Zhang Xiaobao naturally didn't know that his father was also thinking about it. He, Wang Juan and Li Xun came outside the tent where the child was crying, and said to the inside: "Can you let us see."
The sudden sound made the child inside stop crying, and after a few breaths, the crying sounded again, louder than before.
The housekeeper inside didn’t know who was talking outside, but knew that there were patrolling people. He wouldn’t be a wicked person. He opened the tent and looked up, and immediately greeted, “It turns out that it’s the little son and the little lady. Come here so late. , Come in and have a rest."
After all, Zhang Xiaobao had different identities. The farmers were very respectful when they saw it. The three people entered the tent one after another. Zhang Xiaobao smelled it. There was no unpleasant smell. There was a smokeless brazier beside it, and it was not cold.
When the child was placed on the thick cushion, Zhang Xiaobao and Wang Juan both remembered that the child was only nine months old, and he was screaming with his mouth open. The man in the family looked helpless.
"Come on, let me hug the baby, tell me, why are you crying?" Wang Juan leaned forward, stretched out his hands, and prepared one hand on the baby's back and the other on the corner of the baby's legs. .
Zhang Xiaobao quickly opened up to Wang Juan, "You can't hug a child like this. The child's waist is soft. It makes you cry even harder in such a hug. Look at me."
While talking, Zhang Xiaobao sat down on his knees, his right hand passed under the child’s arm, his hand was just under the child’s other armpit, and his left hand was half arched to support the little baby’s ass, and placed the little baby. On his lap, he said to Li Xun: "Go outside and get a lantern."
Li Xun didn't know what Zhang Xiaobao was going to do, so he turned around, called a patrol man, asked for the lantern, and returned to the tent.
"Pick him on the head of the baby, cuckoo, come and sit side by side with me, leaning out slightly, we block behind him together, and use our bodies to block where he can see from the rest of the light."
Zhang Xiaobao said something to Li Xun, and arranged for the cuckoo. Wang Juan curiously followed Zhang Xiaobao's words.
"You two sit next to me and the cuckoo, not on the two sides, but in the front. Let the little baby extend the position of one person on both sides, and you can block it there. Don't worry about the little baby's eyes directly in front."
Zhang Xiaobao told the couple again. They started sitting in the wrong place and quickly changed it. They were already angry when the other person did it, but they felt happy because the host’s little son was holding his son. .
After a few people made arrangements, the little baby who was still crying suddenly stopped the sound, with her small mouth slightly open, letting the halazi flow down, blinking her big eyes, looking at the place in front, then turned her head and looked around, giggles He laughed twice and put his two small hands on one of Zhang Xiaobao's arms and chest.
"Xiaobao, why doesn't he cry? I thought he was urinating or pulling, and then he cried when he was hungry. What's the matter with you?" Wang Juan thought this thing was really amazing. Asked Zhang Xiaobao.
Zhang Xiaobao moved his head to the side of the little baby's head, pressed it gently, and kissed the little baby again. The little baby laughed louder, and he tilted his head to top Zhang Xiaobao, and Zhang Xiaobao leaned forward and touched it. The little baby chuckled and tilted his head to Wang Juan.
This time Zhang Xiaobao explained: "It's actually very simple. Just like there are people watching and patrolling in our house, everyone knows that there are light and dark guards nearby to protect them, and sleep will be stable. The same is true for patrolling people here.
The adults know that they are trying to hint themselves, but the little children don’t know. As long as they find that their living environment has changed and the temperature has changed, they will feel uncomfortable. To be precise, it is fear, especially when there are no more people around them, and there is no light. When the light is in the air, they will cry to find the things they want.
The position we stayed in just blocked the left, right and back of the little boy. He knew that someone was there, and he didn’t need to use it in front. If he narrowed his vision, he would feel that he could deal with the threat from the front. This is a kind of instinct.
If there are few people in the family, and there is only one person, then put a thick cushion on the corner of the wall, let the little baby’s back rest on the cushion on the wall, and pull up two cloths that can block the side. Or curtains, the little baby can see the front, lean to the back, there are shelters around, light up the lights, when he is not hungry or urinating, he will not cry. "
Zhang Xiaobao finished saying this to Wang Juan with lips, and kissed the baby again, and the baby laughed as well.
Wang Juan had never heard of such a thing before, so he thought about it and said, "Then why do the children stop crying as long as they breastfeed?"
"The child stopped crying. It was not because the child was hungry and ate milk. It was because of the mother’s body temperature and the mother’s embrace. The feeling of protection, if the child is not too afraid of emptiness, just hold it in his arms, kiss him, let him feel that he is not alone, and the child will stop crying.
But sometimes it’s not enough just to embrace. It is necessary to create a big atmosphere. Just like now, we may not see Li Xun standing there, but the children can feel that very magical things, when people grow up, This instinct will be hidden or deliberately changed. "
Zhang Xiaobao is very experienced in this area. After he became famous, he also studied it specifically, just to make the children in the orphanage better.
When Wang Juan heard what Zhang Xiaobao said so mysteriously, he shivered and said, "That is to say, adults are not like this? But why are adults also empty?"
"That just shows that the sixth sense is inherited from genes. This feeling is the oldest primitive people will not deliberately change, so they have a unique perception of danger, but we have to cultivate this feeling again when we grow up. , Isn't it a bit sad
Why are the children in the passage made of straw willing to play? Why do adults like to decorate their homes? This is because the information from genes cannot be eliminated. If you want to protect yourself and hide yourself, if you think about it, we always hope that there is a high wall behind an empty place.
If you still don’t understand, just go to see animals, such as dogs. When kept in a house, as long as the temperature drops and there are fewer people in the house, it will run to the corner to stay and let the surrounding scenery be in control. In my own vision. "
When Zhang Xiaobao was talking, he kept covering the little baby’s belly button with his free left hand, and said a few words to Wang Juan with his lips, and the little baby went to sleep with his eyes closed, with one hand resting on Zhang Xiaobao’s left hand. , One hand is clenched into a small fist.
Wang Juan looked at the little boy and then at Zhang Xiaobao. He felt very magical. It was as simple as that and the child stopped crying. It turned out that loneliness and inability to control are the most unbearable things.
The adult of the two-children also let go of his heart when he saw the child was asleep. He was worried when he heard the child cry and couldn't help it.
"The little son is great, and the master is the master, and it is not comparable to us dealers." The child's father looked at his peacefully sleeping son with joy and boasted.
Zhang Xiaobao carefully handed the child into the hands of the child's mother, and said, "Hold the child to sleep at night."
Zhang Xiaobao was a little tired. When he was holding the baby just now, his whole body was relaxed, so that the child was comfortable. He was still young. He used to hold the baby since he was five years old.
In the grateful gaze of the couple, the three of them walked out of the tent. Li Xun still held the lantern in his hand, and shook it and said to Zhang Xiaobao: "You are amazing. When the child is in your hand, he won't cry anymore. What is it? I will also learn later."
"This is everyone's credit. You will find me when you have a baby and cry, and I will teach you." Zhang Xiaobao felt that he could make a teaching material on baby care. Otherwise, the dealer would see what he and Wang Juan usually do. Things, easy to follow, can you learn
He and Wang Juan can feel their own physical things, and they can adjust and exercise reasonably. Other children can't, what do they know? The reason for the high mortality rate of children here is that they usually take little care of them, and there is no systematic discipline. Even if the children can't speak, their every move is actually expressing their thoughts.
Wang Juan walked by, thinking about what happened just now, and said to Zhang Xiaobao: "Do you have anything to do, or else tell me what to do in such detail? I don't understand."
"It's okay, just nonsense, don't go to your heart." Zhang Xiaobao replied very naturally.
"It's okay? People like you have to keep an eye on every move and every move. If others say it's okay, I believe it, you, tell me quickly, what are you going to do?" Of course, Wang Juan would not believe that Zhang Xiaobao did this deliberately. The relaxed look.
"I'll know later. It's the same as turning Sanshui County into Shangxian County. It has a direct relationship with the development of civilization." Zhang Xiaobao only revealed such a sentence.
Wang Juan lowered his head and began to ponder, but he couldn't think of the reason.
Li Xun remained silent, recalling what he had just seen. The child's own parents couldn't coax him well. Zhang Xiaobao arranged it and laughed immediately. It was really weird. Did that expert even teach this
"Xiaobao, the shipyard over there will start to be built tomorrow, won't you come and have a look with me?" Li Xun, who hadn't thought about it clearly, asked Zhang Xiaobao and Wang Juan when he thought about the shipyard.
"No, it's too far. It will take at least half a month to get from here to there in the state capital, right?" Zhang Xiaobao estimated the distance. His father was the local tribute who went there for the test, and he would go there for half a month.
"It was winter, now the road is easy, take my car, my horse pulling the cart, whether to go, I will ask you tomorrow." Li Xun still didn't give up.