"Is it true?" Zhu Lingling was still asking.
"How should I put it, there is a little conflict, but it's not a big problem... How can a couple not quarrel after a long time." Huo Mian explained it lightly.
I don't want to make my friends worry about my family affairs too seriously.
"Hey, that doesn't count. Gao Ju and I have been married for several years, and we basically quarrel. But as the saying goes, couples quarrel at the bedside over the bed, and there are no overnight feuds... In fact, we only know after we get married. , Marriage is the kind of thing that even if it’s so noisy, you still don’t forget to buy some groceries when you come back, it’s just trivial. I used to feel a sense of loss. I felt that after getting married, Gao Ran didn’t treat me as well as before. , always thinking about whether he was in the police station and had a crush on the new intern or something... Later, I felt that it was just to make things difficult for myself. I watched a program the other day, and an emotional host said something very right. , and it’s very fair, I’ll tell you about it today.”
"Okay." Huo Mian smiled and replied with one word to Zhu Lingling.
Because she was the one who usually comforted Lingling, she didn't expect that woman to have such a delicate side. Huo Mian was really looking forward to how she would comfort him.
Later, Lingling Chu was too lazy to type and just said, "She said that men chase women with all kinds of enthusiasm before marriage. After marriage, many women feel that they have been left out. They don't know how to cherish what they get. In fact, It's not like that. The reason why a man chases you before is because chasing you is a difficult process. The key point is here, so he greets you every day. After marriage, the man's focus naturally shifts because he has to go out to fight, work, make money, and support his family. In order to make a living, I have to take care of the food, drink, and urination of my family, and I have to take care of my future baby, so I have no time to talk about love with you all day long. The shift in focus does not mean that I don’t love you, but it is a natural process of love turning into marriage. As long as he doesn't cheat, has no outsiders in his heart, and works hard for this family, then why bother all day long that he doesn't love you as much as before? I'm so busy that I don't have the time to think about dating or singing all day long. Let's just talk about our group. We used to go out and have fun every day. Now, Xiaowei is taking care of Wei Yunchu while working. It's the hardest thing for you to take care of Boyuan. You have to worry about the twins at the same time, so where can you think about romantic affairs? Those are all mistresses' things. You have nothing to do all day long, beautify, drive, and make love to men. Have a soup, get an oil massage, get a new haircut, drink some red wine or something.
"Lingling, what you said... is absolutely right. I agree with your point of view." Huo Mian said cogently.
"Right, so I said, don't embarrass Mr. Qin too much. Let the couple talk to each other if they have anything to say, and discuss any matters. It doesn't count Xiaowei. Me, you, Gao Ran, Qin Chu, we The four of them have been fooling around together since high school. After so many years, they all know who they are and what their character is. If Mr. Qin cheated on me, I would never believe it. Of course... if you and I I won’t believe it if a male doctor has an extramarital affair, it’s all bullshit.”
"Um... I had an extramarital affair with a male doctor. Is this what my Doudin said?" Huo Mian couldn't laugh or cry.