Pang Da started to go to kindergarten when he was three years old, which made Meng Zhengrong and Xu Hui both heave a sigh of relief.
Although Pang Da is taken care of by nannies and aunts for daily necessities of life, Xu's mother and Meng's mother will often take him home to take care of him for a few days, but Pang Da still prefers to be tired of being with his parents, so whenever he has Whenever there is a chance, Pang Da will be together with Meng Zhengrong and Xu Hui, which often keeps the two of them busy during their limited rest time.
Children at Pang Da's age are the most lively and active, and they can't stop at all. Let him go to the Children's Paradise for a while. Come down, leave both of you exhausted, lying in bed just wanting to sleep till the end of time.
In this way, once in a while with Pang Da, I feel exhausted. Gradually, Meng Zhengrong and Wishing have a tacit understanding and no longer mention the matter of having a second child.
Although Meng's mother and Xu's mother have hinted and stated more than once that as long as they have children, they will never be tired, but Meng Zhengrong and Xu Wish are no longer the rookie parents who didn't understand anything, and they will never give birth. Just leave all the children to others to take care of, because the baby will know who his parents are, and he will want to be close to his parents psychologically. No matter who usually takes care of him, he wants to be with his parents.
After Pang Da went to kindergarten, whether it was the nanny or Meng Zhengrong making a wish, it was much easier.
Just like most babies, Panda doesn't like to go to school.
Especially in winter, having to wake up early in the morning and not being able to sleep until he wakes up naturally is the most unbearable thing for Pang Da.
But no matter how clumsy he was, no one in the family took his side in this matter.
Just because he's in kindergarten now doesn't mean he can't go to school because he doesn't want to get up.
On this day, Meng Zhengrong needed to deal with business, so he took Pang Da to play with Shen Li when he made a wish. Shen Li is basically in a state of resignation now, as she said, unless she meets a very good, very good person The script will be filmed, but Shen Li is not completely a full-time mother. She opened a shop by herself and became the boss comfortably. Song Chaowen doesn't take on as many plays as before. I don't want to miss my daughter's childhood life.
Song Chaowen went to filming, and he won't be back until a few days later. Shen Li was very happy to make a wish to come and play with her, and took her to share the make-up he bought recently.
Letting Pang Da and Dong Nong play in the game room is considered a sneak time between the two adults' busy schedules.
When Shen Li was making a wish to try the red number, she remembered something and sighed, "Xiao Yuan, do you plan to have a second child now?"
Shaking his head without thinking about making a wish, "No."
Fortunately, Meng Zhengrong thought the same way. Having a baby is easy to say, but it is really too hard for a woman.
Maybe one day in the future she and Meng Zhengrong will have another child, but not now, she is very busy, and he is also very busy, it is already very difficult to find time to spend with Pang Da, let alone have another child.
"My mother-in-law told me about this matter yesterday, and I discussed it with Chao Wen again." Shen Li smiled wryly, "I plan to have a child after Nong Nong goes to primary school."
Now Pang Da and Dong Nong are both four years old, and they have to spend almost two years in kindergarten before they can enter elementary school.
Who can tell what will happen two years from now.
"Do you want to have another baby?" Wishing asked.
Shen Li didn't nod or shake her head, "Sometimes I want it, sometimes I don't want it, my parents-in-law and my parents are urging me to have a second child, saying that it's a bit deserted with only one child in the family, but I and Chaowen discussed it, and after two years when Nongnong is older, ask her for her opinion, although having a baby is our own business, but if we add a younger brother or sister to our family, we must always ask Nongnong."
"So fine."
Shen Li asked: "Why, didn't your parents-in-law urge you? Didn't your Zhengrong urge you?"
Wishing to raise his eyebrows, "It's fine if my parents-in-law urge me, why does Zhengrong urge me, a man doesn't have to endure ten months of torture, and he doesn't have to endure the pain of childbirth, he urges me as soon as he talks up and down. ?”
Shen Li laughed loudly, "Hahahaha, it seems that Meng is always eaten to death by you."
"Of course, he really doesn't want to have any more children now." Wishing for a while, "My father-in-law basically doesn't express any opinions on our affairs, but my mother-in-law and mother have talked about the second child several times. It was Zheng Rong who took care of it, and now we have come up with a plan, if anyone has a second child, send Pang Da there the next day and let them take care of them for a few days, and then they will stop for half a month."
Shen Li gave a thumbs up, "This method is good. When my mother-in-law reminds me again, I will send the child there and let her take care of it for a few days."
Only those who give birth and take care of their own children are qualified to decide whether to have a second child. Others don't feel back pain when they stand up and talk, and they often ask others to have a second child.
Two women in one room were discussing about their second child, and two children in another room were having fun.
Pang Da has quite a lot of friends in the kindergarten now, he doesn't like to play with girls very much, except for thick.
The relationship between the Meng family and the Song family is very good now. At that time, the Meng family also made a little effort to get Nongnong into the kindergarten where Pang Da was.
The two children are true childhood sweethearts, and they have been together often since birth. Pang Da is very patient with Nong, and he is hardly like a boy of this age.
Nong Nong looks very cute and beautiful. In order to protect her, Song Chaowen and his wife will not post her photos on Weibo. Both of them have a good relationship with reporters. Even if reporters take pictures of Nong Nong, they will make a mosaic.
Now Nong Nong is also four years old. Knowing the difference between men and women, he also knows about Aimei.
It is a woman's nature to love beauty, even if Dong Nong is only a little girl.
She likes to play with her mother's cosmetics, some of Shen Li's lipsticks are lost in Nongnong's hands.
On the carpet, there were several bottles of nail polish piled up. She picked out a bottle of her favorite bright red and looked at Pang Da expectantly.
Pang Da had a bad feeling, "What are you looking at me like that for?"
Thickly and softly replied: "Did Auntie Xiaoyuan tell you that you can't wear nail polish?"
Panda thought about it for a while, then shook his head.
Mom really didn't say that.
Dong Nong laughed even happier, his big eyes formed a crescent shape, "That's right!"
Pang Da is not a very patient person, but he basically responds to Dong Nong's requests. Although he doesn't like to wear this nail polish, he still stretches out his hand and honestly lets her play.
Seeing his nails turning red bit by bit, Pang Da's expression became more and more strange. Fortunately, he didn't lose his temper, and he didn't say anything.
In terms of treating girls, Pang Da is an absolute gentleman.
When Shen Li and Wishing found them, all ten fingers of Pang Da's hands were painted with nail polish, some were red, some were pink, and some were even black. Started laughing.
Shen Li hurriedly took a photo of Pang Da's hands. The nail polish on the fleshy hands was very conspicuous. After asking for permission to make a wish, she sent a Weibo.
[Nong Nong put on nail polish for Pang Da. Although Pang Da was reluctant, he let Nong Nong put it on. It's super cute.]
After a while, there were many comments on Weibo.
—Ah, wuli Panda is too warm! ! This is the most insane pair of CPs I've ever stood on! Taking this as proof, if these two babies get together in the future, I will give away a whole set of lipsticks from ysl by lottery! !
—Upstairs, when the two babies are together, I guess YSL's lipstick will be out of date by then hahahaha.
——I really envy Nong Nong for having such a warm and rich bamboo horse, I really envy Pang Da for having such a cute and beautiful green plum. As for me, I continued to eat dog food.
Song Chaowen went back to the hotel after filming, swiped Weibo and saw his wife's Weibo, and immediately felt bad.
He thought it was his patent to apply nail polish! !
Nong Nong has always painted his nails, but now he actually paints the nails of other brats, even if this brat is Fat Dana, whom he likes very much!
Song Chaowen didn't want to tell his wife about it, so he opened WeChat and began to scold Meng Zhengrong.
Anyway, his relationship with Meng Zhengrong is already very good now, so it doesn't matter to scold him.
Meng Zhengrong was baffled when he received the WeChat message, but when he posted on Weibo, he immediately understood.
If his Fatty was a girl, he would probably be outraged if the same thing happened to him.
In fact, although many men prefer their daughters, they are treated equally in their bones, but men will be stricter with their sons and more pampered with their daughters.
In other words, the hard-working pig and the hard-planted cabbage actually cost the same effort and the same attention, but the pig will not feel bad if it is someone else's cabbage. If the pigs come to hog their own cabbage, it is really going to be desperate.
When I got home at night, the nail polish on Pang Da's nails had been washed off. Meng Zhengrong hugged him and joked, "So our son likes nail polish?"
Panda took a look at Meng Zhengrong, blushing with anger, "I don't like it!!"
He's a boy, he doesn't like to paint these things on his nails!
Meng Zhengrong asked with a smile: "Oh? Then why did you let thick nail polish?"
Fat Da held back for a long time, "She is thick, she is a girl!"
That is to say, because she is thick, because she is a girl, so let her go, be patient with her, even if you put on nail polish, you can bear it.
Meng Zhengrong also had to sigh in his heart that his son was much stronger than when he was a child.
In terms of treating girls, Pang Da did a very good job.
"What if other girls want to paint your nails?" Meng Zhengrong asked again.
If any girl is willing to come, then you need to think again.
It's good for girls to be gentlemen, but it's warm for every girl, then...
Pang Da shook his head without thinking, "No."
"Why?" Wishing came over, just in time to hear this conversation, and was also curious about what his son was thinking, so he asked.
Panda can basically say anything now, "Other girls are not thick, thick is my good friend, and she is different from other girls."
Wishing to kiss Pang Da directly on the face, "Our Pang Da is so smart and well-behaved."
Although it is said that Pang Da is still many years away from the age of adulthood and the age to fall in love, as a parent, isn't it necessary to teach him the principles of being a man from an early age
Wouldn't it be too late to teach him when he was old enough to fall in love
Being human is important, and being a man is also important.
Although Panda is still just a little boy now.
Pang Da was a little shy when he heard his mother praise him like this, his ears turned red quietly, but he still pretended to be calm and said indifferently: "What's the matter."
Wishing was amused by Pang Da's expression.
Now Pang Da doesn’t like others to bathe him and insists on washing himself. However, he can’t wash it clean every time. He made a wish and asked Pang Da. He felt that the aunts and nanny at home were all women, and he was a man, so he was a little embarrassed , Even if he wished to help him take a bath, he was a little embarrassed, and in the end Meng Zhengrong could only go out to bathe Panda himself.
After Pang Da took a shower, Xu Zhi sat by the bed and chatted with him.
It is very strange that Pang Da does not like listening to fairy tales like other children, he prefers to chat with people.
So every night before going to sleep, either to make a wish or Meng Zhengrong would come to chat with him and leave after he went to sleep.
Wishing thought of what Shen Li said during the day, she glanced at Pang Da, organized her vocabulary, and asked: "Pang Da, mom asks you a question, please answer it honestly."
Pang Da opened his big eyes and looked at the wish, "Mom, I have always been honest with you."
"Really? Then last week you lied to your mother that you were unwell, but in fact you didn't want to go to school. What's going on?" Wishing mercilessly exposed Pang Da.
Fat Da struggled, "Mom, can you stop talking about this?"
"Then you can't lie to your mother that you don't feel well next time."
"...Okay." Pang Da's expression of "I really can't do anything about you" on his face was amused to death.
"Back to the topic." Wishing reached out his hand and touched Pang Da's chubby face, "Pang Da, many children in your class have younger brothers or sisters, do you want a younger brother or a younger sister?"
Fat Da stared at the wish, seemingly lost in thought.
Wishing was not in a hurry to ask for an answer, but patiently waited for his answer.
After a while, Pang Da replied, "Mom, it's not whether I want a brother or sister, but whether you and Dad want another son or daughter."
After making a wish, he failed to understand what Pang Da meant, so he was stunned for a moment before asking, "What do you mean?"
Fat Da sighed exaggeratedly, stretched out his chubby paws from under the quilt, and touched her face imitating the movement of making a wish, "Mom is so stupid, I mean, you want a daughter, I will I just want my sister."
After understanding the wish, she almost couldn't help but kneel down to her son's high level of thought.
Her Pang Da actually understands things that many adults can't understand! !
Panda is actually so sensible and so obedient! !
Whether she wants a brother or sister depends on whether she and Meng Zhengrong want a son or daughter. How lucky are she and Meng Zhengrong to be Fat Da's parents.
After making a wish, I couldn't hold back and kissed Panda several times, "Mom's baby is really the smartest and most sensible child in the world!"
It was the first time Pang Da was praised like this, and he felt a little embarrassed, "Mom is the smartest and most sensible mother in the world!"
The mother and son looked at each other and laughed, the atmosphere was very warm.
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However, the next day, Wishing and Meng Zhengrong were called over by the kindergarten teacher because they were the smartest and most sensible Panda.
The kindergarten teacher knew the identities of the couple, and also knew how much funding the kindergarten received from the Meng family every year. It can be said that everyone who can be a teacher in this kindergarten is an elite in the field of early childhood education. On the issue of education, teachers don't want to be vague.
Wishing to sit in the office with Meng Zhengrong, the teacher poured tea for both of them, and then sat down, "Yucheng's father, Yucheng's mother, thank you for coming here in your busy schedule. The thing is like this, today Meng Yucheng Got into a fight with a classmate."
When the two of them heard the teacher calling Pang Da's name, they were a little dazed for a moment, but they soon came back to their senses.
Panda fights with someone?
Meng Zhengrong was the first to react, and asked calmly, "Fighting? What's the reason?"
The teacher smiled, thinking that the parents' education method can be seen from this trivial matter.
As soon as the parents of another child came over, they asked the child if he had been hurt, and even wanted to settle accounts with Pang Da's family. However, when another teacher mentioned Pang Da's name, the parents immediately stopped. sounded.
Pang Da's parents were different. They first asked what happened to cause the child to fight. In fact, thinking about it, the reason why he could speak so calmly was that the child was fine.
Concern is chaotic, but sometimes it cannot be chaotic.
"Father Yucheng, what is the specific reason, I think it's better for Yucheng to tell you in person." It's not that the teacher doesn't want to talk about the ins and outs of this matter, but he still thinks this matter is actually a good opportunity to train children , if it is said by children, it is actually much better than that of adults.
Meng Zhengrong and Xu Yuan exchanged glances, but did not pursue the question further.
Wishing looked at the teacher and asked politely: "Teacher, are the two children hurt?"
The teacher replied: "The other kid's elbow was bleeding, and the skin was scraped, but the doctor said it's nothing serious, and there will be no scars."
Wishing and nodded, "What about our Yucheng?"
"…no injuries."
I don't have to go to school this afternoon, Xu Yuan and Meng Zhengrong followed the teacher to Pang Da's class, and took Pang Da to go home.
Wishing also specifically said to the teacher, "Teacher, if it's convenient over there, we want to find out what happened and go to see the child."
The teacher said kindly, "Okay. I will pass it on."
Along the way, Pang Da didn't say a word, his face was sullen, and he was in a very bad mood. Wishing to talk to him, but seeing him like this, he didn't say anything, giving the child some time to think.
After returning home, Meng Zhengrong led Pang Da to the bedroom, made a wish followed closely, and closed the door.
Although the teacher did not specifically say what happened, it is known that it was Pang Da who made the first move.
Meng Zhengrong squatted down, looked at Pang Da, and asked, "Pang Da, can you tell Dad why you are fighting with others?"
Pang Da didn't speak, but turned his head stubbornly, looking like he planned to stop talking.
The wish was not that he didn't want to take care of this matter, but seeing that Meng Zhengrong was already asking and taking care of it, he decided to hand over this matter to Meng Zhengrong.
She sat aside and didn't speak.
Meng Zhengrong asked again: "Pang Da, Dad wants to know what happened. Why did you fight with others? Please tell Dad."
Pang Da's little handsome guy didn't know what was going on, but he didn't want to say it. After Meng Zhengrong patiently asked a few times, Pang Da turned around and was about to leave, refusing to answer the question directly to deal with the matter.
In fact, children are very stubborn when they lose their temper. They don't listen to how to coax or say anything.
Meng Zhengrong also became a little angry for a while, grabbed Pang Da, and said very seriously: "Meng Yucheng, let me ask you one last time, what happened."
Fat Da's face flushed red, he stared at his father, and suddenly burst into tears.
Even Meng Zhengrong was stunned, Fat Da likes to fake crying, even now, he seldom really cries, especially after entering kindergarten, but now he is really crying.
Crying very loudly, but also very wronged.
Wishing to see him like this, she felt very uncomfortable, but she made up her mind to leave this matter to Meng Zhengrong, so she had no choice but to hold back, didn't say anything, didn't do anything, and never hugged Fat Da as usual Coax well.
What they now know is that Pang Da took the initiative to beat other children, and other children were also injured, but Panda has always refused to tell them what happened.
So, they can't coax him now.
"I'm right!" Fat Da said only one sentence from the beginning to the end, crying out of breath.
After a while, Shen Li called, it was from Nong Nong and Xu Wish.
On the phone, Nong Nong told Xu Wish that Pang Da hit someone because the little boy bullied a little girl in the class, and Pang Da couldn't stand it.