Gu Yan did not suffer from postpartum depression after giving birth, but she was really not very happy.
She was gloomy, nothing was too uncomfortable, and nothing was too happy.
Gu Yan didn't want to leave, so Mo Yichen made a special trip to get a wheelchair to push her. The two of them walked on the grass in the yard, and the wheels of the wheelchair pressed against the green grass.
Behind him, Mo Yichen said to her while pushing her.
"I feel like you're depressed. What's wrong? Are you in a bad mood?"
In the past two days, she didn't speak much or smile much. The most she did was sit there in a daze.
Mo Yichen had heard someone say that there was postpartum depression.
He didn't know what kind of psychology that was. After all, he was not a woman and couldn't understand that feeling.
In the wheelchair, Gu Yan muffled his voice.
"It's nothing, I don't know myself, I just feel like I can't be happy... "
Seeing this, Mo Yichen thought for a while, and then he said to her.
"You just stayed in the house for too long. When you are in a bad mood in the future, I will push you out for a walk and relax. This way you will feel better. I think people can't come out if they stay in the house for a long time." , it will really make you choke... "
Regardless of whether what he said made sense or not, Gu Yan also felt that this was the state he was in.
Now that she has gone out for a walk, her mood has indeed improved a lot.
When she stayed in the house, she would always be in a depressed mood, always thinking of unpleasant things from the past.
Therefore, Gu Yan thinks that this is what the so-called postpartum depression refers to, right
If you haven’t let go of the past unpleasantness, you will think of it as soon as you calm down, and of course you will suffer from postpartum depression. Especially for ordinary families, living in such a small house, it is more likely to cause postpartum depression.
Gu Yan agreed with Mo Yichen's approach, she said.
"Well, if I feel bad in the future, you can push me out for a walk to relax. Maybe my mood will get better..."
Seeing her agreement, Mo Yichen nodded.
"okay… "
Mo Yichen looked at Gu Yan from behind. She had not lost weight yet and still looked a little fat, but he did not dislike her now.
She had just given birth and could not get back into shape so quickly.
Moreover, she has been in a bad mood recently, so it is even worse for him to ask her for this. Moreover, she is expelling lochia every day and her body has not recovered.
Mo Yichen pushed her here for a walk, and then pushed her in.
He went to take care of the baby. Gu Yan looked at the baby, but she didn't have much interest.
For some reason, she found that sometimes she cherished the child, but sometimes she felt upset when she saw the child.
Gu Yan couldn't tell why, it was just a matter of mood, and she couldn't tell.
Fortunately, when she was upset, Mo Yichen didn't bother her with the child. At this time, Gu Yan didn't like the small one, but the big one, that is, Xiangyan.
Xiangyan has grown up and is already sensible.
Therefore, no matter what Gu Yan calls Xiangyan, Xiangyan can at least communicate.
The little one is not good. It cries all the time. It will cry even if it doesn't cry. When Gu Yan is in a good mood, she can be indulgent. When she is in a bad mood, she will really have impulsive emotions.
Therefore, Gu Yan knew this shortcoming of hers, so she tried not to take care of the children and let Mo Yichen take care of them.
He has a good temper towards the little one, so it will be safer if he takes it with him.
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Because of her physical weakness, Gu Yan has been taking supplements these days. Otherwise, she would have even less strength. Now she has no strength to even walk. When she goes outside, she relies on Mo Yichen to push her wheelchair.
It's not even dinner time yet.
Gu Yan was sitting on the sofa eating porridge. She especially likes to eat porridge recently. The small porridge with pickled mustard is really delicious.
Mo Yichen was very busy.
Because Gu Yan refused to take care of the children, he had to take care of the company's affairs while trying to find as much time as possible to take care of the children.
He was really too busy to sit down and take a break.
At this moment, Mo Yichen finally coaxed the little one to sleep. When he went downstairs, he saw Gu Yan sitting there eating porridge.
She is watching TV. Maybe this TV has finally aroused her interest. At this moment, she is watching it with gusto and laughing from time to time.
Seeing that Gu Yan was in a rare good mood, Mo Yichen raised his eyebrows.
He asked her as he walked down.
"It's rare, I finally smiled a little today... "
Hearing this, Gu Yan looked over and when she saw it was him, she raised her eyebrows but said nothing.
Mo Yichen came down to the stairs, he walked towards her and asked.
"What to eat?"
On the sofa, Gu Yan looked down at the porridge in the bowl, then she looked up at him and answered.
"Porridge… "
After Mo Yichen arrived, he sat down next to her and saw her eating. Mo Yichen knew that every time Gu Yan ate, she was mostly in a good mood.
And she especially likes to find things to do when eating, just eating and watching at the same time.
He didn't know if this method was healthy or not. Anyway, this method could make Gu Yan feel better, so he let her go and even encouraged her to eat this way.
There is nothing more important than a person's mood.
Mood is definitely the root of all things.
Gu Yan seemed to be in a good mood after eating. She no longer cared about him and was eating while watching her TV.
Seeing this, Mo Yichen didn't bother her, he just asked her.
"Is there more? I want to eat too..."
He was a little hungry, it was true. He had been taking care of the children and was so tired that he was obviously hungry, but he didn't have time to eat something.
Seeing that he also wanted to eat, Gu Yan turned to look at him and nodded.
"Yes, there is still something in the pot, go ahead and scoop it out..."
Seeing this, Mo Yichen stood up immediately and actually went. Gu Yan looked at it and said nothing. Rich people also eat porridge sometimes, so it's nothing.
At home, he is not a rich man, he is just her husband.
Mo Yichen went to scoop out a bowl, and then started eating with Gu Yan on the mustard on the coffee table. He was talking while eating.
"I'm starving to death. I've been taking care of the children just now and I'm so tired that I don't even have time to eat... "
She listened and found it funny.
She turned to look at him and hummed.
"You deserve it. Who told you to insist on giving birth? Are you okay now? Since you insist on giving birth, then you are responsible for taking care of the child. Anyway, I will not take care of the child when I am in a bad mood... "
Seeing this, Mo Yichen curled his lips and he leaned against her.
"Okay, okay, I don't want you to take care of me, okay?"
Gu Yan didn't say anything. Anyway, she really didn't want to take care of the child recently. After she gave birth to the child, she couldn't even take care of it.
If she has done everything, then what's the use of having a husband of hers who doesn't need to give birth or take care of her
The two ate porridge and chatted there.
Gu Yanpo didn't like to talk about children, so Mo Yichen talked to her about other things, so that Gu Yan could feel better.