your feet just to step on the clutch.
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After having Panda, Meng Zhengrong understood why many men wanted a daughter.
His family, Pang Da, treated him differently from Wishing. He was partial to the extreme and treated him differently to the extreme.
Pang Da is very smart, knowing that Meng Zhengrong is going to work every day in a suit and leather shoes, and knowing that wearing high heels, carrying a handbag and putting on exquisite makeup is also going to work when making a wish.
Children go to bed early and wake up early every day, and they are not ready to go to work until Pang Da has finished his breakfast.
Before Meng Zhengrong went to work and went out, he would hug Pang Da and kiss him, and then he would say: "Dad has gone to work to make money, and Pang Da is obedient at home."
Pang Da will not have the slightest nostalgia, sometimes when he is in a good mood, he will kiss Meng Zhengrong, so that Meng Zhengrong will be in a good mood all day long.
When it comes to Wishing, it is completely different. Wishing hugs him, kisses his fat face, scratches his double chin, Fat Da will hang on her body like an octopus, and will not let go even if he dies. When he came up to carry him away, he howled so loudly that the neighbors next door could hear him, and those who didn't know thought something had happened.
Everyone knows that he is reluctant to part with his mother, and he is also reluctant to part with Pang Da when he makes a wish.
At this time, Wishing and Pang Da would get bored with each other for a long time, and Meng Zhengrong just watched with cold eyes.
His son is good in everything, but he needs a little beating.
When he grows up, he will always find a reason to beat the fat boy.
The daughter's words are different. Listening to Song Chaowen's brat, his family is only six or seven months old, and every time he wants to go out, she is as reluctant to let him go as a little crying bag.
Hey.
If people compare themselves, they should die, and if they compare goods, they should be thrown away.
Wishing to ask for leave, she doesn't have to go to work in the company today, and can work directly at home. She leads Pang Da to send Meng Zhengrong to the door.
Panda is wearing overalls and a small hat, not to mention how cute and handsome he is.
"Mom... let's go, let's go." He took the wishing hand to go back to the villa.
Meng Zhengrong had a dark face, picked up Pang Da and put him on the passenger seat, intentionally scaring him, "You can go to work with Dad today."
If Meng Zhengrong paid attention to the calendar, he should know that traveling today is not good.
When Fat Da began to cry, Meng's father and Meng's mother came. Hearing the cry of his fat grandson, Meng's mother pushed Meng Zhengrong away, rescued Pang Da, and held Fat Da in his arms. There was a good comfort in his arms, "Pang Da don't cry, don't cry, don't cry."
"Daddy is bad, daddy is leaving!" Pang Da had already learned how to complain, and when he saw his grandparents coming, he hurriedly complained.
It is true that they say that they are intergenerational relatives. Father Meng, who has always been very strict with his son and daughter, stretched out his hand and hit Meng Zhengrong a few times. Woolen cloth."
dad!
This fat man is your own grandson, am I not your own son! !
Meng Zhengrong dared not speak out, and kept all these actions of Pang Da in his little book in his heart.
Or make a wish and come out to save the siege, "Zheng Rong is teasing Panda, Mom and Dad, have you had breakfast yet?"
The topic was changed, Meng Zhengrong gave Pang Da a hard look, got in the car and drove away.
He owed this little fat man in his previous life!
==
After the fat handsome boy officially celebrated his first birthday, Meng Zhengrong even coaxed and made a wish to go out for honeymoon together.
In fact, after getting married, we should have gone to the honeymoon immediately, but at that time, both of us were busy. Later, we made a wish and became pregnant. The reaction during pregnancy was very serious, and we couldn't go out to play at all. After Pang Da was born, he couldn't leave. Only later will the child understand that the time that belongs to him is really getting less and less.
Wishing also wants to see the outside world.
Because of the time difference, Wishing and Meng Zhengrong didn't have much time to make video calls with Pang Da. Their vacation was very short, only a few days, and they really didn't have time.
I can only accept small videos from Meng's father and mother on WeChat to see what Panda looks like every day.
Meng's mother said that Pang Da had obviously become more depressed these days, and would go to their bedroom every day to have a look, but he was also very good, and he would not cry when he couldn't find his mother.
It's just that I don't care about people anymore, but I eat more than before. I don't know if I am venting my dissatisfaction.
When Meng Zhengrong and Wishing came back, Pang Da was already unwilling to talk to them, he was indeed a very stubborn boy.
The family of three ate together, Pang Da sat on the child seat, made a wish and Meng Zhengrong sat next to him, and kept talking to him, "Pang Da, don't you know your mother? Mom bought you a lot A lot of toys are back."
Pang Da turned a deaf ear to this, saying that he was already used to living alone, and he could live a good life alone without this belated care.
Meng Zhengrong rubbed his chubby face directly, "The boy is still emotional, is he a man, isn't Mom and Dad just going out to play for a few days? Come, call Dad."
Even though Pang Da's face was reddened, Pang Da still didn't say anything.
He stared at the mashed potatoes on his plate as if they were his own.
Wishing and Meng Zhengrong tried their best, but Pang Da still ignored them.
After eating, Wishing to bathe Panda with Meng Zhengrong, he didn't even play with the yellow duck in the tub anymore!
This is so strange!
In the past, the baby who looked like a loach just sat in the bathtub, but today he sat quietly and made a wish to wash his hair, but he didn't move, and he didn't move when he was bathed.
Meng Zhengrong deliberately flicked his key parts with his fingers, but the handsome fat boy remained unmoved.
Even an adult would not be as persistent as Pang Da, and he could persist for such a long time. From now on, it can be seen that Meng Pangda, the little fat boy, will definitely not be someone in the pool in the future.
After taking a bath and wiping the fragrance, Wishing wanted to take Pang Da to sleep together, but she was still jet-lagged, afraid that it would affect the child's sleep, and Meng Zhengrong kept adding oil and vinegar to the side, what did Pang Da say? It's just that I didn't get used to it. It will be fine tomorrow, so I don't need to pay attention to him today, so I reluctantly handed over Pang Da to the confinement nanny.
Meng Zhengrong didn't take Pang Da's little awkwardness to heart at all.
It is not impossible for children to throw temper tantrums, but adults should not be too coaxed.
There are still many days before he goes out to play with Wish and leave him behind.
I was a little tired from making a wish. I just got out of the shower and lay on the bed trying to sleep when someone knocked on the door.
She pushed Meng Zhengrong and motioned him to open the door.
As soon as the door opened, the confinement wife was so anxious that she couldn't speak coherently, "Mister, madam, Fatty is spitting up milk, I don't know if he is sick."
Upon hearing this, Xu Yuan and Meng Zhengrong rushed to the nursery, and sure enough, Pang Da's clothes and the pillowcase were all covered with his vomited milk.
Meng Zhengrong picked up Pang Da and put his face against his forehead, wanting to see if he had a fever, but Pang Da just spit out another mouthful of milk.
At this time, Meng Zhengrong was also very anxious, and couldn't care less about being disgusted.
Wishing is so anxious that the eye sockets are red. If a child is sick, it is very troublesome. For adults, it is a minor illness, but for a baby, it is a serious illness.
Now she began to regret why she left Pang Da and went out to play. She didn't even know that the baby was uncomfortable. If she didn't come back today, how pitiful Pang Da would be.
After Pang Da was born, the Meng family hired a specialized children's doctor. They made a phone call, and within half an hour, several family doctors rushed over.
Pang Da hated these family doctors very much, because he had been sick before, gave him injections, and cried so hard that he was out of breath, these few people couldn't help it!
He deeply remembered the faces of these people, and when he saw them approaching, Pang Da turned his head away.
A doctor picked up Pang Da and examined him carefully, but found nothing abnormal.
There are not many things that can be filled in Pang Da's mind, what makes him happy, what makes him fearful, it just so happens that these doctors have created terrible memories for him.
Doctor = injection = very painful = they won't stop even if they cry.
If one doctor finds nothing, another doctor will check.
Pang Da thought he was about to get an injection, so he couldn't hold it any longer, and said not very quickly: "Drink, drink grandma..."
The doctor tried to ask the nanny to bring the milk bottle, and handed it to Pang Da, who quickly grabbed it, holding the milk bottle with a pair of chubby claws, and began to drink milk very obediently, drinking it deliciously.
He wanted to prove that he was not sick and did not need injections.
The doctor checked him again after he finished drinking the milk, "Mr. Liang and Mrs. Liang, Little Pangda should be fine. If you are worried, we can stay here overnight."
Wishing carefully picked up Pang Da from the crib, and Pang Da obediently hugged Wishing's neck, rubbed her face with his small fat face in remembrance, and shouted very obediently: "Mom..."
As if realizing that he should not be too partial, Pang Da looked at Meng Zhengrong again, "Dad..."
Meng Zhengrong asked the doctor: "Then why did he spit out the milk just now? He vomited as soon as he drank it."
"This..." The doctor couldn't answer this question, "Is the milk very hot?"
Meng Zhengrong: "..."
He looked at the confinement wife, and then at Pang Da who was tired of being with Wishing and refused to let go. He only heard Pang Da coquettishly, "Mom, sleep."
It means to sleep with mom.
Meng Zhengrong watched the scene of mother-child affection with cold eyes. He patted the doctor on the shoulder, "I'm in trouble today, so I don't need to stay here. I think my son is fine. Go back and rest early."
Of course his son is fine!
It's purely a beating!
As expected of a father and son, Meng Zhengrong deciphered the inner world of the handsome fat boy in minutes.
This kid obviously misses his parents badly, and when they come back, he pretends to be cold, pretends not to know them, and ignores them.
But this kid is very domineering, he probably thinks this way, he can ignore them, but they can't stop coaxing him.
It was probably because he returned to the room after making a wish, and no one accompanied him to perform the scene of "you ignore me yesterday, but you can't afford me today", so the fat boy immediately exploded.
He actually pretended to be sick to get their attention!
The doctor had given him injections before, and he knew these people, and he thought he was about to receive injections again, and he really couldn't pretend anymore, so he suddenly became "well" again.
Even Meng Zhengrong has to admire his son now.
With so much inner drama, isn't it reasonable not to go to the entertainment industry and get an Oscar back
From now on, his son should not be called Meng Pangda, but Meng Yingdi.